Used to search more often and unless looking for something in particular started at the top and went untill saw someone of interest . Also aware premiums paid for front loading and adds moved forward by logging in  
Both meant to me provider that at least was more active and likely to respond.
Can not Remeber the last time I got to the last page of Tryst.

IMO, some providers put too much into their websites.  Glamour shots are ok but current candids are better for me.  Quick loading and easy to navigate via smartphone.  It seems like the music and silly shit are gone from most now, thank God.  It's also my preference if the pics are able to be seen in a quick loading grid vs larger pics that take a while.  I've spent too much time in area with crap signals apparently, lol.  

 
Links for reviews and other sites are great as well.  Video available by a link is great but not if it's automatically opening when first opening the page.  Lots of pics too, lol.  My .02!  

On Tryst, I will view all pages that come up based on my filter criteria (budget, build, etc).  That usually is 8-9 pages for my location in Massachusetts/New England. Unfortunately Tryst does not have an "exclude" feature like p411, hence the long list.  

On p411, my filters yield about 20-25 listings based on similar filters. Lately I found out p411 will email me about a new ad for my area. Since these don't include my usual filter criteria, almost all of these are outside by budget ;-(

On TER, I can find the latest reviews on just the first page coming up since I search TER very regularly.

Hope that helps.  

If using Tryst I first include my preferences like GFE or PSE, submissive, etc, then look at the visuals. I pay attention to last active date to ensure she's reasonably current, and I often look all the way to the last page. I try to cross check with TER for legit reviews.  

Whether on a website or an ad I'm looking at the pix for things like visual consistencies in weight/age - if one pix is a young slim woman and others show a much older and heavier face and body, I'm figuring the older heavier image is what I can expect.  
I like to see some variety in the photos, specifically non pro photos, or minimally altered low glamour shot. I don't like a lot of heavy makeup in person or in all of her photos. Website design is best if not too busy, simple is preferred over complicated. But the more detailed regarding services and preferences. the better. If you're a kinky submissive provider I wanna know that. If vanilla non GFE, I wanna know that too.
If I were setting up a website I would look around at other websites and notice what's easiest to navigate and what makes it stand out from the crowd.  
Good luck!

DIY

Wix websites are easy to use as your own professional webmaster.

Great topic!

I love the feedback from the fellas! I read. I think having candid photos as well as pro pics is the best for marketing.  

Paying for premium helps get bookings. P411 m, Tryst & TER VIP membership for the win.

My market has 127 providers listed on Tryst.  So I keep my eye on them.  At any given time, there may be 0-3 providers listed who I would see.  I also check p411 listings every few days.  Every now and then, p411 gets someone who is not on Tryst…

I rely most heavily on TER over other sites to pick a provider. I usually start by searching the last few pages of new reviews that I have not seen since my last visit. I look for new interesting ladies, and for new reviews of potential providers who may not have enough reviews yet. I also check reviews of providers I have seen and enjoyed. If a new reviewer also liked the provider, I will check out his review history to see if he saw and highly rated any girls that I should try to see.   From time to time I may even PM a few reviewers who have seen a provider I am considering to ask a few questions. I also PM reviewers with similar tastes to see if they have any new recommendations. I have a few favored bookers, and I may search by their phone numbers to see if they have any new talent who may have recently been reviewed. All of this research contributes to my immediate TDL of 2-4 providers, my midterm TDL of 2-3 providers, and my repeat soon list of 2-3 providers! I am always looking for candidates for each of these categories.  Sometimes I will go offsite to two other sites which could have some useful reviews on a provider I am considering.

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I use the reviews search filters for that city to find someone to my liking.

 
I gather several names then research all their reviews, then their websites, and compile a list.   Then I reach out to the top of the list, and if no response after a few days, go on to number two, etc.  I do this several months in advance.

 
I also check out my local buzz board to see who is coming to my town, and if someone seems like someone I would like to meet, and if her reviews and other particulars come together, then I will reach out to her.

In this order:
Rate
Location (Incall)
Services
Reviews
Looks.

P411 is the best site for me to start with and then to TER.

I will go through ads on a number of sites (yes, I will go through all of them), and narrow the field to a few. Then, I read all content on ads and sites, except I may only read a few reviews here... no need to read every one!  

 
I like a provider's website to have the basics: Intro, Images, Rates, Screening, etc.. I will not proceed with any provider who does not list rates or screening. A schedule that is actually up to date is very helpful also!  

 
Once I have done all this, I simply decide and commit.  

 
Doing it this way takes time, but I find I make better choices - better connection, better physical matches, more likely to repeat.

