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JohnHooker 351 reads
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I use a local Asian escort agency regularly, most weeks for the last couple of years and always been super clean and safe.

However this week when I saw a lady I had seen a few times before things took an unpleasant turn.

Things started as they typically do and once I was naked and seated on a sofa in here room she was kneeling giving me a BBBJ. There was an amazing view as in the mirror behind her and she then got up and sat on my lap rubbing backwards and forwards.

At this point I am lost in the moment and trying to watch but also had my eyes closed at times. The sensations were fantastic, however as I looked down she was not rubbing her self along me but had slipped my cock inside her. I immediately pulled back and lifted her off.

I was amazed and confused as I have never had any lady get even close to unprotected penetration.

She speaks very little English so it was near impossible to ask her what she thought she was doing.

The agency took the position I was in charge of the session so it was up to me what happened, however that is rather over simplifying the situation as this should just not be an option without consent.

She was tested clean a week ago and I plan to get tested next week.

I am still upset about this.

Has anyone else had similar experiences

MikeShanahan1036 reads

BBFS in the hobby? No way.

I'm with Mike on this topic. Never in the hobby and only in very long-term relationships outside.(and even then I would get tested ... people do fuck around on ya I've learned) It's not worth the risk ... not even close. Be safe y'all.

Posted By: MikeShanahan
BBFS in the hobby? No way.

GaGambler599 reads

yet another poster who doesn't recognize sarcasm when he hears it.

As for the OP, yes it happens. No it shouldn't, but yes it does. All you can do is protect yourself as best you can and get tested. The good news is a single instance of uncovered penetration is not quite as risky as some people will make it out to be where it comes to the most serious risk of HIV, the bad news of course is that you have any more risk than you signed up for in the first place.

MikeShanahan474 reads

Thanks I didn't want to respond would have been to easy and brutal. :)

Posted By: GaGambler
yet another poster who doesn't recognize sarcasm when he hears it.  

As for the OP, yes it happens. No it shouldn't, but yes it does. All you can do is protect yourself as best you can and get tested. The good news is a single instance of uncovered penetration is not quite as risky as some people will make it out to be where it comes to the most serious risk of HIV, the bad news of course is that you have any more risk than you signed up for in the first place.

Smokinggun648 reads

NO WAY JOSE !  I don't care how caught up in the moment I am, I care more about my life than I do sex with a provider.  again, NO WAY

A few years ago, a provider who had I had given a nice DATY session to was returning the favor with a BBBJ and I was laying back and enjoying when all of a sudden she slides her body up my chest to nuzzle my neck.  I'm enjoying this and have my eyes closed when she sits up on my lap and my erection slid between her pussy lips (not insertion, kinda stripper slide I guess).  I freaked a little and asked her to get off.  She did.  I mean it felt good and all, but there was no way I was going bareback as I knew she was a high volume provider.  I wiped up and she apologized.  We continued the session (with a cover) but I haven't seen her since.  She told me she had just wanted to "kiss my cock with her pussy lips", her words, not mine.  I wasn't going for it.  I got myself tested a few times after that to make sure.  I really don't want to tempt fate that way.  I mean bbbj and daty is dangerous enough for me.
Other than a broken rubber about 20 years ago (which freaked both of us out and luckily was just a 2 stroke before realization of the blowout) I have never had bareback with a provider, nor would I want to.  I thank God that after all these years and women later and I'm still STD free.

Protection is universal.. I understand you are upset and I hope she is getting the training she needs in order to avoid unpleasant situations like this.  
I am glad you are doing your fair share to get tested..perhaps if she is clean maybe you wouldn't have too much to worry about for now although you will need to get tested periodically.

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he needs to keep an eye on proceedings too if he is that shocked and horrified.

I had a delightful favorite few years ago that was delighted to engage in sex without a condom. She was so smooth and tight, what a great fuck. After half a year she disappeared not to be found again. I checked with some others who had enjoyed her company and found out she got pregnant and decided to get out of the escort business. Guess we will never know who the father is.

