I and  dont mean strip club, I mean club club, dance club. You would think its a good place to pick up high rollars, athletes etc. when the team is in town.  Any tips for spotting them out? Eg. VIP girls, hosteses etc

there is quite a difference. i could not imagine going out to a club or anyplace else hoping to attract some strange dude with cash...icky.

If the question is...do providers pick up dates at the club to go home and bang as civvies, I can say that some of them do.  Some providers that I know have such an incredibly high sex drive that they will in their civvie life go out and pick up guys and fuck the shit out of them.  No one knows they are providers, and they can have sex with who turns them on for free.  One girl I know worked at an incall agency in NYC, and she went out, got hammered (as she was known to do during her sessions), picked up two random guys, and then took them back to the INCALL location where she worked, and fucked them there.

If the question is...do providers use their time in a regular club to pick up prospective clients...I'm sure that happens, as well.  Some providers will sit at a place where high rollers congregate and find clients there.  In NYC, that's pretty much every high-end hotel bar.  Go to the Four Seasons hotel on 57th Street, and you will find women in the bar who are basically finding men from outta town who can afford $500 to $700/night at the hotel.

As far as VIP girls and hostesses in clubs finding clients that way...my guess is that if there is a negotiated rate, it does happen, but not in an explicit hourly rate.  For example, I am sure that many a VIP bottle-service girl has fucked many a high roller, but I'm pretty sure the conversation went from, "Hey, you're hot and fun...hang out with us after at this after-party" to fucking, but that the form of compensation probably took the form of the girl saying, "You know, I'd really love to hang out, but I have a lotta bills these days and gotta work some extra shifts."  You know...something that moves the conversation in that direction without making it look like she's a pro.

My friend calls those girls semi-pros, meaning they fuck for money, but it's not an explicitly negotiated hourly or overnight rate.

You talk like providers aren't real women. Providers are just women who choose an honest line of work and at the end of the day I am sure they are just like the millions of other women out there that go out and do as their Momma's told them " Its just as easy to love a rich man as it is to love a poor man".  Any woman who purposely sets out to pick up the loser at the clubs wouldn't be a provider, but a moron, why the hell wouldn't she try to pick up someone who is successful at what they do?  You want advice on how to pick them out? They are the ones that carry themselves with confidence, that have an air about them that states I belong, normally wearing something very expensive and if you have to be told on what to look for, I seriously doubt that you have the game that they are seeking.

That he is asking whether you go to a club to find clients?

Because I agree...that would be both risky and potentially embarrassing.

But I gotta imagine that providers do meet guys in their civvie lives and occasionally take someone home and have sex for their own personal fun/fulfillment.

What you are suggesting would eliminate the screening process entirely. Very risky.  Do some girls do it? Sure.  Is it a good idea? No.

Isnt a groupie/kept girl really just a provider on a retainer? To me pay for play is pay for play, why does it matter how comp is structured? Lotsvof girls are looking to hook a jump off (not all or even all providers, but many) Aren't most providers just looking for those few big fish so they be low volume? Although Im sure there are those providers who really do enjoy working and the variety.

or that I was seeking to pick up a provider at a club, that is what TER is for. I was just curiousvin this internet age women still take it to the streets and obv working a corner is not a good way to find quality clients nor is it hardly dignified. Just because a woman is a sex provider doesnt mean she doesnt have pride about herself and what she does.

The internet really has made a provider's job and life a lot easier, so why bother trying to hunt for clients? They know where to find me, how much, and when I am available with a simple click. I find "scouting" if you will, to be rather tacky.

We have websites for guys to find US...not the other way around. We place ads again, for guys to find US. We don't email and cold call you do we? Well, same thing. A few big fish in night clubs? Bwahhaha ok. "Clubs" are for kids usually under 25, with no money but daddy's. Now, a yacht club or country club is a different story and prime candidates, but I still would not be walking around in the very neighborhood I live in announcing I am a hooker. Tacky and stupid.

Kisses,
Vanica

"I am flattered when called beautiful. Even more so when called dangerous."  ~ Vanica Love

the difference is in approaching an arrangement openly and honestly, vs. engaging in manipulation, game-playing and outright deception if necessary. imo there is no honor in those who choose the latter path, while i can have nothing but respect for those who are 100% frank and honest.

then of course there is the fact that women choose providing for many, many different reasons...and astonishingly, income potential is not always one! i personally take more of a sexual surrogate path, if you could imagine such a therapist who was also a true friend and companion (in other words i encourage intimacy, the opposite of most). because there has to be some kind of boundary in order to keep things clear, money serves that purpose for me. i also consider it kind of kinky. otherwise, i don't really give a damn.

A beautiful , Hot & Sexy Girlfriend to enjoy the party

And they can have just as much paper to burn as those fellas at the yact club. But then I guess it depends what your audience is.

I appreciate your outlook though

Maybe not the ones here that are replying on your thread. but you asked a general question. Do Providers pick up dates at clubs? Yes, many do. That is one of the many "forms" of "providing." Some work the streets. Some work massage parlors. Some work the bars, casinos, and clubs. and some advertise on the internet. (Many do more than one of the above methods)

How to spot the providers at the clubs? They will spot you. Of course you would have to be at the right club. But if you are sitting alone, they will come to you.



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The OP subject line states picking up "dates."  Which, to me, implies typical dating or a hook-up.  However, the message implies "clients" or "sugar daddies" by mentioning "high rollers."

I'll address the dating or hook-up aspect.

People, by nature, have sexual urges.  Otherwise, the human species would cease to exist.  If a provider is out and about, be it at a night club or elsewhere, she may find herself sexually attracted to someone.  To the point of which she may want to take him home or meet him again.  It is human nature.

Of course, some providers may get enough sex from providing or may not desire outside relationships.  Other providers may be enticed by meeting a man outside of providing.  Be it for the organic experience, for the thrill of that chase, or for whatever reasons are important to them.

Anecdotally, when I was younger, I played in a rock band and had the rocker image.  Strippers seemed attracted to my bad boy image.  Many indicated they were not attracted to the guys who paid to see them at the strip club.  Something about the bad boy image seemed to entice them.  Possibly based on the thrill of the chase and because they were choosing the hook-up for their own reasons.  For all I know, some may have been providers.

Alas, I no longer fit the bad boy rocker image.  

That being said, as discussed on this forum before, providers to have civie lives and some hook-up or date outside of providing.

Other posters in this thread have already addressed the concept of picking up clients or sugar daddies.

I think of a groupie as a girl who gets a thrill out of having sex with the athlete or entertainer she is pursuing. I'm sure there are plenty of women who would love to have sex with Tom Brady or Justin Timberlake for the experience itself and not to become materially richer.

Pay for play, on the other hand, is a business. The providers are in it for the money rather than a pleasurable experience. Apples and oranges, IMO; although there could be some overlap (groupies who are more interested in the celebrity for his wealth, for instance).

Athletes, rappers, and entertainers don't need to hire providers, they have hot women who will give it to them for free. And those that do are probably hiring the best of the best. Not to mention that men who became wealthy through sports, musical, or acting ability are extremely rare. For every rich athlete, musician, or entertainer, you probably have hundreds of affluent bankers, doctors, lawyers, engineers, businessmen, ect.; and those men aren't typically found in noisy clubs.

to bring the money TO US. It's simply tacky all the way around to go announcing yourself as a hooker in a place that is NOT designed for that type of play. I would not light up a joint at Thanksgiving, so why the hell would I scout for clients at a freaking dance club. I don't date rappers or pros either, so no thanks.