If you see through the Peep Hole that she's not the same girl, then don't open the door. Don't give them money or even get into a discussion. Just tell them to leave and that's it.
I have had a few bait and switches in my life. Not many...but enough. How do you guys handle them? What did you do in the situation? And, please, no long lectures about using TER.
A couple of times I was scared to do anything. The provider had been on the phone a lot (good tactic!) so I was scared some thug would come after me. The times I told her to GET LOST, they all flipped out and become arguementative.
Its hard to say since most times faces are not available. Once in Toronto a provider showed up for a 2 hr session and was clearly not the girl in the picture. She was listed as Beth on the site. I told her she was the wrong girl. she said I picked Beth and she or her friend shows up when someone picks Beth. She asked if she could stay. It was late so WTF. It turned out to be a great session.
But, then again, I use TER as my primary resource, and shy away from agencies. Since I have been to nearly a dozen M&G's in NYC and Vegas, I have met many of the top indy ladies that visit or live in both cities. Thus, no B&S's, although I have heard about enough of this sh*t on this and other boards to know which agencies to avoid. CL, well, best to avoid entirely.
The girls was hot (but not the girl in the pictures) so I stayed. She was OK but not great. The agency was later busted and the owner convicted of human trafficking. If it happened to me again I would just leave. If it was an out call I would send her away.
OUTCALL: Slam the door! INCALL: Turn around and walk away..(don't forget to slam the door) This method instantly stops ALL arguements. Also Some guys feel obligated to give them part of the donation (for gas) I don't....they wasted my time...they can waste their gas! Now you will guys say in reviews..."well it wasn't the lady in the pics, she was fat, had a moustache, and smelled bad"..."but I decided to go through with the date anyhow" HUH???? This one I will NEVER understand...WHY??? I guess some guys have a hell of a lot more money to throw around than I do!
I remember this happening to me once years ago before I discovered TER. I responded to an ad for one or two (my choice)women in a motel on the outskirts of town with two great pictures. I asked for both ladies by phone and headed off. I got there, the room was a mess, there was a dog running around, one of the women was really unattractive, not very clean, and chain smoking. The other was more attractive but no cleaner nor more appealing and absolutely uninterested in the goings on. She was feeding herself and the dog the whole time. I should have left, but felt it would be rude suggesting I didn't find the ladies attractive. I went through with it with the ladies (really only the one who was interested --and said she found me very handsome-- as the other was really busy with her BIG Mac and fries and the dog.) I would not do that again. Now, if it was not the lady advertised, I would only stay if she was appealing and leave if she was not. In any event, it is unlikely to happen again since TER.
I guess I am one of the lucky ones who has not had it happen, YET! If/When it does I think it will depend on what the girl looks like. If I like what I see I will proceed with the session, if not, byebye.........
If you see through the Peep Hole that she's not the same girl, then don't open the door. Don't give them money or even get into a discussion. Just tell them to leave and that's it.
1) Never do outcall. 2) Always incall, and if you get there and find out this is a B&S then have the discipline to walk out. 3) If you insist doing outcall then stick to the legit babes.
Follow these three simple rules and you will go along way to avoid this problem in the future.
*shrugs* I've never had this issue (knock on wood) even before TER. I guess I've been lucky.
As for "never do outcall," I'm personally not a fan of incall. It could be because of my personality (e.g. being a host, taking care of everything for the lady, etc.) Additionally, I feel far more comfortable when I'm in my own environment than in someone else's. Plus, I'm pretty darn lazy. Why go anywhere when she can travel to you?
Granted, I know for many of you, outcalls are just not possible (SO, etc.) To you guys, imho many condolences.
That's not to say that I haven't had great experiences on incalls. I have. In fact, I met my ATF at an incall. However, I tend to lean towards ladies who do outcalls than incall only providers. To each their own.
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