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HaydenHightower See my TER Reviews 112 reads
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Why would you assume that she had an 11am client?  You guys make up these overinflated fantasies in your head, that we are these cock-hungry whores, that lay on our back all day, and service guys like a drive through McDonald's. I do not work like that. I don't know ANY ladies that work like that. Maybe this is the case at the AMPS, or, some of the more budget friendly girls running a 'special', but I'm going to assume if she can afford to have a booker working for her, neither of these scenarios would apply. Did it ever occur to you she might be in college, and her class gets out at noon? Or she has a real world career?  

If you are concerned with the 'volume' of customers the provider you are wishing to see, a less offensive approach might be. 'I really want to make sure that our time together is great for both of us, and that you feel refreshed, unrushed, and energized. What would be good days/times in your schedule, where you have a large window of availability, so that we can have a relaxing time together? '

Also, please don't ask, " Hey, I wanna be the first appointment of the day". It's ridiculous and slightly offensive, especially for low volume ladies, with real world careers such as myself, who might only accept 2-3 invitations to meet for the entire week.

I contacted a local companion for a 12:00 pm appointment the next day. Her booker replied that she would be available at 12:20. I assumed that she had an 11:00 one hour appointment and the booker was giving her 20 minutes to recuperate. I replied no thanks, I'll see her another day. Is only 20 minutes between appointments typical? Would you guys have done the same?

She's not a virgin.  Somebody has been there before.  20 minutes, 30 minutes, 1 hour, 2 hours.  

All providers see multiple men and are not monogamous. That means that she is no virgin. You are not her first. Does it matter if she bedded someone 20 minutes ago or a day ago? The risks are about the same. What does matter is if she took the time to clean herself properly before your time with her. That is what matters. Yes, a person can bathe themselves properly in 20 minutes.

Second issue is you don't know when her last appointment was. It is just you assuming about the odd 20 minutes timing. There is plenty of reasons other then just 20 minutes between appointments that easily account for the time not being on an even half hour.

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GaGambler105 reads

Nice to see you back,

 
and yes I know, you are actually a humorless EX fat fuck. lol

 
Are you REALLY saying that hookers are not monogamous? Who knew. lol

Well, apparently the OP has an issue with the fact that people whose job it is to bed people for cash, may be bedding other people the same day as him. So I felt it necessary to explain that sex workers are not monogamous. Some people need the obvious pointed out.

GaGambler142 reads

Yes, some people need gentle reminders and others need a two by four upside the head. lol

... what's the problem with 20 minutes? A little rest time, a couple of baby wipes, and best of all, she's practically still "warmed up" for you!  LOL... I'm just messing with you. :P

imanalias117 reads

I think it’s best you only schedule first appointment then you don’t have to worry about them being back to back and the required recovery between appointments.  

Is it typical? Who knows, some may only be 15mins between. And if this short time between is not acceptable by her, she probably won’t stay, bookers are assisting, not pimping, he could have asked her.

Some ladies working for agencies can and will manage as many as they can get. Go see indies if your concerned many like time between to recover and prepare but some are quite capable and like back to back appointments.

I recall the days where agency girls were seeing there next moments after next, end last 5mins early and a fast tidying and a few wipes then NEXT 😳

Those who felt pressure would leave the agency.

So be there first of the day, fresh and ready, not sloppy seconds, 3rds, or worse. I’m betting you don’t schedule to be last in 😂🤣😂

GaGambler152 reads

For all you know you could schedule a 6AM appointment with her "thinking" you were the first of the day when in actuality her BF didn't leave until 5:55AM right after dumping a load in her five minutes before you knocked on the door.

 
For the record, I have been that guy, not the poor schmuck who thought he was the first of the day, but the BF who has dragged his hooker GF back into bed barely fifteen minutes before her first scheduled appointment of the day,  but if it makes you feel better to think that early morning appointment assures you of being "first" don't let me dissuade you. lol

imanalias101 reads

It’s an illusion. But at least scheduling first in the schedule he thinks he’s first and not wonder how much time between is normal.  

As long as I’m not opening the door to let the last one out I’m not thinking what’s the time between her last.  

12:20pm does not suggest she had an 11, she might have not arrived and would be ready at 12, who knows.  

If he canceled because he thought she had an 11am appointment and 20mins is not enough separation for him, I tend to believe he couldn’t do any other time then 12.

GaGambler120 reads

He clearly said he cancelled his appointment because he believed she only had twenty minutes between appointments.

 
Do you know what I think when I am told a provider won't be ready until 12:20?

 
I think she won't be ready until 12:20 PERIOD. lol

You are assuming that she is going to be late from another hobby date. Is it possible that she had a non-business appointment that she needed/wanted a time cushion between?

Why would you assume that she had an 11am client?  You guys make up these overinflated fantasies in your head, that we are these cock-hungry whores, that lay on our back all day, and service guys like a drive through McDonald's. I do not work like that. I don't know ANY ladies that work like that. Maybe this is the case at the AMPS, or, some of the more budget friendly girls running a 'special', but I'm going to assume if she can afford to have a booker working for her, neither of these scenarios would apply. Did it ever occur to you she might be in college, and her class gets out at noon? Or she has a real world career?  

If you are concerned with the 'volume' of customers the provider you are wishing to see, a less offensive approach might be. 'I really want to make sure that our time together is great for both of us, and that you feel refreshed, unrushed, and energized. What would be good days/times in your schedule, where you have a large window of availability, so that we can have a relaxing time together? '

Also, please don't ask, " Hey, I wanna be the first appointment of the day". It's ridiculous and slightly offensive, especially for low volume ladies, with real world careers such as myself, who might only accept 2-3 invitations to meet for the entire week.

