Interesting question. I have run across three different scenarios relative to your question.

1)"Let's get to know each other a little better before we talk."
2)"Let's get to know each other a little better before we have sex."
3)The rare, but deadly "Let's see, the first ten minutes we should talk, but I really have no idea what to talk about."

If I am meeting someone for the first time, I enjoy having some time getting to know her a little before steamy things begin to happen. I am confident that this is also comfortable for most of the ladies meeting someone new as well. On the other hand, if I am seeing a regular, she can jump my bones as soon as I open the door as far as I am concerned. Nothing more fun than asking the lady to tell you about what has been going on while performing DATY on her and see if she can complete a sentance let alone a full thought. I know I can't do either very well if she is performing oral on me.  LOL

"Which way to the bedroom?" usually suffices.