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When you don't want a date with me
escalade1964 65 Reviews 1256 reads
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Do you ignore? Let me know why or just try to change the time?

your thoughts if any?

Afro-desiac461 reads

But based on the ones I have seen, if you disclosed your handle to me during the screening process I'd ignore you.  Because you're obtuse and annoying.  I prefer to actually like the guys I fuck. Sorry.  You asked.

EOM

Posted By: Afro-desiac
But based on the ones I have seen, if you disclosed your handle to me during the screening process I'd ignore you.  Because you're obtuse and annoying.  I prefer to actually like the guys I fuck. Sorry.  You asked.

LOL. I guess that is one of the reasons many use an "alias" !

LMAO. Do you really know if you like THEM?

i don't want a date with you.

ignore sometimes results in less drama, but it is less professional

"no thanks" is the right way to go, but results in people hating on you

 
i am with Afro-desiac on this one:))i want to enjoy the session and not just endure it...

Then I block his email address to stop the "why" because in my experience the "why" almost always gets into one of two unpleasant exchanges...a john pitching a hissy fit OR trying to convince you to see him. Neither is fun. One reply is professionally all you need.

I would prefer she just tell me, and I'd like to know why, but I gave up on that "ego" thing a long time ago.

I understand why most ladies ignore though, most men can't accept criticism.

Tons of providers out there.
NEXT! Really,  there are to many ladies to not just move on to the next one.  Please don't get all butt hurt if one turns you down. Every lady has their own comfort zone.  
Xoxoxo,  
TL

JackDunphy288 reads

I thought GaG wrote your post!!!:D :D

Over the years I've rejected tens of thousands of ladies.

I think I can handle the reverse. Just move on. Better yet, move back to an old fav.

A provider I used to see regularly when I lived in New York had a client who paid her to kneel in front of him and beg him to fuck her while he stroked her hair and they both looked into each other's eyes. He would refuse repeatedly and at the end absolutely refuse.  He would also make some insulting comments.
He would pay her and leave.  
After a while she began to get first annoyed then really angry when he rejected her.  She said she would start thinking:"who the hell she to reject me."  
I left NY and stopped seeing her before I found out if she refused to see him after a while.

so_over_it306 reads

before a few years ago.I did not know you were here and had not read any of your posts here.
You were cool I had fun

...to being cancelled on when she reconsiders...

Posted By: escalade1964
Do you ignore? Let me know why or just try to change the time?  
   
 your thoughts if any?  

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