I wouldn't ask for that very reason...I wouldn't want to get a client stressed about anything or over thinking it. That would be an awkward mood killer IMO...all guys don't stay on hard all the time or get rock hard instantly...
Posted By: escalade1964
well......yeah, I'm doing this ain't I but I digress.
When, I do not get hard 5 seconds after they grab my cock, I have been asked;
Is everything OK? What can I do to get you hard?
I guess that is nice but it never seems to work as then I think more about it.
The fact is, I'm no longer 30, am usually stressed about something....
Just keep doing what you do best and it will happen!
What do you do in these situations? Do you talk about it with the hobbyist?
Your thoughts if any?
-- Modified on 12/8/2015 4:10:01 PM
just recently i was with who i thought was one of my favorites...been with her before and had a great time. the date started out great, i was rock hard and we did plenty, but not the dirty deed. i offered to put on a cover and do it but she wanted it in her mouth, so who am i to refuse a lady?
a bit later after a rest she got on the bed and said "i'm horny" and proceeded to orally stimulate my very limp magic dragon. hey, i'm 62, i did it once already that night, and yes, the insistence that the lady showed in trying to get me up and running again only served to add stress to my night. needless to say i didn't consummate the evening with her, and her attitude reflected great disappointment (yes, she's in her 20's). i will not see her again.
however, a few years ago i was with another lady in her 20's. it was the first time with her. she also was very much trying to get the magic dragon up and running via oral. nothing was happening. what did this lady do? she simply laid back on the bed and self - stimulated, which was an incredibly beautiful and sexy sight.
i don't even remember if i rose to the occasion that session, but i have seen that lady many times since (in fact, more than anyone else i've ever seen). and i have definitely consummated our relationship on other times.
so, especially in this endeavor, i think it behooves the young women to have patience, and not make it all about the stiffie, and more about the time together.
-- Modified on 12/8/2015 9:33:22 PM
