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don't you just hate it when you use an alias
Escort_Whisperer 2452 reads
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because you got an idea or an question or a point that you think isn't all that great or  interesting or intelligent?

and then the damn thing gets 500+ reads and dozens of interesting, intelligent, well-composed responses.

what's a self-respecting alias monger to do?

PattyHearst484 reads

Do you need validation associated with your TER handle?

I thought the fun of it was the discourse of the discussion...not being congratulated for thinking of  interesting questions.

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Escort_Whisperer1270 reads

Well, many human behaviors have multiple causes.

Yes, it's the fun of the discussion.  But yes also, PH, some of us miserable wretches dwell in the most arid, barren, and  life-shorn valleys od SelfEsteemLand, and indeed need very scrap of validation possible to sustain our terminal sense od self=worth.

I knew I hould have written this under a different alias.  One i'm less enamored of.  Ah, well...

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PattyHearst1302 reads

I was just playing with you, no need for the sarcasm!

I happen to like "Escort_Whisperer".  The more clever the alias, the better.

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Escort_Whisperer999 reads

what a relief!

i can put the shotgun down, that last one was just too much for me to bear.  glad you responed THAT QUICKLY!!!

stay tuned -- there'e tons more aliaes like this

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TheTunneler324 reads

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BackDoorGirl380 reads

Some people make posts under their boards names, so they can be "known" and get a popularity status.

Some people try to make up questions and stories to post - sometimes stupid stuff - so they can promote their asses and have an opportunity to include a picture and attach their website links.

Some people post using their names because they are intelligent and articulated and like to stir the board with interesting posts.

And, some people prefer to post in an anonymous way, even if knowing the topics discussed will go over the 500 hits mark, because they are not using the posts to get more business (they have plenty).

I fit in the last category, I can be anon as I am a well known provider who doesn't need the "extra" boost or make up stupid stuff just to get her name on the first page of the boards all the time.

And, being low key regarding board participations, my BackDoorGirl alias can speak her mind and discuss her personal issues without having them back fire against her real working profile.

Doe it make sense to you?

Besides, I enjoy the attention I get from the guys dying to find out who is behind BackDoorGirl's ass  :) :) :)

BDG





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G-string_Cheez532 reads

tap that

-- Modified on 1/13/2008 9:49:26 AM

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mrfisher325 reads

I am the one who would want to be behind that ass.  8o)

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Bostonguy57691 reads

I think you have to have a relatively thick skin to have any fun on boards like this. People are not always as polite as they would be in face-to-face conversation when posting on a chat board. Some subtleties of humor and wit don't always come across in the written word either.

Just stick with your handle and people will figure out where you are coming from. Everyone will not always agree with what you say but at least they will know, to some degree, who they are talking to. Of course, ultimately even our handle is an alias but real names and faces are not the only way by which a person develops an identity.

Sure, there is ego involved, if there wasn't these boards would not exist. The discourse is fun but our ego's are what cause us to wade in here in the first place. That is not a bad thing BTW, everyone has an ego.

TER is a great source for information-both the written reviews and the boards. But I also look at the boards as a form of entertainment in and of themselves.

-- Modified on 1/13/2008 10:18:05 AM

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thickredbeauty293 reads

I made a post a few days about that was a bit inflammatory about alias use, for which I was accused of ad hominem- and rightfully so.  My hope was that another discussion regarding aliases would surface, it did very quickly thankfully.

My issue with aliases, on a logical level is one of accountability.  Granted, TER is an anonymous system for security reasons but within those parameters it works because we are able to attach our beliefs, experience and personalities to a handle and thus create a reputation and identity visible to others in this complex and secretive society.  Overall, it works very well and that includes the use of aliases.  The pitfall is it provides a means for drama hounds, mischief makers and assholes to clutter the boards with useless garbage.  While I do not think alias use should be banned, I do think it needs to be used VERY sparingly.  There are instances where it is useful- voicing an unpopular opinion or asking a delicate question.  However, those are few and far between in my eyes.  I have also seen posters say, via aliases, they use them to be humorous.  OK, I get that you want to be cleaver and some ARE funny but if you want to use your charisma and wit to impress others why not via a permanent username?

All too often I see an alias handle posting generic BS that clutters the board and pushes useful information out of sight and therefore, out of mind.  I log on to see what others are doing in the hobby, how I can provide better service and have a community with individuals who experience this unique lifestyle alongside me- NOT to read silly agendas and vindictive bashing.

My $.02

XO
Melanie

Related Link: http://www.thickredbeauty.com

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AliasSchmalias1262 reads

Because if you do, Swimtrekr won't respect you. And we all know, that if Swim doesn't respect you life just isn't worth living.

Related Link: http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=16&SortBy=DateCrea...

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Escort_Whisperer544 reads

i luv aliases, many of which, given the age and the educational attainments of many TER hobbyists, are [quite unsurprisingly] clever and amusing as hell

my only reservation with alias use is when someone uses it to hide behind and to  deliver cruel personal attacks on someone else.  and I have found myself on the wrong end of that transaction

as others point out, it's great for voicing an unpopular opinion

and as someone on the politics board points out, it can be defensive -- a provider researching a TER handle won't be able to link it to one's posts, but more importantly [in his view], won't be able to associate the real person with the handle and the attacks being made on him on some of the boards

BUT, this should not in any way be construed as my taking a position in the dispute between you and Swimtrekr re the uses of aliases.  on that i am totally uninvolved and blissfully ignorant

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AliasSchmalias638 reads

No dispute here. I just have to face the fact that Swim doesn't respect me. I am slowly coming to terms with that but please keep me in your prayers as these are difficult days...:)

I wouldn't worry too much about anyone construing your post as taking a position. Since you're using an alias, no one cares about your opinion anyway, remember? Now if you were using your handle then your post would have meaning, it would matter and more importantly, Swimtrekr would respect you.  

