I find myself surfing Eros occasionally to see what other providers are doing with their ads and I am always struck by the variety of information, wording, and general feel of provider ads.

So, I figured I’d ask those who really know:
What do you look for in an Eros ad?
I assume you look at pictures first and then scroll to look at the hourly rate- but after those two basic things- what’s next?

Do you actually read the ad?  

Do you make your decision based on the first two things and move on (either keep looking or call)?  

Do you read the ad only if the pictures and price are right?

One more thing- are there any blatant turn offs?

Thanks so much!
XO
Melanie


-- Modified on 3/28/2008 6:49:14 AM

Melanie, I would be lying if I didn't say the first thing I look at is the pictures.  Then I might read the ad but will definitely look for the price.

But I do not make my decision on just that info.  I look to see if the lady has a web site that will tell me more about her.  Then I check for reviews.

I am cautious of those who do not list a price in their ad.  Many of the ads seem to be boiler plate words anyway.  Her reviews and web site will tell me more about her than that ad.

No price, no web site, no reviews...then no visit.

Pictures first. Rates second.

I scan/read the text to see if:
1) She seems like a real person;
2) Just graduated from CL to Eros;
3) One of the many ladies posted by an agency; and
4) Whether she has any gray matter between the ears.

So, write something about yourself. Make it honest. Make it coherent. Go beyond making it an Ad. Differentiate yourself. Make it alluring, but not trashy.

That said, it only gets your foot in the door. Much more research is required before I make a call.

Melanie, I can't build on what was said above, it is perfect.

avoid Goddesses, Angels and other superlative descriptions. Always scared to have sex with Goddesses, Angels and Super Women because of merely being a human.

I find there is virtually no way for a provider to say something in the context of an Eros ad that distinguishes her. A lot of rip-off artists have great copy.So in my view it shouldn't be too short or too long, but beyond that, there's not much that the text can differentiate a provider.

So I'll look at the photos and price. Then I'll hope to see a link to a Web site. For some reason, I find the personal Web sites much more instructive. Then of course I check TER reviews. I'll never pursue anyone without TER reviews.

1. Pictures (is she a type pleasing to me?)
2. Price (in or out of range?)
3. Reviews
4. Website

I don't pay much attention to the text in the Eros ad.  I'm going to read about her on her website if I'm going to consider her.

LOL. Shit, where I am there are over 600 supposedly independent ads on Eros and you'd have a hard time finding ONE that showed a rate. 1 in 10 might have a website link, if that many. I guess Vegas is truely unique when it comes to advertising.

Eros is useless to me. TER is always the starting point.

IMO has the most "noise" when it comes to finding providers.  TER is a phenomenal resource in such environments.  I would NEVER see a Vegas provider that doesn't have rave TER reviews.

When I look at any ad, eros or not, the first thing I do is look at the pictures and if none shows the lady smiling, I move on.  If I can't get the feeling from the pictures or the text of the ad that the lady is likely to be fun-loving, I don't want to waste my time because that's what I'm looking for--somebody fun.  If that hurdle is crossed, then I look at the prices, services and FAQ in that order, to get a better idea whether our tastes are compatible.  If I get by those areas, I read some reviews.  Then I make a decision.

Pictures need to reflect that you are naughtier than the surrounding escort ads.  Prices needs to reflect that you are doing this for more than the money.  Services should be like a chinese menu choices with acronyms that require a little research to figure out.

and not some faked up "come fuck me look."  That porn star sneer - hate it.

I want to meet a nice lady who I can tell will be pleasant, fun and alluring.

I almost never look at the price - I might see it in the process of scanning the verbage.

I immediately go to TER..no reviews, I'll never call.   I'm sure guys like me make it harder for a lady to get started but the review is everything to me.  

Oh...and it isn't so much based on the numerical rating it's the actual description of the encounter.  The well written reviews are worth a lot.

Hope this helps you gorgeous lady!

A red flag for me is if a provider claims a breast size that simply does NOT match the pictures.  IF she lies about that, what other service is she lying about?

I understand the conception, or misconception, that bigger is better, but being honest is more important.

definite preference for those with face and/or full body shots - cropped T and A pics are a no go.

i also check the pics for heavy airbrushing - i'm not trying to find whatever it is they are trying to hide.

a quick price check, and then search telephone number in TER. no phone is a downer for me.

extra points for candid or non studio shots, own website link, nipple imagery, feet shown, mention of reviews.

with enhanced breasts standing erect, but her self description says "natural" LOL.

-- Modified on 3/28/2008 5:32:37 PM

Personaly...I'm afraid of any woman named after a car... so the Mercedes and Lexus' are out..

Like most people, of course I start with pictures and rates.

But I actually *do* read the description regardless of pictures and price. I look to see that spelling and grammar are correct--as someone mentioned before, grey matter is key--and then discern if she's trying to sell herself in any subtle ways. She needs to work a little bit on her description, or else she's just "meat. (Which has its pros and cons.)

If she seems professional, sexual, and intriguing, then f* the price.

Other essentials: height, age, and measurements. I know it's not always possible to have a web site, but thinking about it a bit, I don't think I've ever seen anyone without one.

Hope that helps.

t/c

for me a blatant turn-off is when I see TS before "her: name"

to determine if I can see the lady.  This would include days of visit, time available, web site addy, 1 hr. rate, and a mention of reviews here on TER.  No reviews means no potential visit.

Obviously, first thing is picture, but aside from whether I find the picture/provider attractive, it is about whether the pic seems to be a fake or not. Number one thing for all of us is we don't want to get screwed (well, not in the bad way Then price, obviously. Always a little turnoff if no price on the ad. Then, I check the description. I like fun ads that seem to be alluring rather than ads that try and be penthouse forum pieces. Also looking for an idea of what is and isn't possible (no specifics obviously, but an idea if the session is more GFE or not is always something I look for). And, for me personally, and I might be a little different, but I like pics that leave a little more to the imagination (sexy lingerie, seductive look, etc...) rather than the full nude shot (of course, a hot nude body gets my interest as well.

this mostly what you look for is research.
If you do your research, go to Ter, her reviews, her website, and so on...price if she is legit  services she provides and how well are in her reviews.
wanting price a list of services and so on in an eros ad, thats just being lazy.
I never post what i will or will not do for what ect
I instead refer the Gentlemen to Ter and my website.
If from there you can not figure out who I am and what I am all about, you never will.
draw in your potential Gentlemen with your personality and a few well done photos, then let your past Gentlemen, through reviews and your site help them decide whats what and if you are who they truely want to see.

Just because you mentioned them, I now have feet pictures!!