As much as I hate to generalize, but this is one of those cases when preferred method of communication says a lot about business practices of a provider.
1) e -mail only or e-mail preferred
You can expect to be screened and generally will be dealing with be dealing with "by appointment only" companion
2) phone only
Light if not zero screening and "first come first serve basis"
Just wonder why some providers state that, while others don't. Would email be a risk, say if computer were confiscated and something explicit had been said?
I've volleyed with a "sensual/erotic massage" provider in BP/Body Rub section and guess I'm a little surprised she got fairly explicit in an email response......don't want to be stung!
That could be a reason, where they don't want any written evidence left behind in case you happen to be LE.
However some providers don't except e-mails, because a lot of times the emails are nothing but BS, and a waste of their time.
Backpage providers, are usually a first come first serve. Meaning you call when you want to date them that day with in that hour.
Also if the provider who's using explicit talk in her e-mails, and you have not seen her yet, I would do some serious research on her, and if something seem shady at all I would past on that. Most smart providers wont do that
but you learn something new every day I guess. I have a "no phone call" policy until after a guy is screened, but I have never heard of no emails. I mean how the hell do they communicate on the actual internet? If LE wants you they will get you...phone, email, or in person. Even screening strictly as many of us do, is not 100 percent so I doubt LE is the issue here. Maybe they are broke and don't have a PC lol. That's all I can come up with.
Maybe BP isn't for you. Maybe you can answer a question that has been bothering me for a looonnnggg time...why the f**k would one look for a provider in the Body Rub section!?
I mean seriously, wtf? You have a problem with safe & reviewed ladies who you know are offering what you seek?
Yes, some providers will state that in their ad. Because they do not want an email as evidence to their conviction. Another reason is, they don't use emails as a way to set up their appointments. Typically, a BP provider will advertise this because she has sloth like characteristics, and will only book appointments by phone call.
Also, there is a trend for establish providers and BP providers as it relates to emails. What I mean by established providers, well, they are well reviewed and typically post ads on TER or Eros, and never BP. The trend is, these establish providers will often times use emails to set their appointments with clients. So, you can see the difference in practices between the two. Establish providers will use emails, while non-establish providers don't.
About your comment to providers being explicit, well, you should avoid that unless she is well reviewed and has verified you to be a safe and legit hobbyist. I for one don't engage in explicit emails, such as indicating a BBBJ or something of that nature. Why, because its already indicated in her TER profile. Yes, see girls that are well reviewed.
If I have a request however, such as a specific piece of clothing that I want the provider to wear, then I may simply put that in words that doesn't convict her of any wrong doing. It is advise that providers should not respond in explicit text through emails if she is not reviewed, and it is also advised that hobbyist should not engage in explicit text with providers that are not reviewed. Don't do it unless you know her or have seen her in the past, because she may be an LE.
not using email due to those concerns.Maybe the lady does not have access to a computer all of the time so she would not be able to check emails regularly.It could possibly be that she is more of a phone person than email.I am Email Only provider to set up appointments but I do have a quick chat on the phone before meeting.I would recommend never sending explicit emails to anyone in this hobby.Many ladies do not like these type of emails and will not respond.I know if I get an email regarding explicit language it is a surefire way to not receive an answer from me.This business is about being discreet whether it is an email or on the phone explicit language should not be discussed.Majority of info can be found in reviews that is what they are here for.Every lady does what works for her some ladies communicate by email and phone,some are phone only,and some are email only.
Bingo. Many BP gals(not the one's w/TER reviews) do not have Internet access, except through the hotel lobby's computer, & in some cases, their phones, many do not have laptops. They're already taking a big enough chance posting on the hotels computers, so going downstairs to check their e-mails every 30 min would be an even bigger risk.
Just because she placed an ad, & yall know what basically is going to happen during a session What is the purpose of putting it in black and white & leaving a trail that will be out there til...... Everything typed on a computer is there even if it's deleted, if it was tooo get confiscated she would be in trouble., LE will take her laptop & try to use everything they can for their case & even go after her contacts, it isn't wise to send expliccit emails & I frankly do not understand the needs for this, why do u need to incriminate both you & her in an email???? I've had ppl email me sharing a fetish asking if I do this etc.... I instruct them to call me if it is something I would be interested in as I don't want anything agreed upon in black & white & no client ever respects this, they continue to email more and more no matter what I say to deter them..... I actually had a potential client tell me Fucking admit it you are a WHORE, u fuck for money....he continued on and on...I emailed back, no I do not collect a fee for an illegal sex act you answered an ad I posted for massage without implying anything else, but you have clearly stated you are a john looking to pay for someone to do some sex acts with you & I'm so very glad that you are open to admitteding this so publicly since my computer was hacked & I don't know the purpose but maybe it was too see who all these john's are out here.... The guy actually continued to send emails explicitely. I don't understand this? Just because you guys create a fake email address & fake name & think I cant figure out who you are, LE can & oviously whoever hacked my computer can as well & why they did it I don't know, was it a stalker, I don't know, was it a vindictive housewife determined to catch & have physical evidence & use it to not only hurt her husband but to hurt the provider as welll.
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Just wonder why some providers state that, while others don't. Would email be a risk, say if computer were confiscated and something explicit had been said?
I've volleyed with a "sensual/erotic massage" provider in BP/Body Rub section and guess I'm a little surprised she got fairly explicit in an email response......don't want to be stung!
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