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goodtimesaddict 2187 reads
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...when you get relentless private messages from newbies about a provider you wrote a review on?  I don't mind helping a fellow hobbyist out, especially a newbie, but when there are 20+ reviews for a lady and you're asking a question the reviews clearly answer, it just annoys the living heck out of me.  On a recent review I had three separate gents ask if the provider does something that's clearly spelled out in her latest 10 reviews.  Are people even reading reviews anymore?  SMH.  And don't even get me started on the people who message you asking you to help them set up a date.  Anyways, thanks for letting me vent.  Hobby Safe.

Businesses551 reads

You don't have to reply to them.
You must have a short temper if a simple question/message "annoys the living heck out of [you]"

Posted By: goodtimesaddict
...when you get relentless private messages from newbies about a provider you wrote a review on?  I don't mind helping a fellow hobbyist out, especially a newbie, but when there are 20+ reviews for a lady and you're asking a question the reviews clearly answer, it just annoys the living heck out of me.  On a recent review I had three separate gents ask if the provider does something that's clearly spelled out in her latest 10 reviews.  Are people even reading reviews anymore?  SMH.  And don't even get me started on the people who message you asking you to help them set up a date.  Anyways, thanks for letting me vent.  Hobby Safe.

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London Rayne634 reads

Seriously, I would get annoyed with that shit too. You guys write reviews for a reason...read the things! I've had a few guys PM for reasons other than just wanting to know if I did x, y, or z, and damn right the guys told me that so and so was getting in my fkin business. Too many times a "newbie" is an ex boyfriend, sugar daddy, psychotic client wanting to cause trouble for said provider by finding out if a guy got something. We value our privacy just as much as you guys value yours. If I lick a guy's ass, you think I want that in a review when my profile CLEARLY says I do NOT offer rimming? Um duh.  

If you don't see something in a review, maybe it's not there for a reason as in, she does not want EVERYONE to think they will get that service. A provider can offer cim to 90 guys and not to you..that's her right. Same goes for most anything else, which is why it's known as YMMV. Bottom line...it is really none of anyone's business what a lady did on a date, that is not ALREADY posted publicly in her review. Some guys have more tact than others do, and don't feel the need to dissect every performance down to how many stretch marks she had, or how many inches of c*ck she took.

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Businesses501 reads

Yeah, it's annoying when people ask questions that are answered in reviews or the provider's ad/website.

I don't think OP is getting dozens of messages regarding a few providers.
He probably got a few and is complaining over it.

Posted By: London Rayne
Seriously, I would get annoyed with that shit too. You guys write reviews for a reason...read the things! I've had a few guys PM for reasons other than just wanting to know if I did x, y, or z, and damn right the guys told me that so and so was getting in my fkin business. Too many times a "newbie" is an ex boyfriend, sugar daddy, psychotic client wanting to cause trouble for said provider by finding out if a guy got something. We value our privacy just as much as you guys value yours. If I lick a guy's ass, you think I want that in a review when my profile CLEARLY says I do NOT offer rimming? Um duh.  
   
 If you don't see something in a review, maybe it's not there for a reason as in, she does not want EVERYONE to think they will get that service. A provider can offer cim to 90 guys and not to you..that's her right. Same goes for most anything else, which is why it's known as YMMV. Bottom line...it is really none of anyone's business what a lady did on a date, that is not ALREADY posted publicly in her review. Some guys have more tact than others do, and don't feel the need to dissect every performance down to how many stretch marks she had, or how many inches of c*ck she took.  

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ItalianBella627 reads

From our point of view!! The relentless texts and calls we get and how annoying it is to us!!

Posted By: goodtimesaddict
...when you get relentless private messages from newbies about a provider you wrote a review on?  I don't mind helping a fellow hobbyist out, especially a newbie, but when there are 20+ reviews for a lady and you're asking a question the reviews clearly answer, it just annoys the living heck out of me.  On a recent review I had three separate gents ask if the provider does something that's clearly spelled out in her latest 10 reviews.  Are people even reading reviews anymore?  SMH.  And don't even get me started on the people who message you asking you to help them set up a date.  Anyways, thanks for letting me vent.  Hobby Safe.

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SinCitySinner824 reads

Answer them nicely...

Stop writing the reviews altogether.....

Just ignore..

Tell them to shut the fuck up and go see the gal...

I used to get them a lot back in the days. I rarely get them anymore...

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GaGambler499 reads

but just like London, I fail at it miserably. lol

Yes, I get a rash of PM's sometimes, usually it's one or two offenders that drive you nuts and bother you constantly over minutia.

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inicky46503 reads

So it's not to the point where I need to ignore or say STFU.  And most of the questions are not about something they could have found out by reading the review.  Karma?  I figure if I can help them out now, perhaps they'll help me out down the line.

Posted By: goodtimesaddict
...when you get relentless private messages from newbies about a provider you wrote a review on?  I don't mind helping a fellow hobbyist out, especially a newbie, but when there are 20+ reviews for a lady and you're asking a question the reviews clearly answer, it just annoys the living heck out of me.  On a recent review I had three separate gents ask if the provider does something that's clearly spelled out in her latest 10 reviews.  Are people even reading reviews anymore?  SMH.  And don't even get me started on the people who message you asking you to help them set up a date.  Anyways, thanks for letting me vent.  Hobby Safe.

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case321514 reads

Just delete and move on if it bugs ya!! Save the frustrations for major stuff. I for one am pissed because for some reason every Mexican restaurant insists on letting you're taco sit in the refried beans so it gets soggy by the time you get it. God that just pisses me off!! At least the beers good and cold!!

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anonymousfun592 reads

No, people don’t read. Don’t you know this is a You Tube now. Books on tapes, streaming videos, distance education (wouldn’t want to go to an distantly educated MD).

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SoftlySarah660 reads

Oh- and you forgot Wikipedia. Ack.

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London Rayne591 reads

For some things like Accounting or Dietetics, maybe so...but nothing in a "clinical" field. Certain professions need hands on experience, labs, and internships.

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SoftlySarah634 reads

Imagine learning mediation, public policy or social work without ever dealing with real people. Believe me, this is very common. Frightening.

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London Rayne562 reads

Christ...our educational system is in the shitter. No way any Psychology degree should be offered online, at least not a REAL counseling degree. I actually don't think it's possible to get a counseling degree without a year internship. You can get an MBA or Psychology degree online, but you can't do much with it. An MBA online is like a BS to most employers. I am not saying that some online 'classes' can't be thrown in there like freaking math, but if your entire education was online, most employers frown on that when it is a field that requires dealing with people one on one. Hookers have that shit down bwahahhaaha! Too bad I could not add these last 6 years of "Public Relations" to my resume. :)

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SoftlySarah568 reads

skills with this work, any employer should be honored to hire us! Lol!! But I doubt they could pay us enough.

I actually have had a few clients offer me jobs with their companies because of those skills.

It's a shame they are not more appreciated by the mainstream. ;)

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KSM46637 reads

They become part of your personality and personna. They shine through in an interview or job application even without revealing the source of where those skills and values were acquired.

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