I already avoid most K-girs because so many do BBFS (did see a K-girl duo but never took off the wrapper and the only DATY was between them), but now I'm wondering whether I need to scour every review for any mention of BB. After reading some of the comments on BBFS in the thread below, I checked the reviews of a proponent of that practice. Sure enough, there was his review of a lady I was considering seeing and all the BB anal and vaginal sex they had.  Am I glad I passed on seeing her.  

Not sure how the hell to do all that cross-checking (and I know no system is foolproof), but I'm now thinking about this extra step.

Ads
I use TER, p411, tryst and cross reference them. I usually view all the pages when I filter it down to my preferences. Your reviews here, probably read the latest and within the past month or two.

 
Website
easy to read. I look up color combinations that are easy to read.

You dont have to a long manifesto in the bio section.  

I like to know little about the girl.  short bio of how you would like a date to go.  

As I get older Im more curious about what a lady might like. Favorite drink, coffee, candy. Clear rates, if possible what is on the menu. I say "if possible" I don't know if putting acronyms is possible.

I like pro photos but not necessary. If possible, highlight your best feature. I but I like candid photos, selfie etc. The latter provide me with what to expect from the girl when it comes to how they will dress.  

Links to reviews, links to sites that you are on, socials.  

I like a navigation bar at the top

...on advertisements is if they don't how at least partial breasts or some indication that they don't have saggy breasts.  That is a deal breaker for me.  You could have a great body, and flaunt it in your photos, which is good, but if you only show your breasts in a tight fitting top my saggy breast radar goes up.  Just side boob to see the shape is enough for me to pull the trigger.

until I get to no more than a dozen or so providers. Sometimes I need to expand my search, sometimes tighten it. So a premium listing has little effect on my search.  

For websites, keep it simple. At least a few selfies (photos that are not obviously glamor shots) and/or a video is nice.
Don't make me hunt for your rates. Ask me to contact you through text, email, or TER. I dislike filling out online website forms. Keep your calendar (if you tour) up to date.

What don't I like? Any form of hostility. We're all adults. We've all had less than perfect interactions during booking or in a session, but listing do's and don'ts is off-putting.  

Be sure that the functionality is both desktop/laptop and smartphone friendly.

P411 first page is very direct without a lot of junk.
Rate, Pictures and providers website.
Sometime I can jump directly to the TER reviews.

P.S. Your website is terrible for a client to use.

I scroll through everyone in my metro (there’s only like 120).  

I look for pretty faces.  I’m ok with some light blurring or masking, but I want to know that she is pretty.  Either the eyes blurred or mouth blurred, or a very light full blurring where you can make out the general look of the facial features.  

Also, it really helps to see her in a sexy mood (laughing, smiling, maybe a sultry moody sexy look).  I’m always amazed how many  bad photos are up.  (Blurry Rear view of a BBW, standoffish expressions, RBF, etc).  

I look to see that she in shape.  

I look for reviews, or potentially an ultra-professional  website where i can feel comfortable she is highly professional and discrete.  

I look at the menu, but they all seem basically the same and small differences in menu don’t bother me.  I’d rather have an enthusiastic, sexy HJ than a “dead fish” FS.  

I look for a fee somewhere from 500-800.  

In my metro, there are no local providers who meet these criteria.  So I’m always looking for providers on tour, and scrolling past the locals.  I also like this from a discretion standpoint - I worry about a local feeling like she “knows me” too much and wanting to blur lines or cross lines….

1. Google phone # or email to see if TER reviews appeared
2. Check for the reliable REVIEWERS on the the ladies. It seems there are too many fake reviewers out there and it may take some time to figure out who the real reviewers are based on your own judgment.  
3. Filter your search to your liking on TER and the ladies requests. E.g. Deposits is out for me and my loss.  
4. Reach out and see if you pass the screening based on what you ate willing to share.  

As always....enjoy and have fun.

My approach is similar to others. I usually start with Tryst or similar listing site depending on country I might be in and filter down. I will go through all pages on that filtered list and pick the listings that look like they might be a good option. I prefer unblurred face but accept privacy concerns with all the invasive tech now but partial face views help. I also like recent photos, selfie or two that aren’t glamour shot, that’s where social media with periodic post (selfie or pose photo that’s current) helps. After that I read listing and see if personality/general service is a fit.

I then pivot to a combo or TER, personal site, and social media to validate legit listing. I don’t look for specific “menu” items, just that person is real, realistically representing themselves, and generally reviewers had a good time. For me it’s not a deal killer if there’s personal site or social media if there’s TER. I’ll also see someone with one or small number of reviews but has listing, social media and personal site that indicates professional service.

Given the legal gray area this entertainment form operates in for me it’s about finding the service I’m looking for and making sure it’s legit and safe. I also strongly feel those that provide services legitimately are entertainers that deserve the same respect as anyone in any aspect of the overall entertainment industry. Just my take on it.

TER, P411, and Tryst. I will also check X to look for recent posts.