Back story, been seeing one lady on a regular, things click well. For a while, she was "demonstrating" some good O's during our sessions but as we started to get to know each other a little more I noticed that slowed so I asked, did something go different, the reaction was not the same, did you NOT get the big "O"? She said no, I very rarely do actually and I left it at that, didn't want to press the issue.
But the natural question is, were all the others just faking, for the job performance... is this common among you ladies? I know sometimes it's real but what would you add to this?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lNEX0fbGePg

Elaine fakes it. Fake, fake, fake, fake.  
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mHutgOgBUVU

Good one, hadn't seen it in forever.

The faster you get the twitching and moaning, the more it's fake. It's another way for them to "move things along". Most women take 20 mins or more to really O, and even then it's probably fake with clients.  They know it probably makes you feel a hero to think you've made them cum. But that's not to say they don't enjoy what you're doing...sometimes they do even if they don't cross the finish line.

and in the second place, why does it matter to you?

First of all,  I have been a provider since I was eighteen and a half.  I only took a short time off, but when I did it.......I only cared about providing sexual pleasure to guys who need it. A Provider focuses on the sexual pleasure of each Hobbyist/Client (So, that the Provider gets paid and the Hobbyist/Client gets the pleasure they need).

Agreed.  Who cares? Not me.  It's the illusion of passion that she's selling.  Some are good and some are not.

A generalization that is not a universal but quite often the truth. No reason to over think the situation and if there is something there you'll eventually learn that -- if it's a feeling on both sides. Bot for the most part commit to the fantasy for the hour (or two or three or whatever) and when you walk out the door realize you just changed the world you're living in.

Not necessarily with "O"s but I have had something similar happen. Once she became more of a regular her demeanor started to change. She was softer, quieter. We were becoming more familiar and comfortable with each other and she was putting on less of a performance I guess.

just a curiosity thing... pull a duo with her and a friend once and they pulled the whole leg shaking, body quivering routine and i'm thinking damn, in my civy life i've never seen a woman react that quick and intensely..  
really just a curiosity, wanted to see what the ladies say. i know it's a job and a service and show.

i don't know why i care... there's always this talk about a good connection with a woman, maybe the two are not mutually exclusive... if you want a good connection then you really want her to enjoy it too... just a thought

there are plenty of times there is really no connection at all, i'm just there to make a financial contribution and scratch an itch... and love the good performance!

Most mongers expect you to have like at least 8 orgasms in and hour and start orgasmic immediately hahahah

Call me crazy, but I do care.  I just very much enjoy watching women experience pleasure.  Maybe I’m crazy, oh well.

I’m here to help. Of course I want to achieve an O. Real men need instructions. Sharing is caring. Every woman is different, so ask if you need directions. It’s nice of you to care. Ask her if she needs to bring out her toys to achieve the money shot?

Hold on.....you're paying, and you care?

I think I can say without fear of contradiction that to make a good connection, one must respect the provider by being on time, being clean, bringing the full donation amount, not being a general nuisance, etc.

prolly a very good point, it's likely very low on their list of priorities, must agree.

I dont blame  the ladies though. They get paid to put on a show, and make you feel like "Romeo" - play with your  ego and give you that sense of assertion and accomplishment  thus feeling good  about yourselves.  That's  what most of  us want to hear anyway , even though  we probably  suck in bed most of the time.
Nonetheless,  kudos to real orgasms  and the few lucky highly sexual  ladies who gets them in a rendezvous ; and to the  few architects who makes them happen  as well.

that all those reviews that say she had her first "O" and then had more in the session aren't true?
Unbelievable!

Everyone is responsible for their own O.  If she isn't directing you on  what to do, she's probably faking it.  

just relax and enjoy the journey.

You’re not crazy. It took me a while to realize I’m one of those men who find my absolute best sexual enjoyment and experiences are those when the woman comes. That really gets me off. I know that’s not true for all. And while it’s not difficult to tell sometimes when it’s fake, there are times when I can absolutely tell by my partner’s body reactions. If it’s not an orgasm, then at least it’s close and she’s having an enjoyable time. To each his non-judgmental own.

Agree with the part about giving direction.  I encourage giving direction and I take it well.

that's the funniest comment i've heard yet!

It's certainly an ego boost to think that I have the right amount of motion of the ocean, but this should not be confused with whether I actually do.  I pay for my pleasure and the illusion of passion.  No matter how shitty his small dick performs, we want to think we're Dirk Diggler in a Jack Horner porn movie.  This is what separates the amateurs from the legends.

Who cares if a woman has an orgasm? Reproduction wise it's not required...a man's orgasm = ejaculation is what's important when it comes to sex/reproduction/keeping the human race going...hers is irrelevant.

if you fuck the guys who work on your car every time, or just sometimes?

Funniest I have ever heard too.😁

Reproducing the human race have to do with P4P?
IMO, P4P is about a fun time and sexual release, for the payor first and, if it works out*, the payee second!

Most women can orgasm in less than a minute if she knows her body well enough

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