how long will you have your tubes in?  

I wish you all the best.  

I have seen ladies with medical conditions up to and including Cystic Fibrosis and some crippling diseases whose names escape me at the moment.  The more successful ones not only told me in advance, but they mentioned it on their website.  I think there are those that seek out variation and it would not surprise me if this post yields some company for you.  You need to reach a target audience, or they need to find you.

People in this hobby tend to be phobic about any medical condition, as the AIDS monster is just right around the corner or under the bed, waiting to sap our precious bodily fluids.  The fact you are not contagious does not overcome the fear and bigotry.  They will choose not to see you because you are not their type.  I saw an anorexic provider once that was even treated badly by other providers and hassled off the forums.  People can't seem to leave people alone, except when it comes to making a living or having sex with them.

So you need to hunt down the guys with a sexual curiosity about you or make yourself known and identified with your special handicap.   In a provider sea of different hairdos and other trite search criteria like body modifications, you really are unique.

Hi Littlesue, I just checked out your cityvibe listing. I am in North Carolina and the weather is great...but I wish I was in Minnesota. I see a picture of a woman that beautiful and read that she is 4'11" and 90 pounds and I'm hot....I want you now and it would take more than those tubes to keep me away. Your website seems to be down; hope all is OK.  I'd love to see more pix. All the best to you. (I think the ace bandage probably looks adorable.)

Would you like to replace the link to your site (which is not active) with the link to this thread?

That would save you from useless calls and all the explanation on the phone. Just a suggestion.

Hope you get well soon.

-- TER

One of my Favs has had open heart, has the surgical scar center chest, right between her lovely breasts.  She never mentioned it in advance.  Our greeting on our first date opened with DFK...  then she showed it to me by unzipping her top.  I could have walked but I didn't.  It isn't a problem and her breasts are still lovely & sensitive.  After 3-4 visits, I don't even notice.  Maybe it's what she does with her mouth on my c*ck that keeps me from noticing...    

I would say not to tell before the appointment.  I would reveal before the donation.

Have you considered changing your line of work slightly?

Possibly Dominatrix?  This way you can wear a corset that you do not remove during a session...  Also this way you need not inform clients because a good slave/sub will not expect you to undress.

Erotic massage?  again wearing something sexy that hides the tubes...

Take photos wearing that sexy something and post them on your web site.  

You could let clients know that because of dialysis you will not be removing certain item(s) of clothing without saying specifically that you have those tubes.  (It could be the idea of the tubes themselves that scares them...)

Just some random ideas that may help.

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I could look past it, your quite beautiful! Kinda makes me sad though, providers are wonderful people and don't deserve such health issues, I hope you are able to cure it soon, that's really awful .

Truthfully though, I sure wouldn't have a problem! You should tell them though just to avoid bad feelings.

My thoughts and prayers are with you

-M