sucking and fucking. My ATF (and I don't use that term as loosely as it seems some do) is a very sweet and very sexy young lady. We seem to connect on a friendship level (I'm not naïve it's most likely primarily an act and that's OK), I've asked her to help me to become a more sensuous lover. It's really a perfect situation because we start with all out sucking and fucking, after I pop she shows me what she likes sensuously and afterward we finish with sucking and fucking. One poster was exactly correct in that everyone is different so what she likes might not be what another woman would like. She also tells me that most women want to be treated like a slut sometimes and other times want to be made love to. I'm not sure if I'll get to use this sexual education much, I'm not much interested in a relationship anymore, I've tried it and been unsuccessful and got divorced. The hobby gives me all the intimate contact I need and I'm not really interested in all the bullshit that comes along with a relationship. Besides, I get to be with young sexy beautiful women who I wouldn't be able to attract in the civilian world, which means I would have to settle for someone I'm not really attracted to.

I apologize for going off on a tangent, my feeling about the question is I think it's a great idea to teach a man to rock your world. I think providers deserve to get off too, and if a hobbyist knows he can get you off he's much more likely to visit you more often.

Use them on my wife?  If my wife was interested in sex to begin with, I wouldn't be seeing providers

So let me get this straight now:  I'm supposed to see a provider for lessons on how to better please women, and then…?  With an asexual wife, and no desire to have a civvies gf on the side, the only beneficiary of my newfound skills would be..other providers?  Hmm…there's something wrong with this equation….

When with civvie girls, I tell what they like by how they react. If they act uncomfortable or move away, I adjust accordingly or try something else until I find the magic tempo, pressure, and technique that makes them start panting and yelling out blasphemies. I rarely got it right the first time with a girl.  

But providers don't do that, or at least not much. I have had a couple girls make some suggestions but more often they seem to think it's their job to absolutely love whatever it is the guy is doing. Maybe I am wrong, and I really am awesome, but given the number of reviews of guys who insist they give multiple orgasms, either we are all great or there is a whole lot of fakin' going on. I won't tell you how to do your business, and guys can be funny about constructive criticism, but if you fake responses I would think most guys would be crappy lovers, as you are taking away the feedback on which they depend to rock your world.  

The one provider who did give feedback did it in a way that was sexy. When she started breathing her preferences in my ear and telling me how hot it would make her, I felt like a God, not a newb.  

I love learning new things Courtney.
Will you offer different levels beginner-advance sessions
 Maybe students would have to take a placement test  
Homework?
Bring in a teachers aid might be educational
Field trips to different places
If I really sucked would you keep me after class.
How about refresher courses have to keep the skills sharp

Just last week was with a lady while holding her before we started  I told her if I do something you like say more was kind of fun every time she started to moan I would stop and ask more? was a way of teasing she said more quite few times maybe I would place in your advance course