I'll get into the details but my mistake was not asking her permission to write. That said it was positive and the session was tame. Yet some guys on here contacted her after seeing it and wanted to know if she provided full service. Why would you think that??
Her beef is that this is a board for ESCORTS, not Doms. Clearly both are reviewed here but it is heavily skewed towards escorts. A few days after I posted this review (Sept. 2022) she contacted me upset. Said guys were emailing her asking if she escorts and does full service. I replied saying read my review and it was clearly a DOM review. Heck the session was so plain and frankly underwhelming I wasn't sure this site would accept it. Nothing exciting happened outside of leg and foot worship.
Here next reply seemed to be more calm and I thought we'd put this behind us and that I'd see her again on her next visit this spring or summer. Then I got another reply saying she was blocking me on IG and that she would not see me ever again. Part of me was upset and the other relieved. Her rate was more than I am used to and the session wasn't up to what I'd hoped. I just can't understand why guys contacted her to ask for sex when they know she is a DOM and my review was of her session with me.
She had been reviewed many times before I left my review (I'd done one a year earlier and nobody contacted her) so when I posted I assumed incorrectly that she wanted reviews. I wasn't the first to review her over her 20+ years.
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an "excuse" to not see you, not a reason. I'd be willing to bet she has some axe to grind besides the review, because you wrote a similar review a year before this one on her and she still saw you again this time. That makes no sense. I have a sense from this contradiction that there may be more to the story that you are not sharing, or do not know. She may not want to see you for some other reason. She has ten reviews going back years, so she has to already know this is where guys post their experiences, and since yours was positive, there is no reason for her to BL you.
If you tell her to post on her website that she does not allow reviews, then she can get delisted and all of her past reviews and her profile will disappear. I have a feeling she doesn't want to do that, but for some reason, she doesn't want YOU as a customer and you writing a review is just a deflection to hide the real reason. Just my take after reading your post.
....she scores pretty high on the Hot/Crazy Matrix and you're better off cutting losses and moving on.
Mo Ginsberg! I shopped there. Gone and so is Eisenbergs for that matter.
Bond Clothiers, Times Square / Broadway: gone, along with all the other Bond stores.
Mo Ginsberg! I shopped there. Gone and so is Eisenbergs for that matter.
a building in OC that was originally a Robert Hall store into medical offices. I remember my dad taking me to one as a kid to buy a suit.
My dad would never have let me set foot inside a Robert Hall. When he bought me suits they were bespoke made from English worsted wool. I'm sorry you led such a deprived childhood. It explains a lot. LOL
of cheap jokes among the extended family. The only consolation was that he had a brother who was worse. I'm not surprised you were raised with a silver spoon up your ass. Lol His cheapness probably explains why I'm an overachiever and unbridled success as an adult. My legacy will be one of generosity, although my own children have accused me of systematically giving away their inheritance. Lol
if you think your financial success automatically explains why you're an "overachiever." For example, in my own family I have a cousin who was raised by a notoriously cheap father. And yet he achieved only modest success. On the other hand, I was raised by a wealthy, self-indulgent father and ended up making millions on my own.
Life generally is more complex than you think.
Holy Moly! I just google-mapped my old neighborhood ... The Robert Hall building structure is still there, but renovated and repurposed for some other retail business. That should make some for nostalgic memories for the current neighborhood kids when it's re-re-re-re-repurposed another 50 years from now.
a building in OC that was originally a Robert Hall store into medical offices. I remember my dad taking me to one as a kid to buy a suit.
...but the jingle lives on:
If the true Dominatrix does not engage in regular sexual activities it’s not beneficial to write a review that could possibly effect her business if she does not post her on TER for bookings. If you read the TER guidelines to truly receive a 10/10 this could never be possible for a real Domme. Did you ask her is she would mind if you wrote her a review here?
My first review here was in 2005, but it was deleted because the gentleman was banned from this board. When we met he asked if I wanted a review. I never know if TER & we did not have sex. We engaged in many adult fun actives, but the naughty deed was never going to happen. Based on the facts & the lack of services I provided at the time because I was not doing BBBJ the best score I could get for massage + DATY was an hard 8. I never read the rules, so I was unaware of the reviewing guidelines on TER.