JohnHooker534 reads

I love that the ball rolled all the way to the Outfield wall !!!...REALLY ??!!! Agreed with Mike Huh ?!! LMFAO !!!! Hookers don't do bareback !! They all say so, Silly.....

I respect boundaries, and fortunately I've only been with ladies that do as well. As much as I'd like to, I can't maintain an erection for long with a condom on, I'm sure it's just a mental block, but it is what it is. So I haven't O'd vaginally in over four years, I miss it, but until I get over the mental block, oh well.

That it is a common practice in the hobby - bare session  
And of course with those can do and anally and vaginal condoms then what I am a monster to make such man wear condom and take his money as over 1000 ?  So what for I was beaten up here ? it still feel very wrong for me that all board went so harsh on me just few men who supported me but tell you true. I and provide services just to few  
Any way it is what I talked about when advertised bare exactly as this gentlemen said I a lot of time cuddling kissing playing dining out sharing oral

Usedtobebetter1008 reads

A few years ago, I was with a very low volume, part time provider that I had seen multiple times, usually normal, fun sessions.  This particular session had two things happen, besides the music getting turned up quite loud.  Maybe that set the wild tone.  First, some lube got on my dick before the cover, which made the cover a little "slidey".  Should have caught that mistake.  We got into a particularly intense session and were engaged in some unusually vigorous, quite sweaty monkey sex in a position where neither of us could monitor condom position.  It came off sometime and I managed to ram it up into her deep past her cervix.  Had to fish it out for her.
We finally got cleaned up, both of us apologized, but not much to do at that point except take up where we left off.  New condom, good fit, lots more vigorous, sweaty, monkey sex that we were both enjoying tremendously (she was usually not very vocal, but tonight must have been her night) and during a break in the action for us to catch our breath, I withdrew and this second condom had broken and was in tatters, still fastened at the base firmly around my dick, but BB otherwise.  Yes, we used water-based lube if any was needed.
We were both too spent to do much else but clean up and say goodbye a bit later.  We both got tested and luckily were both clean.  Very lucky breaks (pun intended), don't mean to make light of unprotected sex with anyone but a SO.

Some of the best sex I've ever had (she could hardly stand for a few minutes, my heart was pounding in my chest for a long time) but we got lucky.

Have many of you had condom accidents like this?  Any common threads that lead to issues?

Just a head's up that you cannot "ram" a condom past a ladies cervix...if you did, one would have to go to the hospital to get it surgically removed, & the lady would be in tremendous pain...but again, that would never happen, because it is impossible for anything, except semen, to get past the cervix..or a baby to come out after hours of labor to widen the cervix.

Posted By: Usedtobebetter
.  It came off sometime and I managed to ram it up into her deep past her cervix.  Had to fish it out for her.

I've been with 3-4 Asian providers at AMPs where the condom slipped off.  It was pretty easy to figure it out because the sensation dramatically increases and you pop within about 5-6 strokes.  By then, it's too late and the best you can do is to shower with a good antibacterial soap as quickly as possible, go home, and count the incubation period days.  

Years ago, I was having a rather passionate session with my ATF (to this day!)  I had gone down on her and she was having really intense orgasms one after the other.  Then, she pulled my head (big head) up to hers and DFK'd me.  The next thing I knew, she grabbed my manhood and shoved it inside her.  Call it a "crime of passion," but, it was probably the most intense, raw, and passionate sex I have ever had.  Yes, it was risky for both of us, but, there was simply no turning back.

Currently, I am traveling to Europe 4-5 times a year and partake of everything that Europe (especially Germany) has to offer for consenting adults to do.  Many ladies in Germany and Austria offer BBFS.  In Germany, there are brothels where this is the norm.  The ladies use female condoms and, thanks to government-provided health care for sex workers, are tested weekly.  Yes, I have accepted the risk and have done it a couple of times.  I've decided that a few minutes of pleasure isn't worth the days of anxiety counting off the incubation period for STDs.

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