Block her messages and put her on top of your DNS list.

Share her name and put her on my DNS list.

Just another day in hobbyland.

"Chemical enhancement" of what sort?  It sounds like she may have flown off the handle a bit prematurely but since you are being a bit evasive with your post it's hard to tell.

This was really odd and caught me completely off guard.  I saw on a local board that this provider was thinking of visiting, so I gave her a call and we chatted for 15 minutes.  It turned out that she expected the client to fly her to his destination, cover the room and board, and provide a large donation that would cover two days worth of her time.  The whole project was far beyond my means, but we had a very candid conversation about her services (greek, toy shows, groups, etc...) and we agreed to exchange e-mails.  She sent me an incredible shot of her FULLY  utilizing a double dong on herself.  Wow! No limits, right?  Wrong!  Since I'm not Ron Jeremy and the potential investment very high, I thought I'd ask about some chemical enhancement to help get the most out of the experience.  It seemed like an innocent enough of a question.  Boy, did the shit hit the fan.  She sent me multiple texts telling me what a rotten guy I am, with each one the donation became higher and higher.

I've only been abused only once before in such a fashion by another provider, and she was Russian too.  Damn they're quick tempered.

sent me a PM asking about a lady I had seen who is no longer on TER.  I responded with "I would not repeat although we had a good time and then I said that there should is probably better talent at the same price point in his area."  Well, next thing I know is a ranting e-mail from the provider about how I told "lies" about her.  Yeh, the guy should not have shared my intel with her.  But she went off in the e-mail just the same.  BTW, she is 1200 miles from me and the chances of seeing her again, if I wanted to repeat, were slim and none due to the geography (I don't fly providers to see me nor will I fly to see them).

As in little blue pills or as in the illegal party favors some indulge in?  If the former, I can't imagine what might be the problem.  If the latter, well, I'm not a favor of things that in the worst case scenario might turn a normally nice person into a dangerous, abusive person or might turn a misdemeanor charge into a felony.

Regardless, a simple "I don't play that way" would suffice....

Your puzzled,i have no idea what he is talking about,what i got out of the post was that he saw a double sided dildo then ask for an enahancement.my thought is he could not compete with that and want some sort of medicine to enlarge his manhood,just sayin.

LOL@ Sparkyusa's analyis!

I read it and re-read it. I'm not drunk yet(trust me, you'd know), but what I gather is this lady was thinking of visiting. Not you, inparticular, just doing the tour deal, right? Sometimes they post on a local board to see if there's any interest before they commit to making travel arrangements. I can understand that. Why pay to fly somewhere, stay in a hotel, and hope many guys call for a date?

So, you call her up and chat for a few. Then she tells you she wants you to fly her there, put her up in a nice place, feed her, and cover the costs for two days in that she would lose that revenue if she didn't see anybody else. You freely admitted that was beyond your means here.

Now, this is where I get confused. Did you tell her you couldn't afford such an arrangement? I mean, if she knew this beforehand, why would she continue to talk with you? My guess is that she was led on, teased if you will, and that made her send you the pic to entice you and show you of things to come.

And then again, you admitted the price was very high, and asked about chemical enhancements. Viagra, or some other pill we use to enhance the experience is what I'm thinking. Correct me if I'm wrong.

Why would you ask about enhancements, when the both of you know damn well you're not going to see each other under the terms she stated? Or did she infact know you weren't going to see each other under her terms is the better question.

I think not. I think you're leaving shit out. I think she believed you were eluding that you were going to fly her there, and then you sprung it on her you couldn't afford the experience. THAT'S why she went off on you and raised the rate, supposedly, to make you pay for insulting her if she even let's you see her.

Being Russian has nothing to do with it. She's a woman, a provider, and takes her job seriously.

You gave her delusions of making a lot of money, and when she found out it wasn't going to happen she got pissed.

Doubt anyone here can blame her, if that was what happened....

You lead her to believe that your inquiry was serious?  Reading between the lines, it sounds like you didn't do that intentionally, but rather wanted to keep communications flowing with an eye towards a possible future meeting that you could handle financially.  Or did you?

As for the chemical enhancement part, if you meant Viagra, Cialis, Levitra, etc., why even mention that to her?  She doesn't need to know, and may have equated your "chemical enhancement" suggestion with "Brain Food", i.e., drugs that are not legal.  Whatever, time to walk, dude...better luck next time!

This seems weird to me??? Was she expecting you to have one cup at her day rate? She was at the wrong. She opened the door to the sex talk, so unless there is another detail you left out, I do not think you crossed the line.

Next..........

Find another provider to see.