Sex is very in worth speeding to.get it

Sexuality is a need, not actually fucking. You can live without that. Except for procreation, all of humanity could abstain without much harm done.

Males, in days of yore, provided women with food, shelter, drink and clothing in exchange for sex, companionship, feelings of belonging, and more mental stimulation than the wild could offer. The residue of those primitive agreements existing today in such rituals as we experience in the hobby.

Women are perfectly capable of taking care of themselves nowadays, and except for a little playtime, we really have very little need for each other. But giving a token of material support in exchange for sexual intimacy is a quaint and pleasant ritual that celebrates and allows us to relive those elements of our ancestral past.

But go out to the wildlands of Alberta and spend a winter as a hermit holed up in a cabin until the snow thaws and the roads are passable in Springtime, and you'll see how unimportant sex or even gratuitous human contact is for survival.

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What people fail to realize, or simply chose to ignore. Would be that having sex is simply going through the motions of procreation. Any body having sexual relations beyond the penile penetration of the vagina, is actually doing it wrong. There is no such thing as having sex.

I wouldn't even describe sexuality as a need, I'd classify sexuality male or female as a default setting for living organisms. Everything else is the confusion that persist from the over complication of going through the motions minus the necessity for procreation.

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I used to think that OTC meant Over The Counter and that CG meant Computer Generated. So I'm still learning, still developing, still evolving. But even an upside-down BJ can't be "doing it wrong..." Unless, of course you're doing the upside-down BJ all wrong, then it just ends up being an uninspired facefuck, which is probably okay too if you have a cold.

And if we're just splintered manifestations of the One Life Spirit having a brief material experience, as some religions suggest, maybe the default setting is Existence...or Isness if you're the Hoity-toity type. I like Isness, though, as it seems more precise than "existence." I mean even concepts that could never be realized and erroneous notions "exist," but they aren't. Sorry for the digression.

But needs are dependent on what actually exists. We can need something, or even crave something that doesn't exist. So sexuality just means that we all crave to express what we know exists somewhere. People do live without having that craving satisfied (hopefully it's never TOTALLY satisfied for anyone), but the craving seems essential.

I try not to think about these things too much, and I advise you not to either.

Just my 2 cents worth.

Don't go taking the position that I am against consenting adults from expressing their sexual desires. I'm only evaluating the act of procreation from a scientific standpoint.  

I am an individual of two minds.