i'm not your type...strangely enough, we have too much in common, lol.
why do i love looking at them so much in vids and pics? it seems like an odd thing to like if you think about it. its just a white creamy fluid on a girls face. but for fucks sake, i love em. the only thing i realized just now is why i haven't given more of them in this hobby. i'd say out of all the girls i have seen, i have painted a face maybe 2 or 3 times. anyway, i just wonder about things, and i was wondering about this just now, maybe its something primal...thoughts?
some inspiration:
There's really only two places I'm interesting in coming: in the girl's mouth, or in the girl's pussy (with a condom, of course). The feeling when coming in either place is so exquisite, I wouldn't want to do it in any other place. But, that's just me.
Oh wait. You were talking about giving and not receiving.
Never have, myself. That I can remember anyway.
But then again, the main reason I want a BJ is for the lady to get it hard enough to fuck her with it, which is where I prefer to splash.
I prefer to CIM.
To COF I have to finish myself and that is something I do far too often as it is.
Remember in porn movies in order to show that the guy "actually" got off you have to see it. You ask most ladies here and I'll bet ya 75% do not like it. Just get it in their hair and see what happens.
I do not like cim just for the fact that if she just recieve it from the guy before me I simply do not want to taste someone else cum in her mouth..eww..I simply prefer not to see girls who offer it.
i love the feel and look of a man's cum on my face or body. as for the poster above who claims most women do not like it, i have no idea about that, but i know that my submissive nature has a lot to do with my love for the act. it IS very primal, and basically a form of marking: in that moment, you are saying that woman is yours. your seed is symbolic of ownership. and that is a powerful high for some of us.
something i especially adore...a man cumming violently and passionately all over my face, making a complete mess of me, then taking his fingers and very gently and lovingly pushing all of his seed into my mouth for me to swallow. it is the ultimate acceptance.
YOU, Lilli, I believe I want to meet! ![]()
I'm on vacation. Haven't took a shower today, and haven't shaved in 4 days. I'm going for the 'Grizzly Adams' look.
I'd appreciate if someone out there would turn me on if infact grecian formula is worth a shit.
Got these fucking white hairs coming out on my cheeks, no, not those cheeks, and whether or not I should pick some up when I buy more booze tomorrow? ![]()
i'm not your type...strangely enough, we have too much in common, lol.
Usually that happens when I actually pull my pants down, not before!
But I trust your judgement. You have a great week! lol!
What fucking kills me is Sensual Cleo!
That fucking lady went rat-a-tat-a-tat on my shit and jacked me the fuck up!
Just kidding, sweety!
She's gonna meet Mikey face to face and I won't be able to stop her!!! ![]()
thread. Get my name off the facial thread Mickey
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To do things I'm not sure of just like guys tried to pull on me when I was in high school!!
Like come on it's 'cause you haven't tried it with me... You'll like it with me if you just give it a try!!
Cleo, I wouldn't want you to do anything you weren't comfortable doing.
Yeah, I fucking said it. Infront of everyone. So fucking what?! I'll get the beatdown from everybody tonight or tomorrow. Shit! Bring it on!
Wouldn't be the first fucking time...
Some of you asked earlier. Her shit don't stink with me. I know, how romantic.
Fuck you! ![]()
O...M...G!!!!! I luv it wen U tawk durtie!!!!
No! He's Mikey! I'm Mickey. No Nicky. Awww, I forget. Too much vodka. I have become my evil twin!!
Lilli, I like your thought process. Gives me some ideas for a future date.
Make other arrangements once you get out of intensive care! lol!!!! ![]()
As Lilli has already pointed out, COF (and I think CIM too) are often largely about acceptance.
Most astute providers understand this.
some inspiration:
If it is done with an attitude of "take this bitch", no way in hell will I allow it. If it's done with the attitude of "let's get wild, & crazy like the porn stars" then I am totally game. In fact, I may be the first to suggest it.
