Turned 50 recently and over the last couple of years I went from 180lb to 230lb. At a height of 5'8 I was in pretty good shape at 180, but have developed a freaking belly at 230lb. This has seriously lowered my confidence and I have not sought out companionship for quite a while. I finally decided to just go for it, and booked with a reputable provider for next week, but I am concerned about how it will go. I thought about cancelling, but I am not the type to back out of a commitment that could impact someone's earning. I may just be overthinking this whole situation. Any ladies care to chime in? What are your thoughts on overweigh clients. Thank you.

Is more important to most reputable ladies regardless of size. I would imagine a lady would make it known if she does not see larger gentlemen. Prepare yourself by pampering yourself however you see fit and allowing yourself to be excited for what's to come. Hope this helps!

Could be your weight, ethnicity, ugly face, body hair, bad teeth...
It's their job to fake it when they need to.

My honest thoughts are that being overweight and having a belly simply isn’t an issue as long as the following holds true:

I have disabled friends who have limited mobility. If your dick doesn’t work I can always ride your face! 💧  
😝 Smile for me! Proudly perverted here, so excuse the giggles. 🤭 After having two babies with this incredible body I respect anyone has had to deal with being overweight.  

Plus the right benjie$ fee, all facing the same lineup.

First, props to you for keeping your date - it already shows you're respectful, dependable, and considerate. Spoiler alert, most women in this industry would argue that means more to us than abs.  

You will be fine and have a good time. It’s just business. I had a regular who would tell me all the time it’s just work to her.

THIS!!!

Maybe in some cultures.. But here in America, people have abided by the whole theory of "Round is a shape too" when even the slightest doubt of their health creeps up in their mind.. I suggest you join the club...

Do you have like zero sense of humor or imagination?  

As was mentioned previously, be confident.  Not cocky.  Not conceited.  But, quietly confident.  Whatever happens, relax, be in the moment and Enjoy Yourself!  If you do, she will as well.

If you take hygiene seriously, are friendly and kind, you'll do just fine. Enjoy your time and most of all have fun.

I hear how much this weighs on you—gaining that weight and feeling your confidence dip is tough, especially at 50 when you’re reflecting on changes. But let me say, you’re showing real guts by booking with a reputable provider and sticking to it, even with those nerves. That’s not just commitment; it’s a sign you’re ready to reclaim some joy and connection.  

Be careful ,you might be turning on a lot of people . ( cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, face sitting ,.etc)

It sounds exciting to me!  Enjoy your lady, enjoy your body, just relax and take it in.  This is your time.  This is about you.

Weight doesn’t matter to me at all. What does matter is how you treat me, and yourself. Good hygiene, mutual respect, and a fun, open-minded vibe are way sexier than any number on a scale.  I’ve seen some of the most chiseled, magazine-cover types with the shittiest personalities and let me tell you, nothing kills the vibe faster than arrogance or lack of respect.

a good sense of humor. It's a sign of intelligence that girls appreciate.