Well she's the oldest playmate (which is scary to me) and she's a mere 35.....

Some of the most beautiful women I know are in their mid to late thirties yet most of playboy's models are 21 , 22, 23 and I'm afraid many of them don't possess much sex appeal

This Miss January isn't thee most beautiful woman I've seen (although she is beautiful) but she certainly is sexier than many of the other ladies I've seen featured...

Well, I for one am glad this has finally happened...

Here's a link and curious what your comments/reactions are from you guys (AND gals)


GD (Supporter of TER and not the TBD)

Amen  again  that is wonderfull   you mean finally playboy is going to appreciate the older woman.  And thank you gernerous doctor fo loving us older (more experinced, know what we like, not afraid to get it    women.
I truly believe this is the best years of my life (and Im 36 by the way
kara

Let me be the first to say I agree with you in a lot of respects, Doc.  Since my early 20s I've felt that (as a generalization) the sexiest women are those beyond 30yr of age.  The younger ones may be gorgeous as many are, but to me at least, there's something lacking in the "sexy dep't" which goes beyond mere looks alone..it embodies the total woman---not sure I can explain that, but for those who know what I'm talking about it isn't necessary that I do.  Coincidentally I was with a 21yr old (not my usual thing at all) who looked very similar to this gal.  Smokin' looks for sure...pleasant enough personality & all that too--but while the looks were a 9+ there was still something missing that kept the experience from measuring up to the looks.  It's sad in a way that society seems to place so much emphasis on a woman's age when it comes to issues of sexiness & desirability.

And she's Latin.  Not the usual centerfold for Playboy (which is usually a blonde American girl).  Not that there's anything wrong with blonde American girls, it's just that Playboy has a monopoly on them.  Just my two cents.

My ATF is 41.  My 2nd ATF is in her 50s.  I love mature women with well-maintained bodies.  They are SO sexy!!

dept. of Playboy.  How convenient.

escort, of course

that older women have.  As people, they are usually still too unformed to be interesting when you want a peer-to-peer encounter.  I find a substantive woman with brains and a sense of ethics and values, i.e. someone I respect as a person, to be the biggest turn-on.

your comments hit exactly on the meat of the topic so to speak.  You sound young to me just by saying that and what comes through is superficiality.   There is a tremendous sexiness that comes with the ripening of age and it cannot IMHO be denied.  I desire more than just the "hot" bod I am looking for the experience.  

Once you realize that there are 5 senses and that the brain integrates their input, then you will see that sexuality comes to you by all 5 pathways and that your brain is the major sex organ.  Then you can explore the substance of the person as deeply as you like and I think find that there is more to enjoy.  But perhaps that IS your definition of hot.

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It's great to see men who can appreciate that it takes more just looks to be sexy...

I have to say that I think this site is the most evolved of any of the escort messages boards...

Much better than some of the others that would have more immature men saying things like: "I just like the big fake cha cha's" or..."The younger the better"

Glad to see there are some intelligent guys on here who know the difference...

I've met some attractive women in my time, but unless they know how to carry themselves, and be sensual and seductive and truly sexy then it just doesn't do anything for me. I guess that comes with age and maturity....

Glad to see we have some of that here on the board.

A

Just a few weeks ago, standing at the counter in my doctor;s office.  Woman was there with her two beautiful blond daughters - say 19-20 year olds.  One had had an accident with scissors, getting stitches.  My doctors is very friendly, intros me to the family since we have some common work related grounds... and I'm of course eyeing these gordeous young things in the room but it was the MOTHER - probably 45 - that had the aura around her.  You know, that sultry kind of sexual power that just flows without any words.  A few moments talking with them and I suddenly couldn't take my eyes off the mom!  Just the way she held herself, the way she talked, the way her eyes met yours... Hopefully her daughters will inherit some of that chemistry.. but for now, they got nothing on their momma.

All I was saying was, if a woman is hot then age has no bearing.  If a woman is hot and has the advantage of age and experience then that can be the best combination of all.  I was just trying to get to the point.

"Age doesn't matter, hot is hot". Now while I personally find more mature women to be hot for many of the same reasons you do, it is wrong to assume that a younger woman cannot have these same qualities (granted, most younger women don't). Most of my special friends are in their 30's and 40's (and a couple of 50+), but Leah (retired) was only 20 when I met her and she was one of the hottest women I have ever known. She wasn't caught up in her "youthful looks" like so many of the younger women, but she used them to help radiate a true sexuality that was incredible. By denying that "hot is hot", you do a severe disservice to the special few young ladies who actually transcend age and are really hot (not just look hot).

But of course, as is my nature, I used far more words. Maybe my S/O has a point when she says I'm verbose. Damn..... doing it again.

But in so many words you seem to say that most younger ladies do not have what the older ones do.  I just think that wisdom has so much to do with this.  Wisdom comes with experience and unfortunately experience, of quality not quantity, takes time.

Let me say, however, that the younger women often have physical attributes that MOST men find desirable and that is not lost on me.  Find both and we can talk exquisite.

Dear Nicole:  Your photos are beautiful.  You exactly fit the description of my two ATFs here in Chicago.  (Blonde and busty).  Let me know if you ever plan on touring the Midwest.  MQ

Will you still look me up,
Will you still book me up,
When I'm sixty-four?

(real crappy humor, I know)

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Met a girl there who said she was 20. She emailed me pics of herself which happened to include her mom. She was cute, but her momma was absolutely radiant. Said her mom was divorced. Unfortunately, I wasn't  

Whatever floats your boat, Nicole! But I would guess that many here (myself included) would still be lined up to see you and others in your "class".

I wonder how many of us men really do prefer the company of older women? The advertising department of just about every beer manufacturer would have us believe that none of us would be happy unless we had a 20-something attached to our side.