I used to think that most dudes in this hobby are below average looking, theory being that better looking guys would do well enough in the civi world not to need to hobby.  But as I meet more fellow hobbyists, Ive noticed they tend to be above average looking.   This is a small sample size however.  So lately, I've been wondering if hobbyists tent to be above average looking (speaking very generally, understanding that tastes vary).  Anyway, ladies, what say you on this topic?

I am a older provider (in late 30s) so I know I attract more men in the 50 and up age group... Also, I am not a model or hard body lol... so being a BBW, I will also attract bigger men too.. I think some of them come to us because we ARE NOT the model types lol  

Your standards for hot  men won't be the same as hers .    :
  Is average a five ?  
 Thanks for the morning  laugh .  

than those in NY! LOL!  Having been to more than a few M&Gs in the Big Apple, I've got to admit we are a pretty wormy looking bunch!  No wonder we've gotta pay to play with all these hot young things.

A very honest answer.

Posted By: CaitlynKennedy

I am a older provider (in late 30s) so I know I attract more men in the 50 and up age group... Also, I am not a model or hard body lol... so being a BBW, I will also attract bigger men too.. I think some of them come to us because we ARE NOT the model types lol  
   
 I have had the occasion where the guy is very athletic, and handsome, and or young and sexy...  
   
 But I would say the majority of the clients I see are older, and average to below average looking?  
   
 You think the hot ones do not need to hobby, and correct, but many are married, and do not need or want to meet a civvie, and have it turn into a fatal attraction.  
   
 This way, they get their needs met, with no strings.  So yes handsome guys do hobby... lol  
   
 I love it when I get a younger, hot guy at my door, it is a fun change... but also many of the hotter and younger guys are very self absorbed! So the  other clients actually will be sexually more satisfying!  
   
 I live in the heart of Silicon Valley, so the other types I get are over worked computer geeks lol They tend to not be the best at "game" or social skills with women, so they hobby too I actually get along with the geeks, as I too am a geek lol  
   
 I see many East Indians/Asians who work here in computers... not on my handsome list so much, but many are very sweet !  
   
 All in all, the looks really mean nothing anyways... as the less handsome and nerdier clients almost always treat me better and show more appreciation!

There are far more Jack Klugmans than Hugh Jackmans.

So ladies, would a 9 get a better service/time from you than a 6?
I mean, YMMV is true, right?

All I can think of when attending those gathering is that "damn, i guess I am not that bad after all" and I also know that when many a lady opens the door, I might not get looks of "damn he's hot" but I do recognize the look of relief I get and I can tell the lady is thinking to herself that "ok, this is not going to be so bad" lol

I have to admit, opening the door to Java the Hut is an occupational hazard for these ladies and I think they deserve hazard pay for doing so.  I know I could NEVER in a million years fuck the female equivalent of many of the hobbyists I have met over the years. Not for any amount of money in the world could I do it.

like as I stated above, if that 9 is all cocky, arrogant, self absorbed, and we have nothing to talk about or there is no connection, besides he is pretty to look at, and the 6 comes in and is funny, personable, passionate, and attentive and appreciative, he is laid back, easy going, and as you talk, you find out you have things in common and you establish a connection,  well then at least for me, the 6 will get the "better" service because it will be more genuine, and real.

I always thought of myself as an 8.

Maybe I am just lucky, but I do think I get better service then a fat ugly 5 or 6. I have seen the look of relief on provider faces when I walk in.

Tell me something. Would you rub your hands about the contour of my hard chest the same way you would with a fat out of shape guy with man boobs? I think not.

I think that most providers who say the same service will apply to all are being a little disingenuous.

If you came in, and were NOT cocky, self absorbed, ego tistical...  

I can not rate you ANYTHING! We all have personal tastes in the civvie world, and you might be one woman/s ideal type and you will be a 9 to her...  

If I am getting a better chest rub, I am also getting more and better DFK a better BBBJ and better fucking. See, it's not just luck

There are the fat, bald, and/or ugly that pay to see women.

the guy who never learned how to talk to women, he is super shy, he is a computer or gaming geek... he is more at home with his DnD miniatures than flirting...  

I did not appreciate the "geeks, nerds" till being with him... you want a good man, who will appreciate you, and be a good bf? Date a geek! lol

solid 7s, 8s and 9s that do this because it's way easier than trying to hook up in a bar and bring all that baggage home with you.

me too But oh, the guy should have strong arms...

I am not a small gal, and when I orgasm over and over for 30 min, and  he is doing it right, my thighs and hips are all over lol! strong arms to hold em still!!!

actually, I think I've met that guy several times at various different M&Gs.

I met a comic book guy from the simpsons, and he was trying to sell me comic book. For real.

Are you saying most of us look dead?

Maybe I look like a "7" after lady has had a few drinks!! Lol!
of course if you factor in my "charm", "wit" and "endearing personaity" and my exceptional "skills" and a lot of alcohol I am a SOLID 10!!!!! LOL!

just like the people you see at the grocery store. ballgame or beach.

or 10. is not better at sex because of it.  

A dodecahedron is twelve-sided. An icosahedron is twenty- sided.

I've long wondered how important looks were to the ladies. Are the ladies relieved to see me when I walk in the door? I'm early thirties, physically fit, 6 ft tall w/ a 30 inch waste. I'm not George Clooney, but I'm not gross in any way and my face is at least average. Or do they see so much dick and male ass that it all starts looking the same after a while: one more john down--two more to go and I get to home! I think it is the latter in most cases, though no lady will ever be honest during a session. I suppose if they wouldn't have sex with me in their free time, they aren't thrilled to be having sex with me at work either. Incidentally, as to the question why we hobby. How many men can honestly say they can fuck a hot new girl (including many in their early twenties) every few weeks without paying for it? Most guys I know who have done it fucked women who were not appealing to me at all. For those of you who can or could pull quantity and quality consistently, more power to you. But that is not the norm even for attractive men.