I wasn't suggesting you treat the girl inhumanely. I was just trying to make a bigger point that you shouldn't be shy asking the gal what you want..
If the gal i am seeing exhibits that kind of attitude, I'd just get the fuck up and leave. Hopefully that helps.
I know providers see their far share of clients during their tour or just their home town/city, with that being said I'm sure you can get sore/sensitive from some areas of your naughty bits. I know for me its kinda a buzzkill if providers cuts my attention on trying to turn you on with breast play, manual stimulation, or oral play. I know it must be awkward to say no to something they want/ enjoy doing. So is that something as clients is to ask if you are sensitive anywhere to remove the awkwardness and both on the same page, or do you just endure it, I personally want both of us to have fun but if you are uncomfortable during the ordeal then whats the point.
I think your only option, being the sensitive guy you are, is to go ahead and ask at the beginning of the date. Let them know it’s very important to your pleasure that you are absolutely sure they are comfortable.
For many hobbyists though, they’re probably more OK with the provider making that first move, letting the monger know that she’s not comfortable with certain activities due to soreness.
And then there’s some mongers who just want to get a nut off and would prefer their date just tough it out.
Thank you for your input.
I mean what is the business relationship here? Do you also feel awkward when telling your waitress that you want your steak cooked a certain way?
Sometimes I wonder how people get thru life by being so shy. Even in your professional life, do you have to work with others to get things done by asking them professionally, politely, and nicely to do things that you want to get done for your company? I mean c'mon.. This is just an extension of that..
Must be painful to be so introverted.
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Sorry if I see a provider as a human being instead of a piece of meat. I did want a providers perspective and maybe the fellas own experience on it or thoughts thats all.
I wasn't suggesting you treat the girl inhumanely. I was just trying to make a bigger point that you shouldn't be shy asking the gal what you want..
If the gal i am seeing exhibits that kind of attitude, I'd just get the fuck up and leave. Hopefully that helps.
I was just asking a question to providers and fellow monger. I know I do not have much reviews or experience. Thats why I asked the question so I can learn from you guys that do have experience and hopefully you can share you knowledge and how each would do said situation. I would not come here and characterize anyone because I do not care about your character. It has nothing to do with the question.
OK Here are some tips...
1.. Research.. research.. research..
2... Make sure thru reviews that the girl doesn't have limitations.
3... When you get over 10+ reviews, join the RO board to backchannel.
4... PM the guys. to backchannel for more research.
5... Be clean and respectful yourself, so they don't have to deny a certain service. On top of that shower when you come to the incall. Don't wear any strong smelling perfumes, and steer clear of any offensive smelling oils and ointments.
6... Above and beyond only roll the dice with the money you can afford to lose. Despite all that shit still happens, hence YMMV.
7.. Last but not the least, don't take shit from no one.. Man up.. Don't be shy to tell them that you didn't pay for this crap. But again, the last one depends on your personalty. If you are a softie, you will take shit from anyone.. Like I said.... Man up.
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Sounds like that provider had lots of limitations on her interaction with you. Unfortunate, but i think she's an outlier. And it's happened to all of us. The good news is that there are lots and lots of ladies out there who will ring your bell by being a lot more open and open-minded. Your previous reviews attest to that. My suggestion is to fuck lots of other women who don't have these limitations. You don't have to be insensitive; just find women who aren't so limited in their level of engagement.
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generated from your Nov 2022 review?
If so, then she wasn't sensitive. Just a bitter provider who wasn't happy that you didn't book her $1k 90 minute minimum date. And then to provide subpar service in retaliation is just not right IMO. She appears to be very unprofessional to me.
If a provider wants a minimum duration of date, then don't advertise anything less. Seems simple enough.
He didn't say that.. Helixer took the liberty of attributing OP's post to his last review.
Well... looking at his posting history, or lack thereof, something was the inspiration for his OP. That review fits the bill.
Sometimes one has to read between the lines.
Yeah that makes a little bit of sense now... The way I read OP's post was without the context of the review. It felt like he was shy of asking a provider to do something.. And again, lets face it.. His style of writing is not exactly easy to understand either.
I'll do better.
so he ALREADY KNOWS now that his November 2022 date with her is going to be like this, so he wrote the review, but I don't get the point of complaining about it this far in advance.
To use the time machine. I just got the damn thing cleaned after going back in time and fucking Ginger Lynn in her prime. And the Flux Capacitor is still acting up.
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Forgot to change the year to my review. Apologies gentlemen. I did want a providers perspective and maybe the fellows own experience on it or thoughts thats all.
Wrote the review in January 2022 and must of forgot to align with 2021
People have bad days, and that goes for both providers and the guys who see them. With that said, when I'm having a bad day at work, I just take a day off. "She" should give her session her best as she is taking $$$ for the "date". With that, I agree with Diablo.....
However: some of the responses, and espcially with certain ones clearly in mind:
People come to the GD Board to openly discuss and solicit input or just want to say something on their mind.
Responses can either be objective, straight to the point, with empathy, or just nasty. One learns a lot about someone or a poster by sitting back and watching what they post day in and out. It's always the same crap.
As I said in the past, no need to throw a brick at someone for participating in the boards.
No need to be a jerk. It isn't high school dude. I'm sorry if you got picked on as a kid, but.... Grow the fuck up.
Sitting behind a keyboard anonymously bashing everyone, makes you feel good?
Is it any wonder that it's always the same who post and rarely anyone new, including providers?
you're responding to someone other than the OP but you've posted to the OP. Perhaps you're reading in flat mode rather than tree mode?
I read his first paragraph as a response to the OP, then the rest of his post is directed to certain respondents, mainly Curly 😊
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Okay, reread and can see that.
Doubt he is talking to me. My response ain't rude. Maybe just having conversation w/ himself. LOL
I was just urging the guy not to be shy.