I completely agree as a distributor! In the heat of the passion, it just has to be insanely "hot" and like you said, "let's get wild & crazy", which brings me to a couple of stories:
1- The thought of rimming (or being rimmed) kind of grosses me out, but when I was married (twice), I used to initiate rimming on my spouses once in a while, when I was down there for a healthy course of cunnilingus. Now I know that both Ex's did not like the thought of "anulingus", but sure as hell they never objected when they were receiving it while moaning with ecstasy!
2- A few month back I used to see this FBSM gal who used to work for an agency, before they shut down and she then started to work on her own. While with the agency, it was strictly FBSM (i.e, no BJ) but after I got to know her at her own place, this once when she was in simulated RCG yanking on me, as I was close to cumming, she just uttered, "this is so fucking hot" and then dived mouth first onto my Johnson and then did one of the best NQNS jobs which I ever had! It was so frigging awesome that I just had to say wow! Thereafter when I saw her the next time, she just made a comment like, "oh we got got quite wild and crazy this last time, didn't we?" and I just nodded with a smile. The BBBJ/NQNS thing did not happen the next time or two when I saw her, before she moved on ![]()
by taking his seed, directly on or inside of me, i am accepting that man, fully. by not taking his seed i am rejecting him.
and that's without doing what you're talking about. I think it goes a bit deeper than that. Like you said, it's primal, and some would equate that as regressive, and though many would think of that as being pejorative, I would not. So, because most would, I will keep my theories to myself. ![]()
especially between man and woman. it's deep but quite simple at the same time, if one is aware of the core nature and needs of human beings. as for primal being pejorative, that's ridiculous! but then the last way i would refer to people learning, exploring, and accepting their true selves is regressive. personally i couldn't think of anything MORE progressive. ![]()
Depending on the consistency it feels nice lol but i'm weird so what. Just watch the eyes & hair though..... *shudders at the thought*.
Because you have a high probability of being punched in the nut sack if you do.
Why you like it - yes, probably something primal. It's like marking your territory or something, or at least it seems that way. Or perhaps just the idea that she loves your cum SO much that she would actually want it painted all over her face. Some girls are that way, bless their hearts.
But keep in mind, porn stars are actresses, and sometimes, so are the wives and girlfriends who grin and bear it. A lot of girls would find it degrading, and it's not hard to understand why.
At least that's the take of one gal who enjoys getting her face painted.
Some gals are OK with it and other just love it to the point of insisting on it.
I can remember the first porn I ever saw depicting it and I couldn't wait to try it out. That day came many years later and I can still picture it now.
The sexual experience is like humor; if you try to disect it too much, it falls apart.
Here I go, dissecting ...
I think there are different ratings for different kinds of facials that each say something different. XXX Porn facials. Polite, I didn't mean it facials. Accidental I was aiming for your boobs but shot too far facials. And so on.
I can recall several but they weren't porn quality. While going at it and feeling about 10 seconds to go, when she says no to CIM that doesn't leave a lot of time to plan. Most of these ended with ultra close up shots directly on the nearest (facial) cheek, sometimes even with her controlling the action (HJ and aiming). I've left no gigantic streamers from hair line to chin. No giant blobs between the eyes. Not even lipstick or lip gloss application (too close to CIM for those who say no).
With more time to plan with an agreeable partner, I think I would like to try for a porn quality facial finish. Peter North, step aside.
My first provider spoiled me in that respect. Too bad she's been long retired. She was so into facials, to the point where she would allow you to take a picture of the aftermath (with her camera, though, so she could control the content). AND she had an MSN group where she had a monthly posting of pictures of facials she received from clients. It's funny cause I would see pictures of my "contribution" show up on other sites. Nice, my penis is on the internet! It was a good load too. After that, I was hooked on the hobby.
There was also another time with a different girl, who I saw a few times before. I decided to ask her if I could cum on her face and she said "sure". The thought that she usually doesn't have that on the menu, and that she was acccepting my sperm, was a turn on. Something about how the load landed, the dispersion. Man, it was a magnicifant sight.
