You ought to consider taking a nip or two just before the next session to calm your nerves

There was this one time when the provider had a rabbit cooking...

... in a pot on her stove, and I got pretty nervous. But she explained she was going to make stew for dinner, and I relaxed and had a good time. She even showed me her collection of top-notch butcher knives.  

Ok, sorry for making light of your situation.  

Something like this happened to me, but in reverse. I like to groom "down there" and once I had a couple of ingrown hairs that made me wonder if they were something else.  I researched online but went so far as to get them checked. The doctor told me they were ingrown hairs and how to tell them apart from other, more serious kinds of bumps.  Whew.  

But sometime later I got a couple more ingrown hairs, with bumps, and I was worried that the provider I was seeing would get nervous when she saw them.  She didn't seem to be bothered at all.  I guess providers see enough of those they can tell the difference between ingrown hairs and... something else.

This might sound cavalier but perhaps you should stick with porn.  Why pay top dollar for an anxiety attack?

...but never enough to actually make me question my decision or abort the mission.

AFA the "bumpy pussy" goes - I do have a huge advantage in that area since I am all too familiar with what razor burn looks (and feels like) on a delicate pussy, so something like that would have been a non-issue for me, and I would have proceeded on unconcerned. I pray that I never do encounter anything going on with a providers' privates to warrant a quick exit for fear of contracting something that I would never want to bring home!

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When I'm balls deep, I start worrying that the Russians will nuke us while I'm there and I won't have anything to protect me from the radiation except the condom I'm wearing.  

Okay, now for a serious answer:  I don't think a reputable agency girl is going to work if she has visible signs of a disease, so whatever the bumps are that you saw are probably ingrown hairs, or razor burn.  You are more likely to encounter that type of thing on BP or CL. IMO.  The only thing you really have to worry about is what's inside that you can't see.  Hope this eases your mind a little.

I worry about them being LE.

Lots of times police cars are parked where your going they have to live some where and are always driving around.    I'm with my bag of condoms , toys, lube, Vitamin V, Mouth wash , tooth brush,   Lol.    Only name Given me was LULU , MIMI,  and no last name.    Please don't stop me Lord.   Never confronted anything that looked like disease.    You never know what's behind door one.   10 or a 6.     Ugly doesn't count as a disease.    The catch to Ugly is the cooter is always very good anyway which can give you a 6/10.  Lol.     The point is that all of it is part of the excitement of the encounter and you should enjoy it.    Stay away from back page and use reviewed girls.

But as far as her "Bumps", think of them as goose bumps, that she was "excited" to see you.
And the only other thing that could stress you out, but you didn't mentions was what if you suffer a cardiac arrest, but by then it may not matter.
And the only concern I have is if it's a first time meet, is that I hope we're compatible. But other then that, I never worry in the same fashion as you do. But that's just me, pretty much a carefree sort.

I Never Worry About My Car Getting Towed Because I Ride My;

Honda Ruckus to see a provider.

Motorcycles / Scooters.

When you ride a Motorcycle or Scooter to see a provider it adds a Cool Factor to your Persona. Well that's what the providers tell me when show up to see them.

and  
Always,

look under the bed for the boogyman.

If you are so worried about it then I don't think you should've went through with it!  
If a client comes to see me and he has a bump on his penis that looks suspicious I will not do the session. I'll probably ask for a fee for my troubles and Send him on his meery way, not worth it to risk it at all. A 45 minute of pleasure can cost you your whole life having to deal with herpes on your genitals. No Bueno.

First, I can't say that paranoia has ever gotten the best of me during a session.  The closest I ever got to that was a provider that suggested I should skip putting on the condom since she couldn't get pregnant.  I thought "damn, wonder what a hazmat suit costs..."  But ultimately I just put on a condom and carried on.

Still having a SO, you probably *should* be paranoid.  Many STDs can be transmitted via oral, especially during activities like BBBJ, with risk only going up if she does DT / gagging.  Personally I'm single, and old enough that I no longer give a fuck (I'll just go get the shot of antibiotics next week if needed).  But still I tell providers "let's just not do the DT thing" if she initiates a BBBJ.

But with a SO, at minimum avoid anything without a party hat.  On the other hand, realize that almost nothing can be transmitted with just skin-to-skin contact.  It takes blood or direct mucous membrane (oral, penile, anal, vaginal) contact to transmit anything of any consequence.

Oh, and as far as the car...why not just get a separate credit card and use uber / taxis?

I was reasonably sure it was just shaving bumps, didn't sound like herpes.

As for the issues of paranoia about your SO, there's a solution, it's spelled d-i-v-o-r-c-e.

I can't even imagine the stress that you must be under, I didn't play while I was married, never cheated, and I was always on edge for everything I did and said because she twisted everything around because of her own insecurities. If I had been cheating or hobbying I would have gone mad trying to cover my tracks because she snooped into every aspect of my life.

I sympathize with you situation, but I can assure you, divorce is worth it. Obviously you don't respect her anymore anyway, or else you wouldn't be betraying her by hobbying.