Effort meaning physical exertion…and to an extent the serenading type…performed by the client.In this particular session, effort matters because we were feeding off each other’s energy.  The provider just wouldn’t allow me to rest until completion.  To my chagrin, my finish wasn’t given the chance.  But in the past, there had been big finishes with little exchange of energy.  The vibes seemed like “save your energy, hurry up and finish, and go.”  However, I must admit some of those sessions were on the sensual side with some basic screwing.    To incorporate both spectrum would have been ideal.  So the purpose of the question is poll how providers prefer the session to go?  Keep it simple? Be totally engulfed?But from the lack of responses here I’m guessing the ” just lie back and enjoy” routine is preferred.  Thus, the bulk of effort would come from the provider.  A client expectation?