No different then if you were going to her. She will likely lead.....
When you the client has the room and you have a provider come to you for outcall, how do you initiate things once the provider gets to the room? Easy when going to the provider's room, she opens the door, a kiss and hug, and things flow from their.
But when you've got the room, you open the door, she comes in, and? Immediate kissing, hugging, fondling and a flurry of clothes, chit chat and she excuses herself to go change (and do you undress then or?), or what do you do.
Clients can say how they handle it, and providers can chime in with what they prefer here. Curious as to how it's handled . . .
I have zero problem getting right to the action, but many, even most women seem to want some "little girls room time" before getting to the action.
I find "most" of the time after a welcome hug and kiss, I end up waiting in the bed for her to come join me. Not all the time of course, but more often than not.
I guess I should add, I now see a lot of Sugar Babies and these are essentially "clock less" dates, with these non pros we are just as likely to open, and finish a bottle of Champagne before ever hitting the bedroom, or making out the minute the door closes behind us and leaving a trail of clothes as we mutually undress on our way to the bedroom. Or...... the possibilities are endless.
I like this scenario! Where do you meet your SBs? Seeking Arrangement? Also what do you look for? I've heard of a lot of guys scamming girls there and would like to hope that does not describe you! Honestly I wouldn't mind an arrangement with an SD that's a bit on the escort side... Thoughts?
The first couple of Sugar Baby "arrangements" were with hookers who had really tired of being with that many guys, and were looking to ease out of the business while still being able to pay their bills during their transition out of the business.
I have been on SA for almost a year now, I started not out of a desire to save money, or because I was looking for "something more" I wasn't getting from providers, I joined SA after moving to a small city about a two hour drive from Dallas that had ZERO hookers. I had a couple of choices, I could get a GF and settle for having sex with only one woman, I could drive the four hour round trip to Dallas every other day to get laid, OR I could test the Sugar Bowl. Personally, I love what I have found so far.
BTW The Erotic Highway Board has become the de facto SB/SD board, it's mainly from the guys perspective right now, but I am sure open minded ladies would be welcome to join the discussion. By open minded, I mean ladies who don't come there simply to whine about how SB's are hurting their business and "cheapening" the hobby. Not open minded sexually, I think that's kind of a given here. lol
... I was with ladies who I had not seen before so I made sure that the lady and I spent a bit of time chatting (fully clothed) to get to know each other so that there would be no awkwardness as we eased into things. It did eat into our session time but it was time well spent IMHO.
I often get the room, and when she arrives it could involve anything to a brief hug and peck to her wrestilng me to the floor and tearing off my clothes EVEN BEFORE THE DOOR WAS SHUT!.
Just do what comes naturally and you'll be fine.
use your incall experiences as your guide.
I prefer a hug and kiss when I enter but also
welcome a scantily clad lass shaking her ass
and holding my hand while she drags me kickin
and screaming over to the bed. Noooo, not that!
I'd welcome with a soft kiss holding her in my arms
and take my cue from her response. One gal stuck her
tongue in my mouth and devoured me and dragged me to bed, others move more slowly. Take the lead and then react appropriately ... as has been said, each woman is different
No different then if you were going to her. She will likely lead.....
And the gentleman opens the door,I usually greet him and give him a hug and a kiss
YMMV.
Follow her lead if she comes with a balls to the wall attitude if that's your thing. Personally when I'm home based a prefer outcall. I do like to come in have some hugs and kisses and get my "stuff" set up and chat to break the ice before the main event starts. And I usually bring something to change into BCD, so being mauled at the door doesn't work for me, lol.
Steph xox
if she's anything like you (compliment) her feet won't be the first thing to come thru the door ... better chance of an accidental bust
in the eye before a foot up his *** 
lol
The "introduction" (whether you visit her at her place, or she comes to you at your place) will depend upon the receptiveness/style of the provider. Some ladies are quite aggressive, wanting you to stick a tongue down their throat. With these ladies clothes are off at a rapid pace and your quickly into the session. Other ladies will barely give you a hug and seem quite business like for a while until they are comfortable in their surroundings (however long that takes). You have to assess the situation. Everyone is different
The location of where the session takes place and who is the home/visiting team really doesn't matter. It boils down to the style of the lady (In most cases the hobbyist wants to move things along at a quicker pace, though not always). There is no "by the book" rules for getting into the flow of a session.
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I have been the host for a number of escorts. All have started with some chit chat, even after I've seen them before. I will say all of the escorts stayed longer than what I paid for and did not make a fuss about it. I believe that they either recognized the extra time was necessary to get comfortable or they had a really good time and didn't mind the extra time.
I start every greeting with a hug & a kiss. From there I'd follow her lead. Having refreshments is nice, water, wine or soft drink. Leave sealed. A longer date you might offer a snack. I'd be prepared to chat for a few.
Bathrom time / changing is likely. I like to wash my hands especially (You want to put your fingers where, exactly?)
I like to have some music on... aimed toward the door to cover sounds & not so loud at the bed that I cant hear her or give me a headache.
I'd go over to the clients home/hotel. After going in, We'd Say our hellos and get acquainted with each other for 5 till 10 minutes. Then I would excuse my self to the bathroom where I'd get ready if he requested a lingerie, then when I come out I will start the date lol. "Easy-breezy-beautiful cover girl" lol, ohh gosh that commercial is stuck in my head!
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