Just a question really because i know that many other providers that i have spoken to have had this happen to them one time or another.

This is something that has been confounding me for a little while.

Over the summer I saw a gent that supposedly i had been on his radar for a year.

When he got to my location,,, He was very pleased at what he saw because i keep my face covered. He kept complimenting me on my looks and also,, He was obviously at full mast by the hug that i had given him when he got into the door.

I offered him what i had brought from home,,, Wine, sodas,,, He didn't want that so i offered him something from the mini bar(which was FUlly stocked)...  He chose to have beer.. (btw.. when a lady goes through the trouble of bringing something to drink and you choose to drink from the mini bar it is only polite to offer to replace the extra cost on her tab.)  So i didn't offer him a "couple of beers" as he says...it was his choice.

During our session, he told me he can barely finish his cup one time let alone two with many other ladies he has seen but with me he was pleasantly suprised ...also ,, he enjoyed  good conversation in between cups and also,,, I HAD to walk him to the door because he was staying over.(He surely wasn't running for the door)

So why was the actual version of what happened ,, switched to a watered down version of what went on??

It only leads me to believe that maybe all the other reviews he has written about the other girls weren't accurate also...

Just a thought.

Be good

Cadence

than others.  With your history of 8-9's there wouldn't be too much to worry about my dear.  We as hobbiest look at the whole picture not just 1 less than stellar review (which was a 7, not bad in itself).
One other thing, we guys/machoists think we're bigger, better and hotter than your previous client so we'll get YOU to perform better than  the last guy! Please let us keep thinking that!
Keep up the good work.

Reviews are subjective. What ts written depends on how the writer feels when the review is written.

His reviews give low numbers on average.  Your numbers with him were some of the highest he has ever given.  In some strange way that can be taken as a compliment.  Most got 6 and 7s.  He even gave a 1.

I know that I have been in sessions where when I first meet the provider, I was somewhat disappointed in her appearance.  Maybe her photos were a little old, or artfully hid her less flattering features.  Maybe her reviews indicated a very high appearance score and didn't reflect my impressions.  Either way, I generally try to throw in a compliment or two early into the session.

The reason I do this?  Probably the same reason that most providers will compliment their clients.  If you can make the other person more comfortable, or happy, the session will probably go better for both parties.

Sometimes my strategy seems to work and the women end up really warming up and my initial disappointment melts away.  Sometimes it doesn't and the session just ends up being less than ideal.  Either way, it never hurts to have a kind word.  Just don't be too obviously false about it.

Regarding fudging details like drinks, etc.  I don't know.  Maybe poor memory?

My 2 cents.

Hi - Well, I've noticed that if a reviewer has a great time with a lady he tends to review her looks more highly! It's all subjective. Additionally one person's 9 is another person's 7, either looks or "performance". Don't worry about it - we "consumers" know what and what not to take from the reviews. Oh, yeah, and you are definitely on my bucket list. And when I review you, I'll bet mine counterbalances his!  Cheers - Gregory

nobody has mentioned Discretion yet ??? because i've seen more than one provider website cautioning about the lack thereof in regards to reviewed activities.

It is difficult for me to add details that the mods sometimes seem to want(i.e. I put my ..in...).  That said, my experiences have been pretty uniformly positive (only 2 real rip offs-and one was my fault) with my mileage pretty much above average when compared to other reviews of the same provider. I try to give scores that reflect my experience without overly explicit descriptions (and would never not pay for any overpriced item out of the mini-bar....I never take the key at check-in for my own minibar in a hotel)

I hear you but i don't understand why the women don't "warm up" to you if you supposedly are the one that is "disappointed" and as you imply the more attractive one?

btw

isn't it her job to make you feel comfortable?  what are you doing to make an escort of all people feel like not "warming up" to you?



but that's just my 2cents






huh.....

I don't see much to complain about. He gives you one of the highest ratings of anyone he has seen. He also doesn't seem to be one of those reviewers that likes to write novelettes for reviews.

As far as the beers go, at your rates complaining about the price of a couple of beers seems a little petty to me.

You seem to be a very well reviewed young lady, IMO second guessing your reviews and your reviewers is not the best public relations move that I can think of.

some of the details (1 beer, 2 beers, who cares)--no big deal.  Having been a TER member for over 6 years, I know to overlook one less than stellar review in favor of the many outstanding reviews you have.

As a hobbyist who sometimes has ladies come to my hotel, I ask ahead of time so that I have the correct beverage for them.  It is all about being a good host.

I guess I used the term "warm up" a little too euphemistically.  What I meant to imply was that the session got more than usually hot and erotic.  We have all experienced appointments where it feels that both parties basically playing their roles; client is enjoying the company of a woman and seeking sexual release, provider is simply reading the client and attempting to make the time as enjoyable as possible.

On the other hand, I would hope that everyone that has been involved in this world for more than a little while has also had the pleasure of spending time with a client/provider that went beyond the "business as usual" and actually became a brief intimate encounter.  Here I am referring to a session where time seems to be maleable and the rest of the world drifts into the background.  About three hours into the 1 hour appointment, the client can't stop smiling while apologetically offering to pay more for the time overrun.  The provider is so pleased that she refuses the tip and says it was her pleasure too.

That is what I meant by "warming up."  Sorry I didn't spell it all out the first time.