I feel TER is a good adult community overall, but has always been 1 sided it’s not fun to have 1 direct objective when the possibilities are endless, like my imagination. I myself am strange & unusual. I never wanted to be normal, so how do you cater mi gente? Kinky delights still arouse our tastes & satisfy, or senses. How can we incorporate BDSM into the traditional Escort provider with lowering the value of their skills? I personally, think you should get bonus points for providing Domination & Escort services combined it’s amazing!
alone does not qualify for any additional points above what massage and s & m providers max out at. In the OP's example, all of her reviewers, save two, gave her the maximum score possible for service on the TER grading scale, which is 7, same for a basic escort or a masseuse. Regardless of their market niche, all providers are still eligible for up to a 10 for appearance. If you look near the price listing on her profile, it clearly states this is for S & M services, which is one of the three service choices for a TER profile. Maximum score for an escort is also a 7, unless she also offers DFK, BBBJ and/or anal (or a duo or multiple guys) which add an additional point each to the maximum possible score, up to a 10, so escorts offering fucking alone can score no higher than an S & M provider or a masseuse at 7. Even as an S & M providers, she could enhance her potential score by adding DFK and BBBJ to her S & M menu, and raise her max score to a 9, without having to fuck anybody. No extra points are awarded for DATY, only DFK and BBBJ.
Not understanding the scoring system seems to be endemic among providers here, even for veterans like yourself, based on you believing that the scoring system is slanted towards escorting when it's not. I don't necessarily agree entirely with the point system, because one DFK is worth the same one-point enhancement as a BBBJ, and I don't consider those two activities to be on par with each other (one can take 1 minute and the other one is usually 5-10 minutes, or more), but it is what it is, so understanding the system empowers a provider to decide what her own max score will be by adjusting her menu to set herself up to at least have a shot at a higher score. By greeting a customer with a passionate French Kiss (DFK), she immediately raises her potential max score to 8 instead of 7, whether she fucks the customer or not. That doesn't mean the reviewer HAS to give her the max, it just RAISES the potential to a higher level.
When the session ends, so does her domination of you. You have the freedom to choose to write a review or not. Now if you do want to continue to be dominated by her outside of your sessions, you may want to consider Financial Domination. You can be a good little pay pig and send her most of your money. I'm sure she'll unblock you then.
As far as guys asking her about full service, it just goes to show that the little head can't read.
BTW, your description of the session in your OP is a lot different than your review. Your post describes the session like this:
"...the session was tame."
"...the session was...plain and frankly underwhelming"
"...the session wasn't up to what I'd hoped..."
But your review was a lot more positive. Hmmmm.
When the session ends, so does her domination of you. You have the freedom to choose to write a review or not. Now if you do want to continue to be dominated by her outside of your sessions, you may want to consider Financial Domination. You can be a good little pay pig and send her most of your money. I'm sure she'll unblock you then.
As far as guys asking her about full service, it just goes to show that the little head can't read.
BTW, your description of the session in your OP is a lot different than your review. Your post describes the session like this:
"...the session was tame."
"...the session was...plain and frankly underwhelming"
"...the session wasn't up to what I'd hoped..."
But your review was a lot more positive. Hmmmm.
I was bummed at first but there are many other ladies who visit the D and I've already met a new and better person to spend this kind of time with.
....but I can attest to idiots annoying non FS providers by pestering them for services that they clearly do not offer. There are several nuru spas that I visit and it's explicitly mentioned in their ads and IG page "NO FS". I get requests thru PM's asking me if I got FS (huh?) and if not, will the provider offer it.
You really can't fix stupid.
I think you began to get clingy. Or maybe she said fuck Detroit and this dude.
I don't know and you don't know what happened...only she does. But anyways screw it and move on.
By the way, between you and me....did you try to fuck her??
If she doesn't want a review, she doesn't a review.
why your post does not make sense to me. First, you wrote TWO reviews on her. Second, you were not the first. She has a number of other reviews prior to yours. Why all of a sudden does she take offense? Something does not add up.
What gives?
Do you know if she banned the others??
Do you know if she banned the others??
She might not have been aware of his 2021 review, and the 2021 review didn’t generate inquiries for Full Service.
why your post does not make sense to me. First, you wrote TWO reviews on her. Second, you were not the first. She has a number of other reviews prior to yours. Why all of a sudden does she take offense? Something does not add up.
What gives?
According to her website, she is boycotting touring to Red States with restrictive abortion laws. If she’s not a FS provider, she wouldn’t need an abortion there anyway.
An interesting situation though. Her Red State boycott hurts pro-choice mongers living in those states.
It's obvious her statement is political not practical. She's not actually worried about getting an abortion in a Red State. She just doesn't want to provide service in a place that won't let any other woman get a legal abortion.
Duh.
If nothing else, it's fun to watch.
She can boycott all the red states, and watch her income drop by 2/3 or so. Lots more red than blue states.
Personally, I don’t want to deal with someone who makes their political views dominate their dealings with others.
That’s not what I’m there for, and shouldn’t be what she’s there for.
It's kind of like shooting up a school yard for state policies you don't like.
Did you use the word "DOM" in the review? Cause that could be the problem. You "The Hobbyist" need to be specific when you write reviews on us "The Providers". So, that other "Hobbyists" know what it is that is provided. The Provider should also indicate that She's a "DOM".