Before you tell me there's a board for that, let me say I'm not a newbie but have embarked on a venture that is new to me and I respect the input I've gotten here in the past.

I've lined up a threesome with my two favorites for this coming weekend. They don't know each other but were enthusiastic about the request and both claim to be "in" to other women. I've known these two for a good while now and luv them both, our individual relationships are much stronger than the ones that get established in the "run and gun" sessions that we all indulge in in this hobby. I am well aware that it's sex for money, but people do become friends and lovers in this hobby as well.

My concern is that there could possibly be jealousy issues arrise (maybe that's a stupid newbie notion and I'm sure to hear that from some of you) during this two hour meeting. In real life, feelings are eaily hurt by percieved favoritism. Favorite #1 asked for this session as a birthday present and has already expressed that there will possibly be competition for time. #1 is also a one man woman, more my mistress than a provider in that I've been her only client for some time now. #2 is the consumate pro, very beautiful and skilled, exclusive client list, passionate and sensual. Without knowing them, I know it's impossible for anyone to give me any absolute answers.

So my question of those that may have been down this road. Do I stand a chance of leaving the room with one less friend? Having twin sons, I know how important that equal distribution of love  and affection are....


Crusr

In my particular case, it started when a regular of mine suggested a threesome with a new friend of hers.  We did, and things when well for a while.  Then the new friend suggested that just we two start meeting and I went along with that.  The first then got their nose a bit out of joint because they felt that their friend (not I) was disloyal.

I still see both (Or did, it's been a few years now.) but I feel a bit bad that these two fell out of favor with each other because of me.  I suggested a raproachment, but neither seemed interested.

If I had it to do over again, I would not have gone off with the new person alone.

Live and learn.

Based on your description of each lady, I found myself thinking #1 would be one that could become jealous.  However you also mention that it was her idea. Seems to me that is more than a green light.  In terms of comepetition for time, threesomes provide all sorts of possibilites for simultaneous activity.  Ponder this:  If one is riding you CG while the other mounts your face while DFKing the other, which one is getting your time?  If it's a matter of who gets the pop then if possible give one to each over the course of two hour date.  In terms of general affection, you can easily spread your attention and focus evenly to each lady.  

At the end of the day do not forget these ladies are attuned to the biz.  One client or many, you are still a client.  The fact that you also forged friendships with each should just make the sailing easier not more difficult.      

Try to clear your head of these worries.  Threesomes should be nothing but fun. Period.  Save the connection thoughts until your next solo flights with each lady.  I hope this does not happen to you but if this should result in you losing one as a friend then I would suggest that she was not really a close friend.  

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that among those that see each over several times - over some degree of time, become somewhat "attached" and with that attachment comes some jealousy.  Not a true girlfriend/boyfriend type of jealousy, but something.  Maybe it is attached to the income, maybe it is a longing for a friendship (not a sexual thing at all) but whatever it is, it is most definately there.  Odd, that this has not served me well.  and I truly think that there is a real potential to leave the room with one less friend - no matter how "equal" your attentions may be.  

This is a great question - and I would love to hear the providers "provide" their views.

But what a problem!  enjoy.

You'll be the jealous one if they turn out to be really into it. Jealous of how much fun they have with each other without having to pay for it...

I think both the responses you've already gotten are right on.  First and foremost... you really should remember you are paying for a wonderful and sexually fulfilling time and you deserve that.  That said, you also appear to care deeply about each of these providers and I completely respect that.  If you feel there is going to be a challenge in leaving the situation with both of them remaining as your "friend"/provider then maybe you shouldn't be going through with it.  I think if they are excited about it AND they don't know each other, and one of them suggested it... it really ought to make it easier ... as was suggested already.  Bottom line to me... it's about a great sexual experience and shouldn't be something that causes you stress!  Have fun, play safe!!

I am relatively new....please tell me what is DFK?

And am I stupid if I let a gorgeous Tgirl cum in my mouth

They have a better feel for the situation than you do. However, you might want to favor No. 1 a bit more if you have an exclusive relationship. Since it is only a two-hour meeting, there is not going to be enough time to create patterns that alter you relationships.

Some years ago, I had three-way live-in relationships on two occasions with two girls at a time (we all slept in the same bed every night), and it defintely was a balancing act. I had no feelings of jealousy, but I constantly had to make sure they were both feeling loved and satisfied and not ignored in any way. It helped though that they were both into each other too. However, those first times together as a threesome were just wild sexathons, with less worry about balance.

Presumably, they have both been in this situation before and will simply focus on your pleasure and aren't expecting too much in return.

Unless I just fell off the turnip truck, a
t-girl has a weenie.

I did the very same thing.  Mine worked out marvelously.  It was almost the same about the two  trysters I chose to do it with.    

I not only had the best time of my life, and it was a learning experience.  I learned a lot about women, and especially bisexual women.

But I know now I was lucky too. It is a gamble, and if it works out, you'll hit the jackpot.  If it is a miss, it is likely to be a total fiasco, then you have spent just a tremendous load of money.  

The main problems are not what you think. You are depending on their chemistry with each other.  

To assure it works, they both must be bisexual.  I learned from the ladies I was with that bi-women take uninterest by an attractive woman very hard, especially when they expected her to be bi.  

If chemistry is working, it will be immediately thrilling for them.  They will flirt and play heavily with each other right from the start.  

You better not be the jealous type if they hit it off like that.  They are going to pay a lot of attention to each other then.  The vibe between bi-women having sex is an extraordinary turn-on if you could enjoy it. Make sure you get yourself in there for the fun, because if you don't, they can get very distracted by each other, just laugh at that and save the images, and be prepared for some slapstick on that theme.

I'll give you a scene from mind that illustrates this.  One of the ladies was riding on me in CG and was really rocking.  The other one had ducked into the bathroom for a moment.  She came out with a new change of sexy lingerie, and the first one got right off of me and went to her.  I could just lay there paralyzed while my eyes crossed.  I laughed about it with them afterward.  

You could sit back and watch, but that is a high admission cost for a little voyeurism.  Get in there, don't feel rejected, and enjoy the fun.

TS, either pre or post-op is more common.

Back to the question:

It depends upon whether or not you were aware of the persons ah, appendage before you got down there.

For a person to not reveal this about themselves is pretty off the wall to start with.

Was this a surpise to you or did they reveal this first?

For biological women, letting them cum in my mouth is a sacrement, but not with a T-girl, which is a bit of an oxymoron if ever there was.

one of my lady friends and put my cards on the table. She just chuckled and said I was in for the time of my life, kick back and enjoy the show. This could e good......thanks for the input.

Crusr

If one of the providers has an "exclusive" arrangement with you then yes there might be trouble on the horizon should you pay more attention to the other.  However, if she already knows you are seeing other providers I don't see how the situation Mrfisher posits could materialize.  In any event, life is full of risks and this one seems worth taking.