the moment.  If you have ever done a FMF threesome you should be able to appreciate FF play.  It is so much hotter in person than on a DVD.

especially when it comes to FMF meetings. After all, I'm not marrying her or anything. Then, that could be a problem, maybe.

Most of the culprits aren't bi

They're really just using a marketing trick to sucker guys into doubles.  That's where they make more money for less work.

When you make the choice between "Is really bi" and "anal sex" a precondition for earning a "10" in performance; you are going to disproportionately attract bisexual women. And women with high performance ratings (i.e. an average higher than 9) will overwhelmingly be bisexual.

Really, men and women can't flirt too much on these boards because between men and women it's a business.

But between women and women? There are some mighty fine babes here. If I were a bisexual babe, I'd be overwhelmed with the choices like a kid in a candy store. It's amazing they can make room in their schedules at all for paying business.

Incidentally, some of those providers aren't really bi. They are lesbians who, for a fee, will deal with a man but in civie life wouldn't want one. And as long as the man is satisfied with the experience, the fact they are really lesbians doesn't much matter.

Many Providers are hoping to peak interest in doubles.  Some providers have not yet made a connection with enough another s that will provide her with a decent # of girls that she is willing to work with if she is asked for a double.  Think about how many times a provider has come on the board remarking about what we as hobbyist have to go through to get a date, I prefer my ladies to be into each other if we are all spending time together.  and that if we are doing a double I prefer her to set up the second lady with my say so of coarse;  and it is certainly nice if she has at least several friends to choose from. IMHO.
Doc

But the way they fall over each other like lesbians in heat is a turn off. I personally am not interested in them lapping themselves in public.

Some of them do it on the "theme" threads too. Maybe it is because hobbyists are not falling over them, they have to fall over each other.

The providers that are "really bi", I skip them anyhow.

Yes, I like them (male hobbyists) very very very much, that is why I am bi and not a lesbian...I am speaking for myself here!

Do bear in mind the protocol...I actually had a conversation today about this very matter.  There are some gents I'd LOVE to flirt with on the boards; pass my card to at M&Gs -- but the protocol seems to be that the gents ask me for my card at M&Gs, or flirt with me on the boards.  I swallow my urges to even PM these gents unless they PM me first.  It kills me sometimes as there are some gents I'd love to ___, and have for some time.

To me it's an unrequited thing; perhaps rooted in the primeval way the sexes court one another.  I feel free to flirt or carry on shamelessly with the ladies, but do know, as regards the gents, I feel inhibited -- perhaps due to the hobbying culture as I understand it.

Hope this helps?
design.lust

PS:  As per example:  you can see my attempt at flirting-with-a-male -- actually with the moderator of the New York boards in a rather recent post!  It was great fun.

Of all the things that is going on the hobby and the world general, you are vexing with why bi-sexual providers flirt with themselves. Ummmmmmm.

Posted By: Vexing

ONLY incessantly flirt with other providers ?! Sometimes it feels like I'm reading a lesbian board ! Don't these providers like male hobbyists ?!---------

Because flirting with other providers is a better way to spend their time than wasting energy on responding to stupid posts like yours.

To answer your second questions:

Yes we do like male hobbyists, but not the whiney ones like you.

Posted By: Vexing

ONLY incessantly flirt with other providers ?! Sometimes it feels like I'm reading a lesbian board ! Don't these providers like male hobbyists ?!---------