How do folks feel about showering together before the session? I did this with a provider I saw somewhat regularly years back and I found it a great way to get rid of the butterflies and settle in to the session. I have brought this up to other providers and they did not seem to be too enthusiastic. Sure, it will count against your time, but IMO it is time well spent. Is it appropriate to ask a provider if this can be done?
I have really enjoyed it with a few gals over the years.. Personally for me the thing is that they should be willing to get all down and dirty in the shower. I always ask the gals beforehand if they are willing to jump in the shower with me and get all wet..including their hair. Last thing you want is the girl acting standoffish in the shower.
This is not for everyone as some really don't want to get their hair messy or ruin their make up. And trust me, you don't want to see some of them w/o their makeup either..
I arrive fresh and clean but will always do a "quick rinse" if she suggests it. But I'm quite quick because I can't wait to start the fun. Plus, if she's complied with my clothing request she's got some nice lingerie and heels on that I want to remove later, at my leisure. And she's also nice and clean and doesn't need another shower. Also, I don't get "butterflies." But if that's what you want, knock yourself out. Don't be shy. Just ask her.
is probably the best way to receive. There are soooo many reviews with showers involved, before, during or after. Just do it.
A thought, though.. maybe a little bit of conversation would help in getting to know someone new a little better than immediately ripping your clothes off and insisting on jumping in the shower together right away.
I've never thought to ask a provider, but I'm guessing normal daily showers and showering before and after clients can get to be a drag. And dry out her skin enough to cause a noticeable jump in her skin lotion bill.
Saw the words "freshen up," missed the shower. But you are now found guilty of using the hackneyed phrase "we fell into each other's arms." Words now fail me.
he was probably first in line to read it lol...don't kid yourself. He doesn't fool me one bit He could probably learn a thing or two from you gorgeous....but then again, 'bragging' is not remotely your style now is it. Stunning...............
You have yet to get a single thing about me right. Another poster and I were chuckling about it back channel. You are such a hoot, and thanks for the continual amusement you provide, even if it is inadvertent. I do get your little game though. If you get me to deny enough specifics you figure you'll be able to home in on the truth. Transparency, thy name is Taylor.
I'm actually really not that 'deep' in the game Nickypoo. But ok, if you say so.
However, who exactly were you 'BCing' with then. I can only imagine, actually, nevermind, don't tell me lol. Again, would love to be a fly on that wall of the BC channel lol. Can that be a Valentines Day present from you? Just a day. Taylor and the boys of BC.
Ok, then you can call me TT.........hahahahahahaha. And yes, I am a hoot and yes, I know I make you smile...perhaps that's my point here? I told you you can't always go by the godforesaken 'boards' as to someone's true personality. Come on, you should know this, geezk. People can 'play' 20 different people here. That's the 'fun' of it, isn't it?
But you can't call me your 'sunshine' that's saved for someone else
if you are her first client of the day, and she has one or two others later on, she may not want to have to redo her hair and makeup. That may well be why some were less than enthusiastic about showering with you.
I think someone posted something like that recently, that she doesn't like to shower with clients b/c it will mess up her makeup and hair for the next client. This leads me to believe some ladies don't completely shower in between clients. I don't get it. I only see one client in a day but when I saw multiple clients, I showered in between each and every one of them.
But for me personally, it's not going to happen. It takes me 45 minutes just to blow dry my Mufasa mane, so unless you get off on watching chicks reapply makeup and redo their hair, you're probably better off not bothering.
Posted By: ron56789
How do folks feel about showering together before the session? I did this with a provider I saw somewhat regularly years back and I found it a great way to get rid of the butterflies and settle in to the session. I have brought this up to other providers and they did not seem to be too enthusiastic. Sure, it will count against your time, but IMO it is time well spent. Is it appropriate to ask a provider if this can be done?
once you get wet and dirty in the shower, you have wild (but safe) sex right away.
I can totally understand not wanting to get the hair wet and messy in the first place because some of you gals pay hair dressers the equivalent of my cable bill (for one session, as I was told by one of the gals), but at least from me (as someone who enjoys hot showers together) the expectation is NOT to have her reapply the makeup and dry her hair.
I wouldn't want to have you wet mop me with it. Better soft and silky on my skin. Just guessing, but I'll bet you don't need the makeup to look fantastic...
Posted By: BadCollegeGirl
But for me personally, it's not going to happen. It takes me 45 minutes just to blow dry my Mufasa mane, so unless you get off on watching chicks reapply makeup and redo their hair, you're probably better off not bothering.
