I appreciate all the insite!!
I suppose it's worth a try. If there's truly a lack of providers in the sleepish state, low volume may work out perfectly for me. As for Bernie Sanders...only in my dreams.
I remember a similar post from a couple months ago, about backpage alternatitives, but I'm unable to find it again.
From both a provider and hobbyist point of view, what platforms work well when looking for quality company in a less populated area? Specifically Vermont. Many popular avenues don't even offer a Vermont Escort option. From experiance, what sites deem trust worthy and which seem to be a waste of time? Back page may have had a rare advantage, as it actually catered to a local & small demographic.
Thanks in advance! I appreciate the feed back!!
any working girls in those close knit small towns. That's probably a good thing because many of them are family oriented and christian oriented and everybody knows the other person's business because news travels fast in those towns. So if a provider arrives in that town, you'd be surprised to see how quick they figure out your identity, and you're bound to be the talk of the town before long. Someone is bound to start a vicious rumor mill that you're a home-wrecker, and if they're ignorant enough they might even think you're a witch, and all it takes is for one person to start the rumor and the sheepish followers to believe it.
Besides, there's no real market for escorts in those small towns because most men usually meet their wives in school, and they stick with the same woman throughout their lifetimes.
But here's a helpful tip: if those small town men want to cheat, they usually go to the next town where they won't be so quickly recognized because they know how fast news travels in those towns and they probably saw someone else get caught for making the same careless mistake. There's usually a bigger town that serves as a center of commerce for all the smaller residential towns in its vicinity. You won't have any luck in the residential towns, but you should definitely try your luck in the commercial towns, your only other option would be sticking to the big city.
I completely understand the small town mentality.
But there's always White River Jct, Burlington, Rutland, Montpelier/Barre and Bennington. It's just a matter of knowing where to advertise. I almost see an advantage. If there is truly a limited amount of reputable providers.. why shouldn't I be able to find great clientele that I truly enjoy.
Yes, I live in a small town and things are just as you described. When I dated sugar babies, our meetings always took place 50 miles away at a city or when I was traveling. It's lots of extra effort. The price of "cheating", though that word makes me uncomfortable because I love my wife.
Just call Bernie Sanders and tell him to send his friends over.
You misspelled "unwashed masses"
Go to CowsInHeels.com or, depending on your taste,
LebiansInPlaid.com.
Other than that, you're fucked. Or not fucked, actually.
Then you must scan by hints of phone area code or location... remember area codes are often misleading. It's not perfect but it's all we got.
There are a handful of BP girls with AD's that just scream B&S and/or ROB.
Fortunately there is college here with about 5,000 coeds attending. I have pretty much given up on hookers here, except of course when I go to Dallas which is about a two hour drive from here, and I have been relying on a small rotation of Sugar Babies to fill the void left by the lack of P4P here.
I might mention I am not married, because seeing Sugar Babies as a married man in such a small town would be every bit as risky as being a hooker in a rural area.
I suppose a hooker living in a rural area might also try becoming a "quasi hooker" on SA or some other similar site, but I will have to caution you, you won't make even a quarter of what you are used to being a hooker in a city of any size. Your overnight rates as an SB won't be much more than your hourly rate as a hooker.
Three areas where it's BP or nothing are far Northern CA, most of the Texas Panhandle and North Florida's emerald coast. You can find legit hookers in those areas on BP but it's way more time consuming than using Eros and TER. I feel for the people in small towns. Sometimes a well reviewed visiting girl may pass through but it's slim pickens.
I agree that doing the SB thing in small town is too risky for a married man. If you stick to 30+ girls on BP (I know that's not your thing) you can find legit pussy in small towns. All the ads for ones under 30 were faked and they refused to send me a recent pic.. One way you can tell is if she is offering pussy for way below "market rates." Even in rural areas decent pussy does not sell for much below the major cities in the state.
Believe it or not there are legit girls in small towns who don't want reviews because it's easier to get outed in a small town.
Mingle with the local sheep and pick yourself out a real pretty one.
Kissing is legal therefore it is OK to tell them that you like companions that deep french kiss like my girlfriend used to do. If they are OK with that it means service is going to be GFE.
The legit ones are not available for sessions shorter than an hour and will want close to "going rate" prices. Never less than 250 but usually 300 even in small towns.
You have to be very assertive so they know that you know the BP game and all the rip-offs. Some of them will turn out to be "retired" girls who went UTR under a different name and don't want reviews.
Always be prepared to walk out if something seems wrong or the incall is an obvious low rent district place..
Finding pussy in small towns is not easy but it can be done.
but there are a LOT of hotties in the red states too, and less real competition for them.
