You should feel honored that these women have opened up to you, and continue to respect their privacy. If a lady is giving you more information than you want and killing the mood for you, gently change the topic.

I imagine that a provider's lifestyle can be pretty isolating, and the ladies you describe just needed someone to talk to.
And you are not the only one. I am sure most of us have had  similar experiences. In my case, however, it has never gotten in the way of a good time. Rather, it has added to the intimacy. But you are the client, and if it isn't working for you, there must be a tactful way to move things in a different direction.


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Even though it's intimacy for hire, any provider I see becomes part of a very small and special subset of the people I've known in my life, so I'd like to know as much about her as she's willing to share.

I consider every encounter I’ve ever had (paid-for or “free”) to have been one of my life's highlights, so I'd like to remember, as a person, each and every woman who was kind enough to create those highlights with me.

Talk away, ladies!

I've noticed the same thing, and relate it to a similar phenomenon I have experienced on airplanes. To me that's a little stranger than providers and hobbyists opening up to each other - somehow it makes more sense for the social barriers to break down when the clothes come off.

I had the same experience as you did with a very young escort - I saw her on her first solo date. In my thank you note to her the next morning, I shared my concern that she told me too much about herself, and also shared that same concern with the more experienced provider who was helping her get started.

However, one of the more interesting providers I've ever met did this to me. We "talked about everything" throughout the evening, yet upon reflection, she told me absolutely nothing about herself. That was a masterful performance!

The best thing to do is to listen. It makes the provider feel more at ease. Many of these women come from rough backgrounds. Alot of the men in their personal lives are real jerks. By listening you give them a way to feel relaxed around you. Women like to connect with the partners they have. It is more than slam bam thank you mam.

Sometimes you can learn some good intel about other providers and get recommendations etc.