Posted By: Leo501
I love the look of piercings but am still undecided on whether I enjoy them being worn by a woman when I'm with her, if they kind of override the focus on just the flesh, or if they heighten it all.
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As so often, let me gently buck the tide of me-toos here.
I love the sight of pierced jewelry in a woman's nipples. Not just barbells (though some of them have extra oomph, like the ones that say "fuck...me"), not just dangles (though some of them are wonderfully sparkly), but chains joining her nipples or going farther. Breasts and nipples are specially joyful things in my world, and adornment of them is wonderful for me.
It's not just the physical aspect. A woman who decides to pierce her nipples has chosen to emphasize and advertise a specifically sexual part of her body, and the symbolism of that attracts and excites me. Perhaps she has chosen to display symbols of sexual bondage and submission; or perhaps not. Either way, I enjoy seeing them even when I can't touch them.
I love the sight of pierced jewelry in a woman's pudenda, especially clit-hood piercings. They speak to a deep sexual openness and almost spiritual invitation from her. They call out for my most gentle and persistent efforts to answer the invitation, to join with her at her central sexual place to celebrate together.
Good jewelry does not have a taste. That's why we use the same metals -- silver, stainless steel, gold -- for eating utensils. Same for high-quality plastics: tasteless. No lady is likely to want the cheap-o alloys that taste strong inside her tender bits.
OK, you say, nipple and clit piercings are tasteless? I have no problem with punning, or with your opinion. I still like these piercings.
But it's all about the woman. I believe that nipple piercings often (though not always) enhance her sensitivity to pleasure, and keep her nipples erect, and give more ways for me to give her pleasure while enjoying her breasts and nipples for mself. When that is the case with a particular woman, bring it on! When it doesn't work *for her*, it isn't good for me. I have never found that nipple piercings interfere with nipple play, and I like lots of nipple play.
Likewise I believe that clit-hood piercings often (though not always) enhance her pleasure, and keep her clit erect, and give me more ways to pleasure her. I have never found that genital piercings interfere with cunnilingus, and I like lots of cunnilingus.
Licking, suckling, and otherwise making sweet love to a woman is always a very individual and personal thing. They are women, after all, each one unique. So I expect wide variation in how a sexually pierced woman feels and appreciates her sex jewelry, and in how its symbolism works for her. Finding these things out is part of the delight of a sexual encounter, and knowing them is part of the pleasure of repeated sexual encounters. I love to learn!
Yes, ladies, please, do bring me your pierced and bejewelled nipples and clit. I promise to appreciate them gently and well