I do slightly disagree about the W4M or even the W4W (not just for lopaw) section of BP, as in my experience finding a girl even a 6 on the GaGa scale is unlikely.
Most of the hotties figure out the game and only work in the "big city" and don't "shit where they eat"
I was only HALF serious. Judging from his response, he's clearly not THAT desperate . . . . Yet. Lackapussie is an affliction found in many rural areas. Fewer rural providers shave their pussy, which means he may encounter a little "wool" anyway, so a hot-looking sheep may not be a bad Plan-B.
I knew you were joking. If you have the good sense to live in San Francisco it's ok to be snobby but Los Angeles??
You didn't notice the tan?
I just noticed I should have said BP *listed* age of 26 or more since all those will be in their 30's. I keep forgetting how badly the girls lie about age no matter where they post an ad.
Would you mind sharing with the group (I'm not VIP so I can't read emails) how that works. I have tried that route and I have never worked so hard in my life to not get pussy (lol). Fakes, dead ends, broken dates, etc. I've only met 2 that were serious, but in the end it went no where. Should I just hit up the younger ones (i.e. college girls) and leave the more mature alone? Do you tell them upfront this is really p4p?
Help some monger brothers out!
Thanks in advance.
It has become the "de facto" Sugar Daddy/Baby board here on TER.
You will get all sorts of input on the "do's and don'ts" of the Sugar World.
It's not as easy as hitting up a TER provider, but I've probably hooked up with about 20 different SBs over the last year or so and I live in a small city with barely 100,000 people in it, so unless you really live out in the sticks you should be able to find at least a few girls to fill the bill.
So a lot of the women posting here are providers "in disguise" LoL. It's not great but it's something.
As with BP, TER, or anything else, it seems to vary a lot by region. VT seems fairly sleepy, which may be to your benefit.
Also, I may be mistaken, but I thought the "BP alternative" had become the BP dating section?
Good luck!
Depending on your actual location, I'd consider the feasibility of an escort from Montreal, Albany, or Boston. Make the trip yourself or ask her to visit. Maybe suggest that she meets you half way (if she has solid reviews/reliability).
Everybody drunk today?
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No but Gag sent the Texas heat to the Bay Area so I'm a little slow right now.
plus the wording of her post sounded like a john, not an escort.
But my recommendation stands: Roadtrip!
Or, as we used to say in Colorado; Aspen. Where men are men. And sheep ski fast.
BAAAAAaaaaaaahhhhh!
I check BP, Eros Boston and the TER NE Ad board when in smaller towns in New England
I have only seen ladies who have TER reviews... and for the most part, their ads were on BP
Hmm... for us rural girls, I strongly suggest sticking with sites that zip code search.
Unfortunately, these sites are not always the best for other reasons, but you can see them all for yourself and decide what you'd like to do.
Hooray for VT! It's truly beautiful this time of year... though I still have no phone service. Someone should call Bernie and tell him to fix that, lol.
~Mme X~
I appreciate all the insite!!
I suppose it's worth a try. If there's truly a lack of providers in the sleepish state, low volume may work out perfectly for me. As for Bernie Sanders...only in my dreams.
and I have given up on BP altogether. While I did meet one of my ATFs there, she was with an agency at the time. If someone is on BP but not TER or P411 I will just wait until my next trip to Chucktown or Jax. There's a big difference between GFE Escorts and street whores. No BP for me again (or until I am really really really really desperate).
There's nothing like some good ice cream for dessert in the desert.
ooops! got me!
So in combination with being banned from Eros, I ended up relying pretty heavily on BP and TER, among a few other sites. The former site is what I've found works best in those small markets, though being the only TS provider in locations may have something to do with that. One interesting thing to note from small areas is the the guys there are incredibly loyal and super appreciative of you making the trip, which I've found loosely correlates to higher tips overall, and pretty dedicated and reliable clients.
I've hit up some market for an evening or two with under 40k people in them and done just as well there as I have in cities that are 2-3 million plus. It's also dirt cheap to run those ads, and if you have pro photos, it separates you from the sketchy girls advertising. As far as Rates, I charge my min national rate godless of where I'm at.
Banned from Eros? I don't see TS providers but BP in small towns does seem to work. Even on Eros or TER the visiting schedules of the girls seldom fit my schedules since I don't stay in small towns for more than a few days.
I suspect that there are a few girls making bank off BP in small towns. As a monger I think the ratio of legit girls on BP is higher in small towns than big cities. In the Bay Area BP is completely useless and I have not even looked there in years.
The go to site seems to be SeekingArrangement right now. Popular with the college age non-pros who want to be selective, but will engage for $$