Me and my fiancé recently got back together and things are better than ever. But we are waiting for a good weekend, in 2 weeks, to have sex again.

you're "back together" but no sex for 2 more weeks? Just wait until you are married a few years. That will become 2 months!

Get ready for a sexless marriage.  And not even once every two months.  How about never?  Come back for advice again when that happens.

Perhaps your fiance is not happy with a "beta male" and wants you to "man the fuck up" and take care of business in bed?

There's tons of articles and books available on the subject, but IMHO there's nothing better than a 1 on 1 session for intimate coaching.  

..... to find what works for a woman. It was basically a lesson in listening to her and reading body language. The best pleasure happens when both parties are on the same page. Communicating what feels good!  
You say she doesn't cum during fucking? Does she cum from DATY?  
Frankly, you sound like, how she cums, may be more an ego thing for you, rather than for her pleasure.  
Maybe, she needs a toy or two to get off. Maybe, she needs a bull in the room, lol.  
Maybe, she needs another woman to join.  

to go nice and slow when either fingering or licking her pussy and clit in order to bring her to orgasm. After I slowed it down as suggested, she always appeared to have incredible orgasms. I apply this advice to every lady I spend time with which seems to produce the same results.

Great reply!

but...
I once saw a companion share a book on Twitter called, "She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring A Woman" and she recommended it highly.

Sorry! I shared this book before I read the whole thread. Got excited. Yes though, listen to her!

She knows what works and what doesn’t, Rough oral? You have a beard?  

I suggest shaving--really close--if that's an option. There were some times that I'd be so close to climax, then the five o'clock shadow would hit my clit the wrong way, break my concentration, and I'd have to start all over.

A few gals I see get off with them, in fact two civies I used to see would get off with them all the time, and I loved watching them do it to themselves.

can be predicted with about 80-90% accuracy by asking yourself this one question from HER POV:  Did she "choose" you from all of the men she knows, or did she "settle" for you because she is tired of looking.  When a woman has dumped you already because you didn't measure up (no pun intended), and then takes you back, its most often out of resignation that she is not going to find the guy she REALLY wants, so she settles for the guy she already had, who was okay, but just not the total package she was looking for.  This makes the relationship "temporary" in her mind, because if Mr. Right (I won't speculate whether really wants an Alpha-male, or a guy even more beta than you) shows up at the grocery store standing next to her at the cucumber counter, she may throw you away in a heartbeat and go after what she would prefer.  The fact that you are both "waiting" to have sex would militate in favor this being the case, IMO.  If she was really hot for you  and decided you are everything she wants, and is CHOOSING you over all other men, she would have already fucked your brains out before you even had a chance to post this.  So you have to ask yourself if she is SETTLING for you . . . . . for now.   Tread carefully, young man.  

A special counter just for cucumbers! 🥒  
I'm impressed.

Whole Ffoods, although the cucumber section might be called Hole Foods.  Not sure.  

well the fact that you are here asking means a lot!! thats the first step, ambition.  however, this is going to be an ongoing conversation between you and her. you can read all the guidebooks on earth and learn new tricks, but the most important thing is to learn her personal quirks & preferences!

First ..... maybe you ought to reload on the oral:  Treat her whole body as a potential erogenous zone and explore with your lips and tongue.  Look for non-verbal (twitches) as well as verbal responses.  You may discover places to get her motor running that you never would by diving directly for the clit.

The OP said that she has trouble coming and she likes it fast and hard. That combination makes me think that she is already using a vibrator too much. Probably the Hitachi Magic Wand. That would make it harder for her to respond to any less intense stimulation.

should remember that shaving is a two-way street.  Going down on Sasquatch is NO ONE's idea of a hot time if you're a connoisseur of  pussy.  

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Be gentle with her, dude.  If she said you were too rough, tone it down.