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Don't sweat it,
HoursLater 172 reads
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I'm 30 and bald, younger providers think I'm older I just play along it works out good that way. Like you said It's all about the money as long as it is green, and still worth something you will be in good shape.

Haven't been hobbying too long and have yet too work up the balls to contact a 20 something provider.  Im 62 and bald , I can't fathem a 22 yr. old being willing to be with someone old enough to be her Grandpa.  I know it's all about the $$$ and that its what hobbying is all about.  Any older fellas ever have the same problem?  Any thoughts would be appreciated.

apparently, neither did the girls I have seen.  Just relax, and enjoy the fact that you are having fun with a hot chick of any age....

Swim

If I'm gonna fuck some broad my age, I'm sure as hell not gonna pay to do it.  I start to lose interest if they are less than 15-20 years younger than me.  I"m not sure how they feel about if but they always take the money, fuck me, call me honey and welcome me back.  I'll worry about it when that changes.

I love older guy clients; much more gentlemen, generous and secure than younger punters. As a matter of fact, young ones scare me and if a guy sounds like a 20something on the phone I will not even book him!

xoGeorgia

the worries are washed away.  Enjoy it for what it is:  no date, no pretense, you are in the pants of a 25 year old.  It's a whole other matter to hope they like it.

Just_a_Comment279 reads


I'm 61, a little past my prime, and not much to look at these days.  I'm a soon-to-be grandfather as my daughter-in-law is due this week (and it's a very anxious time for all!).
Recently I met up with a beautiful 26 year old lady from Chicago.  On our dinner date she treated me like I was the only man on earth and the sex was terrific.  My ATF is also a youthful, wonderful, fun-loving, smart woman who makes sure I am well taken care of every time I see her.  
Some of these young ladies are just wonderful - but you have to find the right ones.  The more experienced, well-reviewed women are experts at taking care of you no matter what - as long as you treat them with the respect and care they deserve.
My one piece of advice - don't rock the cradle too far.  At my age, a 20-year old is just too devoid of life experience to relate to me.  But a lady in her later 20's or early 30's has a much easier time being comfortable with me, relating to my life experience, and that makes a huge difference.  
Interestingly, my ATF was telling me the other night that at 61, I am at the median age of her client base.  She said that half the men she sees are older than me - in their 60's and 70's, and the other half are younger (30's to 50's).  So, if I'm at the median age for her, then you are not unusual at all for this endeavor.
Hope this all helps ......

"You're only as old as the woman you feel."

I think it was Groucho Marx who said that, and from what I recall of him, he ought to have known.

and it should never equal more than 100.

...the legal age is many states is 17, so feel free to go for 83.  BTW, what's the legal age for chicas in those southern climes where you troll for 'tang?

Many of these countries at one time were hot spots for "sex tourtists" and not the mainstream perverts like myself who like to have sex with young "women", not children.

Most if not all of these countries have cracked down, (rightly so) on child prostitution. As a matter or fact, one of the first things you see as you clear customs in San Jose, Costa Rica is a big sign informing you that it is a serious crime to fuck children, well they don't say in quite those words, but you get the point.

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CharlesV131 reads

What is this nonsense! I am 73, one of my ATFs is 58, total 131; the other ATF is 28, total 101. It works perfectly: none of them complains in any way.

late 20's, another is in her early 30's. The age gap never comes up and they treat me just special as they would if I was half as old. Don't worry about your age; get out there and have fun. The fact that older guys like us understand the value of manners and courtesy seems to go a long way in our favor. Happy hobbying!!

Brah202 reads

Come on now.  Ladies don't care about your age.  Relax man and have fun :D

I'm over 60 and have not had one bad experience with a 20 something lady. You can't even imagine how young it can make you feel to have a young lady the demonstrate her best GFE on you. ;)

A couple of weeks ago, I asked the same question to this board.  All the guys and ladies made it very clear to me that my mid-50's age should not stop me from making a date with a 20-something.  So I am following their advice and have a date with a 29-year old beauty next week.  I'm glad I asked the question and am looking forward to my date.  You should do the same.

I'm in my late 50's. I've seen ladies from mid 20's to mid 40's. They treat me like a king. My age from all appearances is not an issue for the younger ones or any of them for that matter. Enjoy, see who you are comfortable with. Rarely would your age be a consideration.

This isn't a very big survey, but two of the women I've seen lately -- both about 30 -- are actually married to men in their 60s.  In one case, the guy is a former client.  I have no idea how prevalent this is, of course.  But some young women just have a daddy complex, bless their hearts.

G2143 reads

And yes, she did have major father issues.  But I don't hold that against anyone, I think it's great they find a way to be happy, and just hope someday I'll be lucky enough to find that woman 30 years younger than me that wants to work on her father issues with me.

For most of us (providers) we feel like the older the better so that should actually give you more confidence to call or email imo. At least half the people i've ever see were well over 50 and my most seasoned visitor was 69 (really).

When you were 22, some girls your age were probably doing 62 year olds.  Its your turn now.

.....I had no idea that there were people in this world in their fifties.

HoursLater173 reads

I'm 30 and bald, younger providers think I'm older I just play along it works out good that way. Like you said It's all about the money as long as it is green, and still worth something you will be in good shape.

It is a delight to have a young lady take the time to remind you what is like to be 20.
So instead of one gal, have two three over at the same time.
Make sure they like each other!

The grandpa cob webs will be gone as long as you bring them back regularly.

Balboa ;-)

HalfHour144 reads

And forget the 22yo, book yourself two 18yo and have a party. You're paying and they are still enthralled with discovering the power of their own sexuality.
Don't think in guy terms. When you were 18-22, you didn't look for 62yo hotties, so you cant imagine it the other way around. The young un's in the biz are fine with it.

:)
HH

the age issue many ladies enjoy the company of an older gentleman like yourself.I see younger gentleman as well as older mature gentleman I have never had an issues with a gentleman being in his 50s,60,70s.I remember when I first started in this business one of my first appointments was with a gentleman who had just turned 80 and at the time I was 18.He did not look 80 at all at first I did not even believe him but he was telling the truth but it never crossed my mind "oh he is old enough to be..."

Yes,the financial aspect is great but I truly enjoy spending time meeting new friends as long as he is legal I have no problem just like if a gentleman is in his 60s again no problem.Keep in mind that many ladies also have a restriction on age where they will only see a gentleman 35 to 40yrs or older they are more comfortable with a gentleman your age.
I also find bald heads sexy!Contact a hot 20something lady and have a mind-blowing time.Just Do It!

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