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G-string_Cheez272 reads

I find it funny that they will bash then weeks later ask for an appointment.

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zisk519 reads

my lack of respect for you comes not from the childish alias name you have chosen but that your subject line is repeatedly in all caps and using multiple exclamation points.

You are screaming "Look at me! Look at me!"
Grow up.

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swimtrekr202 reads

I don't use aliases.  If I want to say something, I say it.  If you don't like it, ok.  If you do, ok too.  And I have had both responses to my posts.

My thought is the alias-users want to stir up stuff, but don't have intestinal fortitude to do it as themselves, so they use an alias.  Really don't understand that.  You afraid of someone bashing you?  Hey, it's your opinion, so what difference does it make if someone doesn't like it?  Not everyone is gonna agree with everything you say, so why hide behind an alias?

I am asking these questions because I am looking for answers.  I just don't understand the need to hide behind an alias.  I have aliases, but have never used them.  I figure, if you like my post, you will say so, if you don't, you will say so too.   And I will take responsibility for both type of statements, as me, not an alias.

Ladies, I can make an exception for you, because you have more to lose when making a statement that  some of us guys might not like.  But you guys?  Enlighten me, please....


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AliasSchmalias614 reads

Oh no! the Ziskster doesn't respect me either.

But that's OK because this board needs posters who don't quite get it. Gives those of us that do something to smile about:)

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aliasschmalias2529 reads

The drama queens seem to be the guys who insist that everyone do as they do. Not everybody here thinks "board identity" is all that important. Anonymity is more important to me. If some handle user doesn't respect that, I really don't care.



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followme402 reads


The way I see it the term alias AS USED on this board is any name other than the one on your TER birth certificate.
For the purpose of this board The name on your TER birth certificate is your "real name" and any other name you use is an alias
As for me, I suppose,technically,  you could say I  have numerous aliases, however since the Followme family is so large I allow my cousins and other family menbers to sign on using my TER log in name then go to their names such as
SantaFollowmeClaus
FatherFollowme
EasterFollowmeBunny
PopeFollowmeLXIX
DrFollowmeOBGYN
RabbiFollowme
Followmeopolis
to name just a few of my family (there are many others )
So technically these are aliases , however in my case they are all real  members of the followme family.
To the best of my knowledge they do behave themselves.


I hope this clears it all up

Thank You
2008=27

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Escort_Whisperer807 reads

yeah, it does, in your case.  but wjat's thew meaning of 2008+27  I've seen you use some variation of that in all of your posts.

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followme256 reads

I am a Huge, as in ginormus, NEW YORK YANKEE fan (50 or so years)
2008=27 is my way of predicting that in this year 2008 the YANKEES will win their 27th world series.

The only variation of it was last year I was 2007=27..........and as we all know that did not work out as I wished, but I'm confident this year

GO YANKEES

and how about those GIANTS

GO GIANTS          

Yep I'm a Huge, as in Ginotmous, life long  GIANTS fan too


Thank You
2008=27

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balathazar237 reads

...but the giants are going to lose in the frozen tundra of Lambeau Field. Personally I am a Vikings fan, so by saying that the Pack is going to win would be like a Yankees fan saying the Red Sox are going to win.

I told my employees the Giants would beat the Cowboys, but they didn't believe me. Unfortunately the Pack and Favre are in a "destiny" year and will go to the Superbowl, where they will lose to the bigger "destiny" of the Patriots.

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Rocket Scientist234 reads

posting a not so bright idea or a lame opinion, as if someone believes his idea is lame or stupid, then he would not post it, let alone posting it under alias!!! DOHHH

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shut_yer_hole367 reads

Is this to complain about the girls posting?
Sounds catty.
chill out.
go to yoga class

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Rocket Scientist965 reads

May be you know better!


According to Dictionary.com

Another Definitioan of "He" is:

-- anyone (without reference to sex); that person.  


Traditionally, the masculine singular pronouns he, his, and him have been used generically to refer to indefinite pronouns like anyone, everyone, and someone (Everyone who agrees should raise his right hand) and to singular nouns that can be applied to either sex (painter, parent, person, teacher, writer, etc.): Every writer knows that his first book is not likely to be a bestseller. This generic use is often criticized as sexist, although many speakers and writers continue the practice.
Those who object to the generic use of he have developed various ways of avoiding it. One is to use he/she or she/he (or he or she or she or he) or the appropriate case forms of these pairs: Everyone who agrees should raise his or her (or her or his or his/her or her/his) right hand. Forms blending the feminine and masculine pronouns, as s/he, have not been widely adopted, probably because of confusion over how to say them.



Examples:


He who can, does. He who cannot, teaches.
- George Bernard Shaw (1856 - 1950)

He who hesitates is a damned fool.
- Mae West (1892 - 1980)

He who hesitates is not only lost, but miles from the next exit.
- Unknown

He who wonders discovers that this in itself is wonder.
- M. C. Escher (1898 - 1972)

He who will not reason is a bigot; he who cannot is a fool; and he who dares not is a slave.
- Sir William Drummond

He who lives without folly isn't so wise as he thinks.
- Francois de La Rochefoucauld (1613 - 1680)


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followme293 reads

He who cannot teach, teaches gym

Thank You
2008=27

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balathazar544 reads

He conquers who endures.
Persius

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mminanton505 reads

This post sucks, and no that's not a constructive critism.

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