I will contact a lady to spend some quality time with.  I don't want to have ladies contacting me and then have to select one and get the others pissed off with "why didn't you pick me" or have to lie to them and say my plans were changed.

Had a couple of girls texting me this Holiday season, when I'm out of town on vacation with family. It's like, gawd .. I have ladies waiting when for me to contact them when I'm available.  I saw one even called but didn't leave a message.

that is as good/reliable as the credibilty and integrity of those who advertise on it. Unfortunately , there are too many women who post fake/stolen picture ,post wrong description and would not deliver as promised.

I rely on trusted , reliable and consistent hobbyists whose judgement and opinions objective and  i also appreciate credible bookers who know my tastes and contact me when a compatible talent arrives to town, I also enjoy providers on new tours letting me know of their imminent arrival.  

I find this to be a system that has , so far served me well . without finding myself flooded by phone calls , text messages and emails.