I'm a little jealous by people who say that have ATF's. I've been in this hobby and have seen some provider's but none that would qualify as an atf. how difficult is to find someone who is like you and share's your sense of humor and who provides good or even great service. someone who you don't mind spending on...

Why be jealous? It's like if I said, You know, my favorite ice cream is chocolate. What's yours!" And you don't really have a favorite flavor, why should you be jealous of me because I have a favorite?

Of all the providers I have a few favorites. But non I would repeat atbthud time.

But this time , I kinda get it.
I suppose if one could see your review history it might help to understand your frustration . However , I really do understand your unwillingness for that kind of exposure.

I agree with most of your criteria, and it would be nice to find someone who fits all of those wants.  But for me my ATF is something different.  I rarely see women more than once, esp if "It" just isn't there.  I recently met a lady whom I had a great time with, she was down to business (Sex) as soon as I walked in the door and very open to all things sexually.  Not only that, but she was smoking hot but in a regular way if you know what I mean.  My first ATF was ridiculously hot in a porn star type way.  To each his own, some look for comfort, emotional attachment, sense of humor, etc.  Others look for a fantasy girl with an open menu.  ATF can be defined many different ways.  I'd say stop looking for an ATF, and just look for someone close to what you're willing to accept. You may very well find your girl.

I won't insult you by suggesting that you're dumpster diving and get what you pay for. How difficult is it to find a match in RL? Multiply that by 10 or even more. This is P4P, don't believe everything you read here. Sure guys have their ATFs. Same guys have met a dozen 10/10s, and each was their ATF until a new ATF came along. It's all relative, and in most cases it call comes to an end when the cash dries up.  

thanks for the responses. i actually have had a few higher level providers and some that have had great reviews. but noone have been that i would want to repeat. i was or maybe am still a newbie, and after reading plenty of reviews i haven't found an atf. maybe i need to test the waters some more and meet other providers. not sure what it is. its not that i want someone too intimate or that i'm asking too much, just looking for a provider whose pictures are representative and is fun to spend time and money with.

...Over many years in the hobby I have encountered a few women I would call my current ATF mostly because the sessions we shared made me choose to repeat with them. One of the things we must keep in mind in this hobby though is not to get too attached to an ATF as they may be gone without notice,perhaps retired or moved-on, after all this is a business.

well to be clear i haven't been dumpster diving, and if i was i wouldnt be complaining. but i was speaking about the tons of higher class providers i have seen. if you really ask me, it's mainly the combination of pictures and people's reviews that (i guess) lead me to anticipate the date with a provider. as it turns out, the pictures are some times not very representative. the main issues i had were:

Carnal Sundae .... the Sundae is soooo so good....
it's just nice to have the Cherry too.

under your real handle, then I could read some of your reviews and see how you approach your sessions, what is important to you, and what kind of providers you see.  That's the only way I can give you any meaningful input that will not be so general that it would apply to anyone who has a dick.  Would love to be helpful, but you gave us nothing to work with.

but you don't just go down to the corner store and pick up an ATF off of the top shelf and voila. And who said she has to be a 10/10? That's sooo fucking shallow. I've been with 10/10s and they don't hold a candle to my ATFs. But they still were 10/10s.  

but you don't just go down to the corner store and pick up an ATF off of the top shelf and voila. And who said she has to be a 10/10? That's sooo fucking shallow. I've been with 10/10s and they don't hold a candle to my ATFs. But they still were 10/10s.  

It is an answer to  you  and not as he looks for women on back page.

And that happens a lot.  
The "ATF" thing is mostly a mere illusion  
in the minds of the hobbyists.  
After all this is just fantasy
The only thing missing
Is a midget in a white suit
Yelling, "DA Plane!, BOSS!, DA Plane"
As long as everyone remembers
That ... Everything's OK

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To this day.  Although she is not local, she travels often enough to keep things hot.  It's lasted for over 12 years, and may last for a lifetime.  How did I get so lucky?  

at least in my case.

There are so many beautiful ladies out there who are also wonderful and compassionate at their profession. I would gladly see again any of the women I've been with and call them a favorite because we had some wonderful playtime together. I think I have the opposite problem, I want to see all the women I've already seen and tons more over and over again... lo

I found one and right now she is the only I see. I like to bang multiple hot chicks like the next guy, but this one we have connected on so many levels that sex is just a small part of the connection. This one has really put the F in gfe for me.

But, of course, I'm a bit biased.

You win

i think you may be reading too much into my alias. it wasn't actually reffering to women i see or don't see, it was actually for being a sports fan. how could you read so deeply into an alias and assume so much?

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