You’re right, explaining it all is a mood killer. So don’t. Just put the info on your web site and don’t discuss it unless he wants to.

...if you explain somewhere that you are a GFE provider. Yes, I know that this term is continually abused and it seems a lot of people just don't agree with what has been the traditional activities involved -- kissing, DATY and 3BJ. If you are cool with those activities, and couch your ads in terms of being GFE, then those of us clients who prefer that sort of experience will seek you out.

Just clearly state that you aim to please, but your services are non-gfe due to your safety & less risks.  Your body, so you make the rules.  I started off non-gfe.  Many guys do not care for the full GFE.

VERY basic sex ed you’re talking about. And I glanced at your reviews..BBFS??