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JustATransGirl See my TER Reviews 698 reads
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I have to agree with the other girls.  Either way it's nice and appreciated, especially since I don't charge enough in the first place...  :-)

It's hard to say.  When I get it in the beginning I of course want to be sure my dates gets my best effort.  But then I like to think I give that every time regardless.

And certainly afterward it's really nice to get a tip when it's not expected.

But I find that guys who want "extras" generally don't want to pay more.  Like sometimes guys who come over for GFE dates are often having such a good time an hours date becomes 2 hours or they see my "Wall of pain and Suffering" with the bondage toys they want to play.

But a good bdsm session takes at least 2 hours and needs some discussion, and starts at a higher rate because of the equipment investment, etc. So speaking for myself I really appreciate it when a guy recognises this type of thing and accomodates us accordingly.

Hugs,
TS Jamie :-)

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hotsparks811853 reads

The question I have is which would most providers like for first time meeting

1) Putting the tip in the envelope (In other words, the donation for her time is $500 and I put $600 in the envelope before she arrives)

2) Tipping at the end of the session extras.

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RubyRedHead608 reads

BEFORE... KiSsEs*

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Katielady2006434 reads

I would prefer to have anything you might want to give me in the envelope. I don't touch the envelope until it mysteriously houdinis its way into my purse at the end of the night anyways. I'd much rather have a discreet envelope like that than have someone hand me a wad of cash.

Just my personal preference...

Katie

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kittyasia480 reads

I was tipped in both ways you mentioned. plus my gents buy me gift as tips.

Those I have met always tipped me by 1). I write them 'Thank You' email afterward since I dont check the envelope at the date.

Those I met first time usually did 2) since I require donation first. my rates (also the service quality) are high comparing to the normal market in China.

I appreciate for their contacting me no matter they tip or not.

purringggg

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marere4687 reads

I have a gent who tips me in advance every time we see each other. To him, he wants to show me he appreciates me- it has nothing to do with specific acts performed. Others tip afterwards- often following an especially good session, which is appreciated as well. Bottom line, I'd say with a new gal, it may be best to wait until afterwards, as there is no need to tip if she put in a half-hearted performance or did the "upsell."

XoXo
Marea

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SensualJamie824 reads

Although TIP means "to insure proper service" I would give it at the END of the session

If the girl is with an agency, then YES TIP as she has to fork out more than 40-60% of her earnings

If an indy, well she is just that an indy, and doesnt have to tip anyone
BUT it is always nice after a session to get something as a swet surprise:)

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Hannah Heath GFE738 reads

I have had tips left in the envelope before, added to it after, and left in the restroom.  As they are never expected and always a nice suprise, I like them given in any form EXCEPT for handed to me directly.

Hannah

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paxx71029 reads

Oh no, I've always handed the tip directly to the lady. Now that I've found out some ladies don't like that, what is a good way to give a tip to a lady if a hobbyist is seeing her for the first time? If a lady is an ATF or someone who a hobbyist sees regularly, I can understand having the tip in the envelope in advance, but how to tip during a first-time visit? It's not possible to put the tip in the envelope after the session because by then, the envelope is already in the lady's possession.

(BTW, I always tip unless the service was horrendous. I understand some guys' views that this is a business and hobbyists don't need to give gifts, tip, etc. I can see your viewpoint, but I'm not sure I agree because the ladies, although they are doing business, are also human and I'm sure they appreciate the gesture. I'd guess this is especially true with the agency girls, who have to give a large chunk of the donation to the agency.)

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hotsparks81535 reads

Sounds Like most ladies would like it after so they know I appriciate the little extras like dressing as requested and for services above and beyond.  This my be the way to go for me that way I don't feel disappionted that I tipped for an average meeting, which has happened before.  I do like to give a lady a tip for small little things like Garter Belt, Back Rubs and Dances :)

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JustATransGirl699 reads

I have to agree with the other girls.  Either way it's nice and appreciated, especially since I don't charge enough in the first place...  :-)

It's hard to say.  When I get it in the beginning I of course want to be sure my dates gets my best effort.  But then I like to think I give that every time regardless.

And certainly afterward it's really nice to get a tip when it's not expected.

But I find that guys who want "extras" generally don't want to pay more.  Like sometimes guys who come over for GFE dates are often having such a good time an hours date becomes 2 hours or they see my "Wall of pain and Suffering" with the bondage toys they want to play.

But a good bdsm session takes at least 2 hours and needs some discussion, and starts at a higher rate because of the equipment investment, etc. So speaking for myself I really appreciate it when a guy recognises this type of thing and accomodates us accordingly.

Hugs,
TS Jamie :-)

Related Link: http://www.justatransgirl.com

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lilli835 reads

a tip already in the envelope, when nothing has taken place, is meaningless to me. i want to be tipped because a man feels i deserve it, that i provided good service, exceeded his expectations. if he just automatically tips regardless, that doesn't make me feel very special and i'd rather not have the extra cash.

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