I don't think one needs to be "high volume" to occasionally run into back-to-back appointments.

How do you define "high-volume."  Would you consider a girl who saw customers two days a week at the rate of 6 per day (which might account from some "back to back"  appointments, or a girl who saw 2 customers a day for six days a week?  Are they both high-volume, or is neither high-volume, or just one of them?   As you point out, even the girl seeing only two customers a day could have them booked tightly together with only a fifteen minute break if that's the schedule the customers needed.

I think there must be cases where two clients have certain time windows and back to back is the only way to see them.
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I'm just saying it probably happens from time to time, not necessarily often and it doesn't make them "high volume",
but I agree the definition of high or low volume is pretty vague.

Sometimes I have to pass completely if I don't get the time window I want.  Scheduling assistants sometimes don't believe me if I ask for two hours at 12:00 noon, then they tell me it would have to be 1:00, and I tell them that doesn't work for me so I'll have to try for a different day.  I'm usually scheduling session around my work day, so I often have to fit into a particular slot (no pun intended).

"Only" twenty minutes.  Sometimes its 15 min, and can even be 10 min.   If he had told you 12:30 and, and unbeknownst to you, the last guy was leaving at 12:15, you probably wouldn't have given the time between customers a second thought.  As long as the girl is fresh and clean for me, and her breath doesn't smell like cum, I could care less about the guy before me, unless he's still in the room with us.  

There should be no illusion that these women are "all yours", this is their job, they bang alot of dudes. If you have an issue with that, you're barking up the wrong tree, and are probably better suited to finding some church girl that you can marry, pop out 2.5 kids, and have her yell at you for random bullshit like leaving the toilet seat up, because then she'll be "all yours".

 

Also the notion of "the booker only giving her 20 minutes to recuperate" is bullshit. For all you know, she's going to be out to lunch with her friends, or getting her hair or nails done, and won't be available until then. The activity isn't particularly important here, she sets her schedule, the booker fills it and gets paid for their work, nobody is being forced to do anything.  

You're obviously too quick to jump on your white knight high horse to see that, but that's the reality of the situation that you should have thought about before you came in here looking for captain-save-a-ho kudos. The fact is, we all see through that mask you're wearing and know that the reality is that you've wasted her booker's time over an imaginary issue, and we think less of you for doing so.

John_Laroche118 reads

I say that in jest, as you have hundreds of reviews, so I find it hard to believe this thought never occurred to you.

 
If a girl jumps in the shower before you have your shoes on, she probably has another client waiting in the lobby.

 
In answer to your question, I would not have assumed the girl has a 20-minute break between appointments. It's really odd to start a session at 20 after an hour. That said, maybe she had a noon QV and only 5 minutes to baby-wipe her cooch and armpits.

 
If you're concerned, book 2 hours, show up on-time and tell her you've got a quick errand to run and will be back in 45 minutes. Show up later to a "rested" provider and enjoy an extended 1-hour date.

So I don’t do back to back bookings, but scheduling at odd times still happens! For me, it’s always because I’m trying to get as close to the requested time as possible, but life gets in the way.  

I have my lash extension appointment set for the morning, and that takes 2 hours, and it’s 15 minutes from home, but I have to take into account if my lash tech is running behind...  
Or I said I’d get breakfast with my sister, and as supportive as she is about work, she is tired of me rescheduling our stuff to take an appointment, so I have to calculate what time we’ll be done & then the time I’ll need to get ready.
Or I have a doctor to visit and don’t we all know the variables THERE!  

I think a lot of folks here agree about the “why should you care?” And the “if it matters that much, book early,” but for me, I would recommend keeping in mind all of the non-work commitments we have as well. Even women working with agencies have outside lives and commitments. ;)

I’ve never even heard of those, so I clicked on your profile and links and, damn, your eyes are photoshopped out.

Share your technician’s hard work!!!

You know,  I know, you know, you would jack me up!

So what do you think?.... :)

Once-Is-Not-Enough119 reads

IMHO EVERYTHING we do with a provider is an illusion.  Depending upon our tastes/preferences. I believe our "fantasy" can take on different shapes and forms.

 
Every one of my ATFs are not exclusive to me.  One would have to be a mental midget to think otherwise.  But MY preference is that I only focus on OUR time together.  Even though she may have seen someone before me that day, she knows my preferences well and there is no hint, in any way shape or form, that she HAS been with someone else.

 
Am definitely a GFE kind of guy.  Have been quite fortunate enough to enjoy the company of ladies who not only show me they know exactly what that means but appreciate the lengths I go, to reward them for showing me so, during our appointments.

 
Again, to each his or her own.

She needs to take her dog out for a potty break before she has to ignore him to focus on you.

Maybe she did not check into the Hotel on time or the hotel made her wait.

Maybe, it was taking her that time to be ready for you...maybe, she was running errands, maybe she was feeding her cats, walking her dog....etc...

YOU ASSUMED...

and then I call asking for an 11:00AM slot. They tell me they can’t do 11:00AM, but they can do 10:45AM.  Now you’re down to 15 minutes since I left.  

I usually try to book an hour between appts so I can jump in the shower, go to the bathroom, eat, etc.  

The least I have done between appts is 30 min.

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