: TER General Board Discussion : What would you do IF - another hypothetical scenario (Incurable STD)?

TheVoiceOfReason 1554 reads

posted 5 years ago

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What would you do IF - another hypothetical scenario (Incurable STD)?

You were going to see a highly rated provider in the future (think weeks or months). She screened you and there was back and forth flirting. A little excitement was building. Then there were rumors that she had an Incurable STD such as herpes. Would you ...

1) Completely forget about her. Not worth the risk.
2) Ask her about it? Dicey. But maybe she will confirm or refute and/or tell you something like she is taking meds so she cannot transmit.
3) Go see her anyway. Assume that she takes good care of herself and that she would never do anything unprofessional.

Would this cause performance issues on your part Would you be able to get this out of your head if you did see her? What if it was a lady that you had seen before and clicked with?

-- Modified on 1/18/2021 1:29:40 AM

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 95 reads

posted 5 years ago

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Sorry VOR, but this is . . . .

a false narrative. Gonorrhea is curable according to the CDC. Link below.

barebear3 38 Reviews 159 reads

posted 5 years ago

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Gonorrhea is easily treated..

as is syphilis and chlamydia. Herpes and HIV cannot be cured but can be controlled .

"Then there were rumors that she had an Incurable STD" Whom was spreading the rumors? Anonymous posting on the internet? Another provider in her same community? ANother client?

About 5 years ago some women and some men told me that a certain woman whom I had seen had been a crack addict. I asked her and she told me that she had been approximately for 1-2 years and that ended 7 years prior to my seeing her. She told me that she knew about the rumors about her. She said that there were people trying her to give BBFS, and had threatened her with spreading the truth about her even if it was 7 years old.

Now it is 12 years since she last used crack. Do I believe her? Yes. I also see none of the physiological signs of crack abuse.

DT_lover 188 Reviews 157 reads

posted 5 years ago

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Change the question to, any STD, curable or not

There is some background discussion in this regard. What I have heard sounds credible.

My answer: Do not see, and save my friends as well.

TheVoiceOfReason 154 reads

posted 5 years ago

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The question says herpes not gonorrhoea

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GaGambler 83 reads

posted 5 years ago

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Or at least it does now

Please don't tell us you are going to try the weasel move of editing your post and then claiming someone/everyone else got it wrong. It's plain as fucking day that you edited your post AFTER the replies were posted.

I'll give you an F for effort, I don't think I ever saw this weasel side of you before. It's not a good look.

DeClemente 48 Reviews 93 reads

posted 5 years ago

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I agree with barebear3 (above).

Where would the rumors have come from?

I don't know WHAT I might do. It sure seems like a strange situation all around, so I'm glad I have never had to face it. On one hand, though, I would be glad to find out about the incurable STD ahead of making my decision whether or not to see her.

DT_lover 188 Reviews 29 reads

posted 5 years ago

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YOUR claim is easy to verify.

Just ask the lady if the accuser is/was her husband, correct?

TheVoiceOfReason 112 reads

posted 5 years ago

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Re: Change the question to, any STD, curable or not

Agree that it should say any STD - curable or not. Too late to change.

TheVoiceOfReason 36 reads

posted 5 years ago

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Re: YOUR claim is easy to verify.

Claims here are never easy to verify. Almost always he said, she said. Seen a lot of CRAZY stuff and retaliatory claims.

TheVoiceOfReason 82 reads

posted 5 years ago

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Re: Or at least it does now

No. Meant to say the post now says vs. says. Just a typo. Nothing is wrong with CDL's reading comprehension.

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team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 153 reads

posted 5 years ago

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Curable or incurable makes little difference in short run

If you hear any rumor, no matter if it's false, it is common sense to err on the safe side. There's plenty of fish. Your health is of utmost importance.

Forget about her. If the rumor is about a curable disease, maybe check back later after some weeks/months/years. If it's an ncurable disease, forget about her period.

And yes, I'm aware that this "hypothetical" scenario references a certain post that was deleted as via ter rules.

RIFFRICHARDS 89 reads

posted 5 years ago

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Easy for me

I wouldn’t see her. There are an abundance of beautiful, sexy providers in SoCal and Vegas, so why would I take a risk if there was even a 1% chance that the rumor was true?