as most providers find this a key problem and allow for it.

You mention that you sometimes come from a gym; doesn't that place have showers?

In any case, using wipes is a poor substitute for a shower, and cologne probably only exacerbates the problem.

See if you can join some place with shower facilities so you can stop there first and clean up, or find some other time to schedule with her when you can otherwise clean up beforehand.

have you just tried?  Is she a massage only? She might not work in a place that has shower facilities if it is an office situation.  Just explain yourself and ask her for options.

do you think that ladies always shower between appointments

Many girls, especially those working for an agency, have back to back to back to back bookings...
sometimes 8-10 guys a day,
from morning to evening.

There is little to no time in between to shower.

Yes the thought of it disgusts me too but the truth is, they use wipes and perfume as well.

Chances are, hobbyists such as your self are cleaner than providers who have a ton if appointments a day.

Uh thats gross

Using cologne or perfume instead of a shower doesnt work it just makes it worse.Using Baby wipes or anything along that line is gross.The gym has showers take one there.And if a lady refuses you a shower find someone else.A lot of ladies WANT a freshly showered man,myself included.

...not only my own but also my dates as well.

The following is a message that I posted on the General Board a few years back.  
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With every provider that I have ever shared time with, before I got down to sticking my tongue into her I would perform a simple acid test to determine that all was squeaky clean and healthy.

I would take the narrow corner of a hotel hand towel and gently push it into her vagina, I would patiently work it along until the end of the towel finally reappeared from her butt hole.

Once there was enough towel sticking from both ends I would then grasp the towel with both hands, my left hand holding the front section of towel and my right hand holding the rear section. I would then commence pulling the towel in a brisk front then back motion making sure to use equal pressure. I would continue this cleaning and polishing process until I felt certain that dining would be pleasurable.

I would then pull the towel out the back end as not to contaminate the pussy and then have a look see inside. If I could see light shining from the other entrance I knew that it was a job well done.

Bon Appetite !

Why don't you shower in the gym?  Can't you go home to shower (unless you're married of course). Hmmm ... or go to a truck stop where they have shower facilities LOL.

When I am in a rush to see a provider and am unable to shower, I just make a trip to the nearest self service car power wash. I strip down, jump in the bed of my pick-up, pump 2.50 in the coin slot, and off I go.  The water is warm and there is  plenty of sudsy soap to go around. On a cautionary note, be careful the high pressure wash can sting the genital area.  Sometimes, I splurge and purchase a car freshener which I place in my shorts for extra freshness.

What's the difference between a woman in church and a woman in the tub?

A woman in church has hope in her soul. (think about it)

GET SOME SHOWER SHOES

And shower at the gym.  What is your hangup with using a shower at the gym?

There is no assurance that she is cleaning herself up. Do you really want to see someone that likely has bad or indifferent hygiene?

"I would like to schedule with her after work or gym but I cannot do it if there is no way to shower before the massage."

 What kind of gym doesn't have showers ?

she should have a shower plus a fully stocked medicine cabinet- Mouth wash , spray on deodorant, disposable combs, ect...