Hello, TER!

I have no interest in drinking on dates. I have, with one particular provider, shared a bottle of Prosecco to start things off with, but other than that it's a non-issue for me. I'm not much of a drinker to begin with. I probably wouldn't turn down a glass of wine to start off an extended appointment with, but that's about it.

Over the years, I've had to stop seeing at least 4 gals on account of problems (some serious like facing LE) with them drinking too much.

That's not something that even comes up. And I couldn't care less if she drinks or drugs.
 
I was offered to stay after closing at an AMP to share some wine with the masseuse, but declined because I was new to P4P and I was a fool. Some time later, I was offered a specialty (I think Chinese) liqueur at one of my favorites, but it was late and I opted to just get some sleep... with her.
 
That's it. In hundreds of visits, those two occasions were the only two where it even came up.

who start drinking before I get there.  It's rude and unprofessional.  

I have no issue with a lady who enjoys a libation--if I've offered it or if we're out for some pubic social time.  A glass of wine or Prosecco is no problem.

I literally had a provider pass out while giving me a blowjob in the 69 position. I don't know if it was drugs or alcohol (I didn't smell anything on her breath) but she was gone.  I had to slide out from under her.  She kind of came around when I flipped her over, so I started to do missionary, but she conked out again. So I left.  She had a wad of money just sitting on the bathroom sink.  Anyhow, I threw the blanket over her and took off.  She apologized by text a little later.
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So yeah, being inebriated doesn't make for a fun session.

I love to start with a couple of drinks and get to know each other.  
Once we had a lot fun and after all the fun we had a few more in my suite.  
Then it became real funny we hoth got liquored up and we started to fool around while drinking
And the end was she slept over gave me fantastic blowjob in the morning and we said our goodbye S  
Never ever was charged a other penny  
I see her every time when in Vegas  
What a blast that lady

But I have zero interest in seeing addicts or drunks. I have enjoyed a little wine with a lunch but the lady I was seeing then only had a taste. I liked that she view the situation as a professional situation where she not only needed to be top of game for me but also for others she would see later that  day.

There is a really beautiful provider out there who I was anxious to try out. The, just before I could book, a fellow I know from here posted a review where he described this girl being halfway between drunk and hung over. She was so wasted, she couldn’t perform at all. She kept trying to apologize, but it was a washout.  
I just saw her ad again, and I’m really tempted, but I won’t even ask if she will start early. Not worth the risk.

Thanks Queen Bia!  

Hmm, trying to understand why you would ask such an absurd question. Is it a cry help for you or your sister. Otherwise you are just clearly very bored and looking for questions completely out of context to make small talk. I'll bet there's lots of AA meetings in San Diego, where you can meet like minded people and you can ask them if they prefer their lovers drunk or sober And now:
QB a question for you. I have this one provider I really like but sometimes when I come through the door she kicks me in the balls. As expected I fall to the floor writhing in pain for about ten minutes while she laughs so hard she cries. Besides that she's really cool and we always have an amazing time together. Should I kick her?
Signed, Painfully confused.
Do you ever do that to your clients?  

A drink or two is fine, but drunk is not OK with me. I grew up around some family members who were violent drunks, and that trauma is forever ingrained in me to this day.

I’m considering a provider who is 20.  One drawback is that we won’t be able to have a drink first.  

I met an "eighteen' year old once.

What's hilariously ironic is that I would never give an 18-20 year old alcohol.  Even if they are in my room and I just gave her $$$ money for her 'time'.  

Hello Team,

While it would be upsetting, I don't see how it would have been a disaster for you. You were having an innocent drink with a stranger in a bar, that's all.

Frequently, I'll read reviews where the reviewer indicates wine or champagne or "drinks" were shared with a companion during a date.   I've never seen a companion who arrived drunk or anything (even though I knew one who used to get buzzed, at least, if not drunk before appts) but I wonder:  how does one *prevent* getting drunk if she has multiple appts, all or most of whom bring some kind of alcohol to the date?

I had a gentleman who had a bottle of champagne for me when I arrived this evening on an outcall to his hotel & I kindly took it to go. I will share it with my twin, or another provider. I’m not drinking currently. It all depends on the person. I know may providers who are alcoholics. I have responsibilities being a single Mami, but if I am travel I may indulge, but I do not entertain multiple appointments back to back only 1 lucky man. If I have to drive I am not risking getting a DUI.

I would never bring alcohol to a meeting.  First because I am cheap, but second because it sets up a social pressure for the other person to drink. My ex-step-parents were both recovering alcoholics so banished visibility or discussion of alcohol in their presence. But only because I knew their issue. Never know who is on the wagon. So I avoid the risk.

Often bring a bottle of wine to share or leave behind. Would put envelope in the bag with wine so as not to forget .  
If provider’s profile on 411’says water often bring  a small fruit tray.  
If wine used to bring and hand over and say open “if you want to share if not save for later or gift.” On more than one occasion was asked about where is donation as leaving and had to dig in the bag or if the wine consumed dig the envelope and bag from recycling.  
Upon resurrecting the envelope from the bag or wherever the mood lightens considerably.

Ditto that!
No drinking, no drugs, just pure sober entertainment is the best!
If asked this when I was a teen I’d be all in on the user lifestyle….

Are you serious??? The disaster was she almost died. Death? As in end of life? Really? You don't see someone dying in front of you as a disaster???

to be a Domme, it takes repetitive practice to edge a guy continuously for a period of time without pushing him over the edge into heart attack.  During that learning phase, it seems perfectly natural to go overboard and lose one once in awhile when you are still perfecting your craft.  If it was only one, as you say, don't beat yourself up.  I'm willing to bet the next one survived and even came back for a repeat, am I right?

I'm similar in that I'll ask to bring beverage(s) that align with her preferences.  If she's open to wine, I'll actually bring a couple bottles for options and I'll take whatever she's not interested in with me.  I think I've mentioned "mini wine tastings" in a few of my reviews.  lol   However, there's never any pressure for her to drink anything.   There have been a couple of times where a companion expressed an interest of me bringing wine (or something else) and when I get there, she changed her mind about partaking.   Wasn't a problem and I took the beverages with me when I left.