So many of the gals have the sessions down to a science (read the reviews and it isn't difficult to determine how the gal tends to "script" the session). Sometimes I'll just go with that program, especially if there is something that I know is coming (pun intended) that she has a timeframe for.
However, I have been bringing a definite change-up to the sessions I have been having recently. In most cases I will let the gal know what I have in mind (and I concur that most haven't been scared away either), and if they're good to go with it, the session is far from a typical session for her. From the responses I have gotten thus far many of the gals seem to like the difference from the "normal" session.
But for others it is clearly out of their "comfort zones" and they just have a more difficult adaptation since they may not have played in the biz outside of the "timed sessions" where they sense they are controlling the session.
I got thinking about this today because a new provider I plan to see soon is very anxious that all go well, and wanted me to describe in rather minute detail everything I wanted to do during the session. I actually found it rather arousing to think about it and describe it to her. (Fortuanately, she didn't get scared away!)
But it did get me to think about how often I see a regular and how most every thing we do is identical from one session to another. You might think that things would get boring, but actually it makes for a very satisfying session as we are so good at what we do, and there is no awkwardness or wasted time or motion.
Of course I see other providers who like to change up and add stuff, and that is good too. Each is unique and that's good.
So, both clients and providers, how much do you stick to the script, and how much do you ad lib?
Might be interesting for us all to look at that now and then.
So many of the gals have the sessions down to a science (read the reviews and it isn't difficult to determine how the gal tends to "script" the session). Sometimes I'll just go with that program, especially if there is something that I know is coming (pun intended) that she has a timeframe for.
However, I have been bringing a definite change-up to the sessions I have been having recently. In most cases I will let the gal know what I have in mind (and I concur that most haven't been scared away either), and if they're good to go with it, the session is far from a typical session for her. From the responses I have gotten thus far many of the gals seem to like the difference from the "normal" session.
But for others it is clearly out of their "comfort zones" and they just have a more difficult adaptation since they may not have played in the biz outside of the "timed sessions" where they sense they are controlling the session.
Whether she goes down first, or me. We start off fucking, or take a shower and/or bath together before or after. Probably the only constant when we meet is we start off with drinks. Whether it be at a bar, an eating establishment or one of our places. Even then, I guess it's unscripted.
I know I've said this before, but it's important for me to make her as comfortable as possible. If she wants to take the lead, have at it. If she thinks it's 'the manly thing' for me to, no problem.
Yeah, I'm paying. But the both of us have to have fun. Especially if we click and want to do it again.
Of course I'll say something, upto the point of actually meeting that I'd like to do this or that, and she might say 'I love it when a guy does this'. That's easy to incorporate into our time together, but when doesn't mean it's choreographed in my opinion.
The more I like to have some things to specifically focus on. They can vary by date, but I find I enjoy the 'pre-thinking' of some things that we'll be exploring together. It is mentally hot. I also find it is helpful becuase often used to go 'go blank' once I entered her boudoir and would fall back on the 'same old, same old'.
What is extra hot is when each of us brings something to focus on. It means were both mentally, as well as physically, engaged. I find it a huge turn on when I can help a lady explore a part of her sensual nature.
Usually first encounters tend to be scripted, and for very good reason; unfamiliararity. Given that, i've encountered both script and spontaneity. Spontaneity for me dude. This could include 'about town', hot tubbing, libations etc...
I can't fathom a regular scripting me. Seems that a lack of effort may exist there.
I am not an actress, no script here as I wouldnt be able to remember my lines. For me I like to go in knowing as many of someones likes and dislikes and let the heat of the moment decide which way to go. If you have a rigid plan and its not working, its time to punt. I live and provide by the bruschi model "full tilt full time" give 110 percent to give them what they want in their mind in some way shape or form.
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