Posted By: ron56789
How do folks feel about showering together before the session? I did this with a provider I saw somewhat regularly years back and I found it a great way to get rid of the butterflies and settle in to the session. I have brought this up to other providers and they did not seem to be too enthusiastic. Sure, it will count against your time, but IMO it is time well spent. Is it appropriate to ask a provider if this can be done?
It's been known to cause injury and death when wet.
And I look like a dead 7th-grader without makeup. Trust.
Posted By: MasterZen
I wouldn't want to have you wet mop me with it. Better soft and silky on my skin. Just guessing, but I'll bet you don't need the makeup to look fantastic...
Posted By: BadCollegeGirl
But for me personally, it's not going to happen. It takes me 45 minutes just to blow dry my Mufasa mane, so unless you get off on watching chicks reapply makeup and redo their hair, you're probably better off not bothering.
Posted By: ron56789
How do folks feel about showering together before the session? I did this with a provider I saw somewhat regularly years back and I found it a great way to get rid of the butterflies and settle in to the session. I have brought this up to other providers and they did not seem to be too enthusiastic. Sure, it will count against your time, but IMO it is time well spent. Is it appropriate to ask a provider if this can be done?
As BCG and a few others have mentioned, given the amount of time many women put into getting ready for a session, I can't imagine too many would be willing to immediately jump in the shower with you and risk their mascara running down their face and hair getting all wet. Plenty of other ways to break the ice.
I do occasionally ask the provider to join me in the shower for the final wash up. That can be a great way to end the session!
I liked it a lot. She didn't worry about makeup as she wasn't wearing any... but insisted 'not getting her hair wet"... I'm sure her hair got some slight mist but she was cool with that. Condoms in the shower... bad idea. Soapy foreplay, good idea. I'd brought an extra big towel for myself (she thought it was silly but I'm a big guy so hotel towels are too small). She got out first, quickly dried, I got out & she helped me dry off & we adjourned to the bed. I have shared a after shower too... was great naughty fun. She had short hair but I was mostly under the shower head.
I'd like to do this again... plan the extra time...
I have to 'like' you to shower with you. We're not there quite yet...getting close tho. I'm really not the tough cookie y'all think I am. Trust has nothing to do with it
I'm not a big fan of before, since I appreciate the effort and prep work beforehand by the ladies. Since I'm a morning visit person, there is no issue. Afterwards is a different issue. Normally, I'll schedule a minimum of 90 minutes to make sure there is time for a joint rinse and rub.
but really 90% of the time i shower at my own place within an hour or two of meeting the girl so it's not necessary. i like using my own high quality shampoo & conditioner, body wash, lotions, etc. not to mention showering too often irritates my skin & hair. my hair also takes forever to dry too, and i personally don't like having sex with wet hair lol.
After all is said and done , Andrew is a guy from L.A.
Posted By: Spartan8474
When I first read this, I thought you were the provider and not he John....
Posted By: andrewww12
but really 90% of the time i shower at my own place within an hour or two of meeting the girl so it's not necessary. i like using my own high quality shampoo & conditioner, body wash, lotions, etc. not to mention showering too often irritates my skin & hair. my hair also takes forever to dry too, and i personally don't like having sex with wet hair lol.
" body wash, lotions...hair takes forever to dry"? Oh Snap! Metro Mangina spoiler alert!! Sorry Andrewww, you kinda walked in to that steamy pile of poster poop!! Thanks for the softball, it was just waaaay too tempting to pass up.
lol no worries though. honestly i'm not too much of a metrosexual. i mean shit, i don't even wear cologne (just deodorant) but i'm just a little OCD about my own skin/hair care routine & fashion. if i'm gonna do it then i'm gonna do it right. i've gone on week long backpacking trips (without showering) and it was no problem.
I do a great job of setting myself up and seeing what pearls of wisdom get jizzed into the universe!! Have fun out La La Land Dave (Just another 'Zonie on the way to LA and SD for fun)
But have taken baths. I just don't want to keep doing my hair and makeup. I have done outcalls with clients at their homes and gotten in the hot tub with them. That is fun
Seriously? It's a shower. If you want to do it, do it. If you don't, don't. Many men love showers.
It's a way to get worked up and teased… lathering someone else up - making them slippery and slimy. It also gives the lady a chance to wash the areas you might have missed lol. Neither of you have to tell the other they stank either!
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He could probably learn a thing or two from you gorgeous....but then again, 'bragging' is not remotely your style now is it. Stunning...............
