Maybe its just an ego booster, but I've seen about ten providers so far and they all tell me that they are very happy when I come through. They say that it doesn't seem like work with me. I've had one to cut her rates in half because she wanted me to come by more often. While this is very flattering I have to wonder am I being hussled? Or are those big tight hugs and cheek kisses for real?
As for the one that wants to cut her rate in half, and if she is ATF material, go for it. Just remember she is not looking for a husband. If she is you should run for the hills.
If it works out great for a while with that arrangement then fine.
Just do not come back on here months from now with "I've fallen for a hooker and I can't get up" story. They replies will be less generous.
Dude, this is P4P. And when are you going to write the other 9 reviews. You might want to post on the newbie board if you have more questions like this one. I don't know why Smarty is being so nice today.
I think it is safe to say that she likes you somewhat, but don't read into that anything more than she sees this as a marketing stategy hoping to keep some income in what is proving for many to be a lean time, financially.
For all you hobbyists out there take note. There is an upside to being likeable (as well as lickable.)
You are respectful, clean & leave the correct donation. The hugs & kisses are standard. I like all my Favorite ladies & I believe they truely like me, for the same reasons listed. This is pay4play... the h&k are included. Cutting the rate may be more a response to the current economy than your personal attractiveness... when she refuses the donation, let us know. Until then, you need to focus clearly on what this pastine is about.
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Thanks guys. I did post the other nine reveiws, but they got denied. I am a newbie and thanks for being nice, seeing that I am new to this. I have had one to give me my donation back after a session, but that was the third time i'd seen her.
She gave BACK your donation? WTF? Does she work for charity?
Can you send me her URL? Please?
Yea FROOM, she gave it back. She said that she hadn't fucked like that in a long time, plus I gotpissed off because she asked for deep penitration and when i gave her all of it the bitch sqirted all over me.
GET OVER YOURSELF PAL.
If you are all that, why are you paying for pussy in the first?
I did not ask for it back and I'm not all that. I pay for pussy because its conveniant and I don't have to deal with gf drama.It troubled me as well, thats why i wrote the thread. To me she did it as a jesture.I'm sure not going to turn it down. Besides, this was just one provider who had a good day.
But if she is giving back your money, I think it is time to give her "The Talk" on what exactly your relationship is unless your looking for a real life girlfriend who happens to be an escort. The money helps keep boundaries in place. The second money goes out of the picture often the no commitment part goes as well. Tread very carefully my friend.
I am sure they like the fact that your clean, polite, and left the correct amount so they want to see you again and they are trying to make a profit doing so. It is also part of the fantasy they are selling to make you feel special so don't read to much into it unless she is offering it for free.
according to you, you have some providers that give your donation back, some that want you to come back for half the rate, ALL of them coming when you lay that huge pipe on 'em......I guess there's a chance some of this is true, but man, you do like to talk the talk don't you? Ten reviews and only one accepted? Wassup? Were they all about you and not about the lady? I think you're laughing at everybody and glad to get the response you have to your so-called questions. If a single provider comes on here (or pms me) to say you are half of what you say, I owe you a case of Colt 45.
You say that the lady refused to even see you for a third visit. Definitely a major WTF? moment here. They either love you or hate you?
Yes of course it is about the money, but you may very well be one of those guys who can satisfy every provider you visit. Dont questioned it babe, just go with the flow. Maybe your actually just down right great in bed!!!!...
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If you're a repeat client, and you see a provider a lot of course sees going to lower her rates. I've had three providers do this for me. You're just an ATM Machine to her dude, she knows she will get money out of you.
she'll charge new clients 200.00 for the half but charge you 150.00 for the half. She knows you're going to see her three times out the week, so that 450.00 she just made out you.
The money is getting her off not you.
Thanks to all you vets for your wealth of experience and sharing your knowledge with me. I know its all about the money, and my question was FOR THE LADIES. I'm only repeating what they say. I know its empty flattery just like when you tell your fat wife how beautiful she looks. I just wanted to see what the ladies had to say. And Yes I am a beast in the sac, and yes I am hung pretty good, not like LEX STEEL or anything, but not like the average joe. Thanks again guys.
Try not to make it more difficult than it needs to be. Take what they say on face value: you probably DO make them enjoy the time with you. You probably do make the time seem more personal and they don't have to strain themselves to smile. In the right circumstances and with the right people work CAN be enjoyable as well.
Contrary to what some on here may say providers DO like some of their clients more than others. It is part the cleanliness and respectfulness, but it could be the two have similar taste in music, or hit it off. There are those I deal with at work who I'd gladly go to dinner with and others I'd rather starve, but I understand they are all my business associates not my cousins.
Even more than their words, go by their actions. Rest assured the one didn't halve her rate because she doesn't enjoy your company.
To the OP
I can relate to the scenario you present. I am under 30, fairly handsome, and a bit more well-endowed than the average male so in most cases I am not the normal client that shows up to visit these laides. I too have gotten compliments on being "good in bed" or "too cute to hobby" or "if i met you in a club I might go for you" but like a woman who gets hit on by a man that is nice but just not her type I take the compliment, smile, say thank you, and move on and here's why.
Number 1 this is a business so the ladies are going to go the extra mile to get repeat clientele because quite frankly that is the building block of any good business model and if you do have a quality that she likes and if we are indeed "paying for time" then one would naturally want to spend more time with someone's company they enjoy.
Number 2 we all know women are very emotional creatures and I mean no disrespect by this statement, however any man who has ever "put in work" with a woman knows that during an orgasm and sometimes right after a woman may say things that she may not mean or even remember hours llater because she was caught in the moment and lost in an emotional high.
Number 3 as someone mentioned in a previous response to the OP the exchange of $ is what really solidifies the boundaries in the provider/hobbyist world.
I can remember two distinct providers where this boundary was crossed and at the end of the day it was not worth it. One time I went to see a girl who was from out of town and she had a friend who was more experienced in the business than she was. I suspect her friend told her to come to the city where I live to make some extra cash. I set up an appointment and the girl thought that the sex and my looks were equally good. We found out we had some things in common before I left the session and she made sure she got my name and saved my number. She gave me a call the next day and said that I could give her a call anytime. I asked her was her offer business or personal and she said it doesn't matter. I gave her a call a little later in the week to chill but she and her provider friend had plans to go to a casino downtown but she invited me to meet up with her claiming that she had her on hotel room and that I wouldn't have to pay for anything. Using the wrong head I drove out there which is almost an hour from where I live even though I had to work at 6am. Long story short I ended up getting no ass no sleep.
In another case I booked a session with a provider and she happened to enjoy the session much more than I. She wanted my personal # before I left and I thought maybe she just wanted some good dick on the side but instead she used my number to try and solicit me when her business was slow.
These experiences helped me to learn the GOLDEN RULE of this game which is bills($) before dills(dick)
At least thats my opinion