Issue of money aside:

What would be the perfect length of a session for you:  (Assumes that the client and the provider are both muy sympatico.)

1.  30 minutes or less. (Why would you ever need more?

2.  One hour.  (Perfect for one shot and some cuddling or two if you're young enough.)

3.  Two hours.  (A second shot is guaranteed with some time for chat or cuddling in between.)

4.  Four hours.  (Time for round one, some dinner, and desert back in bed.)

5.  Eight hours.  (Same as four but now you can take in a play or a movie as well.)

6.  Twelve hours:  Daytime:  (Enough for three rounds, plus all the goodies in #5.)

7.  Twelve hours:  Nighttime:  (Maybe time is wasted while sleeping, but the morning wake up call is worth it, not to mention the intimacy of cuddling in bed.)

8.  Twenty-four hours:  (The best of #6 & 7.)

9.  A whole weekend:  (Twice the fun of #8.)

10. A whole week:  (Hi honey, I'm home 8o)

Feel free to expand on this as needed.

My favorite is #8.  After 24 hours, I begin to long for some solitary time, and physically I'm a bit of a wreck.

With my ATF... a lifetime but I'm sure she'd have had enough of me long before the 1st week was up. LOL but to answer as I think you intended #9.

I would have to say #7. I like to have accoms.(my treat of course) that include room service,a fireplace(seasonal)and a jaccuzzi. Sympotico is a must. I am clearly afraid of redundancy. Thus-far most of my meetings have left me(the good one's) wanting more.

and how that plays against my need for solitude.

i have only done 3, 4, 6 and 7 and it is too close a call to say which i like best. 1 and 2 are just plain useless. might as well stay home with Rosie for all the good it does me.

but i could see doing 8, 9, and 10 except i'd really like to drop the "Hi honey, I'm home" bit. i really need my solitude to be good company.

really... for instance if lightning should strike a 5th time and i would find a "girl of my dreams" SO it might be best to have separate residences in close proximity.

but then i am fairly typical.... NOT.

a new / first time friend?  1 - 1.5 hrs

a repeat with a lady who was fun? 1.5 -2hrs

my favorite ladyfriends? Those who seem to like me as much as I like them? 2hrs at least.  


My very favorite ladyfriend? I wish I could take her off the market and keep her

I've only done overnights / weekends etc. when specifically invited by a lady whose company I am really enjoying. Too much potential for tension or discomfort unless you enjoy *just being with each other*. If there is nothing there except the sex, a couple of hours is sufficient.


If it's really mutual it's all good.



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I just had my first 12 hr. #6 and it was so sweet!

I've done 2 hours twice, fantastic.....But 1 hour is enough for me....

water sex. You guys never had sex while the shower head was running. It is similar to having sex outside while it is pouring rain. How about filling the sink full of water and the weight of the water crushing your mid section while she is dong cowgirl on you. Watching the water leak outside is so fun and a cleaning job on hotel employees. How about turning the shower to streaming hot water while the hotel room turns turns to a hot sauna. I did this once I had sweaty sex for two entire hours.

provider lavishing a lot of attention on my wife.

I would need a long intermission to sustain a 3 hour date on my own.

But I like 3 hours, it's completely relaxed.

I will take the weekend.  Wow all the fun things we could do inside and outside, plus go out to eat, have a bottle of wine, sit and talk, wake up together, etc.  And the sex could be spontaneous...no pressure or hurry.  Whenever it felt right.

It would be like a mini vacation.

Sign me up.

like many of my hobby brethren, the $$$ stands in the way.  I would love a weekend with my girl, but my wallet won't allow it.

If money were no object, I would go for a weekend with a fave, and see if that led to more.....

Swim

I love multi-hour dates not just for the obvious, but it gives us a chance to really get to know each other, usually dinner is involved or some other activity along with the ending the evening on a perfect note
Nasrin

I prefer 1 1/2 hour dates for a first time meeting but longer works even better for me.

One thing I do enjoy about longer dates is being able to plan something special for both of us to enjoy. I love an overnight with someone I have been with a few times already. Waking up snuggled close to someone is a rare treat since I live alone.

I just spent a long weekend with a very special friend and always enjoy our time together. I love to pick out new ladies for him and hear all the juicy details. There's a new review up if you care to see.

Kisses Haley

If I really have fun with the guy it is more about doing stuff together .. I have good sex with alot of people I don't want to hang out with.  

I really love doing overnights or traveling with the best of the best and being intimate of course in other ways... but their performance isn't the main factor with the guys I love the most.  It is guys I have lots of fun with becuase our personalities match.

These options seem to stress the intimate aspect.

In this case, in general, for my physical appetites I like to dress up and feel sexy... have some romantic banter and flirtation over dinner (or some similar date night activity) .  before and after or just a after .. all ok.  Dinnerdates are little snippets of fun and those are the most preferred.

90 minutes (not a choice) or 2-hrs. is preferred but sometimes my wallet can not make that work.  I usually see new ladies for a 1-hr. date.

for a new girl I would go with an 1hr

For my ATF I would do no more then 2-3hrs.

I like #8 the best. I've had great times with guys when we spend more than 24 hours together but only if they give me an hour or so to myself each day to recharge and check emails and such. It is tough to spend 4 or 5 days with a guy no matter how much you like him if he doesn't give you some space. I spent 3 days with a guy once who would stand outside the bathroom door and talk to me. He would have followed me in if I hadn't shut the door in his face. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoyed him, I just needed some time to myself once in a while.

Although I haven't spent 12 hours with a lady yet, there are a few that I've met who I would love to get the chance. I'm a dinner date kind of guy, and usually ask for 4-5 hours. I would love to do an overnight, and have talked about it with one lady. We do plan to do it, but haven't had the opportunity, yet.

#4-#8, probably.

I generally do around 2  hours +/-, with the $ factored in. Leaving that out, I would like the leisure of a slower pace, more non-sexual play time (showers, meals, tickle fight, whatever...). It would be fun to show a visiting lady around some of the sights of my hometown.

Beyond 24 hours, I think I'd want some kind of more substantial break to recharge, both physically and mentally. I can only be on good behavior (while being bad) for so long.

The extended, vacation-like excursions I prefer for third dates or after, because I like to be sure we're going to enjoy each others' company. And while I definitely enjoy dinner (or lunch) with my dates, 2 hours, a glass of wine, and thou is not without its charms. I no longer offer less than 2 hours; I like to have ample time to get to know a person.

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"Issue of money aside:"

Money IS an issue.  And it's not just money, it's also available TIME to be away without drawing unwanted attention.  Anything beyond 2 hours would be exceptionally difficult.

Assuming unlimited budget AND guaranteed that my absence from normal haunts won't be noticed . . . and the "muy sympatico" . . . I might be tempted by 8, 9, or 10.  Except that I become tiresome fairly quickly; three or four hours with me might be all a lady could take.