I know guys (as hobbyists) have often said on this site that they have fallen in love with a provider. I know, in most cases, it means figuratively. But I'll admit that I have developed two really good friendships (at different times) with providers and then later wondered if I felt something more towards them. In the end I always realized that it was better that the relationship stayed the way that it was.

I was wondering, and forgive me if this has been discussed before, but have any providers ever felt that way about clients? Have there been crushes, longings or even relationships... or is it always, ALWAYS kept professonal and at best plotonic? I'm just curious. If I remember correctly, my first long term GFE told me that she had dated one of her clients in the past. Anyways, like I said - just curious. Would love to hear thoughts or stories on the subject.

lol, at least for an hour!

-- Modified on 10/15/2007 7:39:14 PM

an hour or two... it's better for the fantasy when at the very least you truly want to be there and want her to enjoy it too... That being said, your infatuation is over 5 minutes after you leave albeit until the next time...

Anything other than that scenario is foolish in my opinion... Could you get lucky, sure, but how likely is she ready to give us all the great cock she is getting. Now if you can replace and maybe double her income, sure, she'd beat you to the bedroom, but like many a rich person, you have to ask, "Does she love me for my money?" I don't think that's what you have in mind.

I've had clients fall for me...in the obsessive creepy way.

One guy was so enamored with me that he wanted me to quit escorting and just see him.

I had to stop posting on Cityvibe for a while because he was "e-stalking" me there.

So in some cases, a client and provider may hit it off.

But for me, I want to stay single. Not interested in dating ANYONE.

and she remained my standard by which I measured other providers for sometime.

She was so kind, encouraging and engaging that it took me a while to separate out reality and not as long to separate the difference in ages.

I saw her several times but knew it could never be more than what it was.

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-- Modified on 10/16/2007 7:54:30 AM

Same here. My first provider is my favorite
Thanks SOTF

Assuming your persuasion is for the three-legged variety, I guess you'll have to play wait 'n see. I never say never when it comes to intimacy and perhaps if you were more open to it, it might catch up to you in a good way. There are many of who are highly evolved when it comes to these matters and if you are lucky, he is just over your shoulder at the market or in line at the bank or heck someone who's got his own jet... We can't will the type of person or the package they come in... Why I just met someone tonight that given certain circumstances, we'd be clocking each other... We had this pinch of chemistry, you know that kind that makes conversation easy, the kind that where you go off in different directions... Because she was at her place of business, I didn't press... but I think she is in my future for at least long enough to find out whether the itch we felt was something we should scratch.