We had developed a very solid rapport, and for this, allowed a third and final try.

He was wonderful, charming, sexy (even being 50 y-o).  Great time!!  After we had our first round, he told me he canceled the first two times because he felt he wasn't looking his best weight-wise, age-wise, fitness-wise, etc, and had his eye on me for over a year and wanted to make a good first impression.

Really now..... Sexiness to many women, or at least to me and many of my women friends, is more about who you are rather than what you look like.  You may feel disappointed that you look much different from the man you were at 18 or 30, but we never knew you then, and you probably have the same sensual spirit.

Since I was a teen, I've always found more mature men (then, men in their 30's, and now men in their 40's+) to be sexiest.

We adore your experience and passion!!

I can certainly relate to your experience NYC Indie. I remember when I first met my ATF I was so scared and intimidated. She was so beautiful in her photos and here I was (in my 50's mind you) not feeling good about myself at all. All I could think was "will she like me?", "I used to be better looking but the years have taken their toll". A funny thing happened before our first meeting. We were in a dead area where our cell phones would not connect and we thought we were being stood up by each other. The first thing I thought was oh oh, she must have gotten a picture of me somehow. Fortunately, we were able to connect that morning and the rest is history. She is a fabulous lady and we really enjoy our times together.

Good for you for giving that man a third chance!

as an older man I appreciate women young guys just want to fuck them

I've been lucky enough to find one as well...

We know what this is and what you do, understand that for some (most) of us, you ladies are intimidating - I have been with some of the most beautiful women I have ever known in this hobby - and yes - that means you!  We do wish to impress you, maybe we hope that we could be your "prince charming" but most of us recognize the harsh reality of both our own nature and the world in which we live.

I have shared laughter and tears with some of the providers that I have met, they have opened up to me with their lives and made me feel emotion for them- much as I would for a "real date" and in some instances, more than for a real date.  It is only natural that we would be concerned about our looks and feel a bit self-conscious.

One lady I met - was new to my town - and during our session she commented on that she was hungry - I offered to buy her dinner - she accepted - she probably will never know how proud I was to be walking down the street with a lovely and charming lady at my side.... Afterwards when we got back to her hotel, I was so emotional that I could not think of how to end out time together - it was that much fun for me.

I was really very happy that she was not embarassed to be seen in public with me - (although I am ok - I am not a young stud with washboard abs...)   So, you do intimidate us - and we do wish to please you as well....

Ladies - I thank you for (even though it is for pay) being willing to spend time with me!