As far as the attraction to this, yeah, I guess it's primal.
and I don't think it's about marking territory. I just happen to be a very visual person and the visual stimulation along with the physical ecstasy adds another dimension to the orgasm.
For me, there is an aspect of domination, too and that's an aspect of my personality I didn't know existed until the hobby. I love a session with a lot of give and take, times when she is demanding and gets what she wants and times when I do the same.
As for having to finish myself, that's fine as I'm kind of the world's foremost expert on my own pleasure but I LOVE it when a lady finishes me with her hands and there's a combination of CIM and COF.
Of course, I also love finishing (safely of course!) vaginally. Basically, I love cumming. I don't ever remember having a bad orgasm.
Wellllll...in the spirit of fairness, let's also take this in the other direction. Lots of women squirt. It's very much the same in terms of digging and accepting it for a man. Personally, I've been fortunate to experience it "close up and personal" very recently and it's given me a whole new appreciation for females. On the first occasion, she squirted six inches straight up into the air and I dove down and lapped it up. Less than a week ago she squirted into my hand while she gave me head, then sucked it off my fingers. The grand finale was when I was eating her and she came so hard she shot right into my mouth and hit the back of my throat. When I told her this she laughed and said, "Good! Now you know how it feels." Now that's true equality! The shoe was on the other foot and I loved it. Does that make me gay?
A lady with whom I shared much fun was a real squirter and I still remember vividly how exciting it was to feel it hit my face or chest. As a couple of the ladies here have said before, it's a real sign of a job well done! lol
Yes, but in the spirit of full disclosure, this little lady is a well-known catspitter par excellence and does this with vitually everybody, according to her many reviews. So if you don't get her to squirt there's something seriously wrong with your technique.
I spent time with a young lady every now and then a few years back who only did cbj (which was fine, and she was so cute) but oddly enough she wanted me to pull the cover off and come on her face. She loved it. It was such a turnon!
I personally don't like it at all. I get nothing out of it, and I don't understand how a gentleman would either.
It messes up the ladies makeup and hair generally. I had a facial once from a guy who just really was persistent on trying it. Turns out I got an eye infection after that for which lasted for a week. No thanks.
... Perhaps I'm getting carried away. But I've heard its good for your skin. ![]()
I really have to meet you...
Facials are nice, but I want to find a lady that will walk around in public wearing one. There are a few videos of this too, but what the fun of creating a masterpiece that no one sees? I want to show off my talents in giving facials and choice of women.
I doubt you'll find any takers here. Try Alt.com if that's what you're into.
for me there is no shame or embarrassment in being out and about wearing the seed of my partner on my face or anyplace else on my body. also it dries so quickly that anyone who bothers to pay attention will most likely not realize what it actually is.
I too am a lover of the facial. I have given several in my time. I have even been able to capture four of them on video for my private collection!!!. Here are the active providers who I know of that are okay with it if you ask nicely:
Jules Gottroqs (ONLINE! - http://www.julesgottroqs.com/video.html ("Just Shoot Me" vid is me!!))
Nikki Avalon (this was my masterpiece - after a straight hour of totally wild sex in every hole imaginable, i dumped my built up single shot on her face. It was completely gorgeous!)
Caramel Dime (yet to see her - but she is openly into it)
Zasu Knight (shot my own complete POV vid with greek and facial finish!!!)
The best way to find a provider willing to do this is to find the girls who provide more than the standard menu (standard being BBBJ - no swallow and CFS). If a girls does greek, rimming, and swallows, then it certainly doesn't hurt to ask if you can engage in some face painting. Avoid the eyes and hair unless you receive prior clearance. Also, you can encourage her to wear glasses. Nothing better than that naughty librarian look getting painted white.
I agree that it is all about attitude. Be respectful and ask nicely and be ready for the consolation prize of a pearl necklace or tit frosting. And lastly, show that you care, go to the bathroom and grab a towel for her BEFORE you shoot so she can grab it quickly for a clean-up.
Happy shooting!