I happen to cross paths with a few girls who absolutely knock my socks offs. I try to strike up small talk at every opportunity and am met with friendly responses. They are girls in their early 20s that work at jobs that probably pay enough for them to have some spending money. I think I'm a fairly typical hobbyist for the most part. I wouldn't think twice about exchanging a week or in some cases a month or more of their pay for an hour of their companionship.  

I don't have any brilliant ideas on how to propose a transition in our relationship.  

Is this a bad idea? Should I just stick with established providers? Has anyone crossed this bridge

You have succumbed to the "just because I see hookers, all hot women are hookers phenomenon."
Sorry, but it's not true.  Leave them alone.

Not something I would mess with. Yikes


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But if the girl is very close friends and she expressed some level of openedmindedness,  I may drop a hint or two when I'm drunk...  rofl

propositioning dancers seem a bit easier than a pure non-sexworker civvy girl though.  

telling a civvy girl about my hobby life is often met with "OMG really??????"  type of surprise at first but after a while a small few changed their mind about the industry.  

I haven't been aggressive enough but also didn't want to just flat out hand a civvy female friend a lump of money for the intention of making an indecent proposal, but did certainly open some eyes for a few who wanted to get into the industry, like dancing etc. who knows what they are doing in the vip room or what not.  prolly escorting under a different name too.  rofl

Everyone starts somewhere I guess.

...but I think what you suggest is crazy (and pretty rude).
I have nieces that age who are very friendly, and the thought of some hobbiest seeing that as an invitation to a P4P proposition quite frankly creeps me out a bit

let this go as it should naturally occur...  
I'm a provider, so I am biased. Right?  
Stick with the pro's. But here's reality-

Won't be long until little Sally Chickadie will have trouble paying some bill, rent, car payment, or the car breaks down and she is in a horrid bind she just can't seem to squeeze herself out of all by her lonesome. (At that point are you talking p4p mode or Sugar-daddy mode?)

Until that point, let a sleeping dog lay, and just remember, ALWAYS, alwaysssss, CYA....

 
Stick with the natural pecking order, of most bang for your buck*
*(whatever terms that means to YOU, be it top shelf VIP style, or low rent, or somewhere in between.) Deal with someone who actually understands this is a transaction of the strictest sense of business. The ones who are here understand our reputations are on the line and we value our feedback & our clients.
We are truly the most personal form of customer service.
Stick with professionals.

Remember-

Playing with fire can get your fingers burned.
Do NOT let your pecker talk you into something it can't get you out of.

Ask yourself if this was a different illegal activity, not involving your penis, would you be as gung-ho to lead her down the path?  

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The impossible dream
Posted by wbbr, 5/11/2014 9:40:52 PM  
I happen to cross paths with a few girls who absolutely knock my socks offs. I try to strike up small talk at every opportunity and am met with friendly responses. They are girls in their early 20s that work at jobs that probably pay enough for them to have some spending money. I think I'm a fairly typical hobbyist for the most part. I wouldn't think twice about exchanging a week or in some cases a month or more of their pay for an hour of their companionship.  
 
I don't have any brilliant ideas on how to propose a transition in our relationship.    
 
Is this a bad idea? Should I just stick with established providers? Has anyone crossed this bridge

Unless you want to say hello to bars or a kick in the nuts possibly, I'd say 'yea' bad idea lol. Stick to providers, that's why we exist, not the latter.

Instead, I would suggest, develop a friendship without sex, and find escorts who resemble them physically, who remind you of them, have your fun with them, and keep the secret to yourself when you're with the young lovelies. If they're as beautiful as you suggest, they have no shortage of admirers trying to get into their pants. Make sure they know you're heterosexual, but show only platonic interest in them. You might do a "meet for lunch" type of "date." But don't try to seduce them or (worse) proposition them. As time goes by, some corner in their lives will present, and they'll reach out to you. To you as opposed to the guys trying to make them.

Taking it from there, you'll see moment by moment what to do. You'll know when the time is right to suggest a closer relationship with one of them (as long as you're attracted to both of them, your passions won't be so strong that you risk loosing control). Having some material assistance at the ready really is more attractive than giving it up.

Play with the relationship, explore it and have fun. Keep the sexual tension out of it by having a few sessions with substitute lovers. Fantasize about the nice girl while doing the provider.

Even if and when you eventually date one of the girls. Have a late night session booked up for afterwards. Then kiss the nice girl goodnight, no matter how romantic the moment or how willing/eager/hungry the girl is, tell her you need to make a stop on the way home, and leave her to wonder what she did wrong as she falls asleep and while you're visiting the provider. You can have fun with this.

you would be overpaying.

and feel like taking a stab at that kind of thing, then sure, go for it if you think there's some magic.  Just don't try doing it with both at once, they tend to get a bit prickly about stuff like that.

On the other hand, if you do anything to insinuate that you want them to start a P4P relationship with you, you're likely to get your  nuts kicked hard.

How do you know these gals anyways?  If at the office, just forget about it.

And since you asked, about 4-5 years ago I tried to rekindle something with an old flame and it ended badly.  I'm sticking to the hobby.

END OF MESSAGE

That was the last time I turn a computer on when I'm drunk. I barely remember my post. Reading now, my drunken fantasy is embarrassing. It's definitely not something I'd remotely consider doing. I hope no one reads or responds to my stupid thought. I can't wait until it falls off the page. Sorry.

I am sure we have all done something similar to this when a little too much booze on board. Kudos for owning it!

that you put down the bong.  But I figured at this point, it would just be piling on.  Thanks for manning up - we don't get much of that around here...

I am sure its something we have all thought.  Good to get it out in the open.  I was thinking about my neighbors daughter who got arrested recently on a minor minor traffic violation.  Probably not good to offer money, but she is only 6 years younger.  So I need to go for it.  

Hope a sense of self preservation saves you from executing on such an asinine idea.
If not, I'll call it "natural selection."