Then I'd take her shopping to Whole Foods.

..... while restrained in 4 point on the bed.

But as for "directing" activities, I prefer to frame them as suggestions, ala "Would you like to do X?"  Almost always the response is "yes!"  But every so often the provider will offer a counterproposal which is just as fun if not more so than what I asked for.

comfortable taking charge, but sometimes I get a shiatsu massage before seeing a provider.  In those cases, I have been reduced to jelly already, so I am content to let a provider have her way with me.  

One session I'll have specific requests, the next I let the pro take charge and teach me something new.

...taking charge and letting her "drive the bus" for a bit. This pre-supposes that we've had a chance to discuss our like and preferences so that we're mostly on the same page as to how the session might go and then let things flow from there. I will make suggestions and will also ask her what she'd like to do. But then, I'm not booking 1/4 or 1/2 hour sessions, generally booking 1.5-2 hours at a time and we have time to explore and be comfortable.

I m a take charge kinda gall.....I say just lay baqck and enjoy the ride...lets have fun

and the women should be submissive and bow to her demigod.

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Laying on my back, she is in charge.

I prefer to let them direct the action.  I may test the waters so to speak with certain things but am careful not to upset them.  
With established friends I like a give and take where we both direct the action to where we both want it to be.

let things happen naturally. I feel that I have good chemistry with the ladies that I see and we just know when to do what for each other. Now, I would be open to any suggestions that she may have.

I like it where it is shared who takes charge.

I like being Dominant,  and Submissive,  And I like the man I'm with choosing for me!!

I think I just threw up in my mouth! Lol. Just a little😉