maybe you have gone to the well too many times? I try to put myself in the other person's place. In some areas persistence is admirable.........in others........not so much. Only she knows her comfort level........when all else fails.........regroup.
I saw that a new provider had moved to my area so I sent an email with my info in an attempt to set up an appointment. A couple days passed with no response, so I sent another email in case my first got dumped into the spam folder (its happened before). Not my info again, just asking if she had seen my first. A couple more days passed with no response, I tried filling out her website form. A week passed and still nothing, my TER profile got promoted to VIP again so I thought to try sending a TER message. A few more days passed and here we are. I tried one more email today, so hopefully that will get a response.
Normally I know better than to repeatedly try to communicate like this. I admit to being overeager in this case because the lady in question is EXACTLY what I have been looking for in a provider and wonder of wonders has moved to my area.
I would like to add that is she had written me rejecting me as a client for whatever reason I would politely thank her for her time, wish her well and let the matter drop. Without a response however i am acting on the assumption that it is a communication problem, which is why i am being so persistent.
This lady is Highly well reviewed and is still posting fresh ads so i know she is still active.
Does anybody have any advice on how i should best proceed? or has anybody ever had a similar experience? how did that turn out?
If any Lady's are reading this, isn't it considered polite to respond to those your reject as well as those you accept
Dude, it's not 5 strikes and your out you know, it's three. LOL
And three is proly one two many.
Let me help you in how to proceed.
STOP!
You are stalking her at this point.
Leave her be
While yes, it is polite and good business practice to respond with some sort of answer, nowhere is it spelled she should. If she's interested in seeing you, more than likely she'll be in touch. If she's not, let the chips fall where they may and move on. That's my suggestion. Now smile and find another playmate 
Gia xo
...energy to the next exact girl of yours, who will be quicker to response.
By the way, she could have a slow assistant as one of the many reasons why you haven't gotten a word from her. Next!
If your post here doesn't elicit a response from her, move on. Her silence is deafening. Don't waste any more of your time trying to contact her. Good luck.
Not going to go into all the details but I emailed a provider with all the info she wanted which included my references. She even asked where I worked. Never heard back. The kicker is she sent me a private message on TER a year later asking me a question. I answered and asked if she would set a date with me. Nothing. Some things we'll never know.
Seems to work well for me most of the time.
But we all have a threshold for indifference ...
what is yours?
Since she's travelling in you're area, she may
have booked quickly, but communication in a
timely manner is always appreciated, even
when it's someone you've seen already. Doesn't
always happen tho.
IMHO, that sucks and is unprofessional.
maybe you have gone to the well too many times? I try to put myself in the other person's place. In some areas persistence is admirable.........in others........not so much. Only she knows her comfort level........when all else fails.........regroup.
...its time to put her on your own "do not see" list and move on. Some providers are truly just ass-holes and ignore innocent queries. Fuck 'em. Most, however, will at least reply to a polite email. I recently received a reply 2 months later from a provider who said that my email accidentally wound up in her spam folder. You just never know.
The bottom line - would you really still want to see a provider who doesn't even respond to your emails?
Spam folder my ass.
I can't imagine telling a client I was so fking horrible at business that I didn't regularly check my spam folder.
Nothing says "I don't give a fuck about you" more than not checking the only other logical folder there is to check!
It's not like there is a few hundred spam bins. There is......ONE!
And the last time I counted, one is only one more than zero. LOL
Ladies, email, contrary to popular opinion, is not new anymore so let's bury that horseshit excuse once and for all.
I come up with a little slogan to make this easy for y'all:
"Check spam, get sperm." 
....but I gotta admit at least she replied. It was way too late, of course - but she did reply. Which is more than I can say for some. But if there is a bright side, the prompt responders heavily outweigh the stupid/clueless/cunty ones by a very wide margin, at least in my experience.
Hope you appreciate the fact that you are one of the few hobbyist on here who can say, "cunty" without getting bitch slapped into last week.
I don't always apply the same IRL restraint and skepticism that I might when I hobby. I said sometime.
The last thing anyone wants is a oh well, ok, I'll fuck you. I don't.
IRL, you live and learn and don't return! P4P, I glady pay for full service whether you ARE into it, or if you're Meryl fucking Streep.
Big head thinking instead of my brain ... lo
I so want to change my handle to that.
but once you started posting here again ... you know 1+1 ... dead giveaway, you have your own style h+t ... oh yeah.
Nope. Some ladies want to do ALL of their own work and refuse to hire someone to help with the hundreds of emails they get, but being none responsive is a sure way to end up on many Do Not See Lists fast. I scratch providers off my list for being non responsive. It's just bad business.
It truly depends on the nature of your email. I wouldn't reply to someone that was disrespectful, rude or vulgar in any way. However if someone did not pass the light screening, or made me uncomfortable somehow or my schedule doesn't allow for me to book an appointment with them, I would absolutely and politely reply to reject the invitation with my reasons. However seeming as you truly want to see her so bad I doubt you've done anything of the sort.
It's definitely possible for more than one of your emails to get lost in spam for weeks or months. Or perhaps she may never see them if she doesn't go through her spam folder at all. I had an experience where I decided to clean up my spam folder. I came across 5 emails from the same email account from within the last month and a half at the time. I felt bad that they tried to get a hold of me and couldn't. So on his first visit I gave him a little bit of extra time with me. Now he is a regular client.
Another possibility is that your email address may look similar to another email address she's ignoring. Have you tried contacting her with a different email address? Is emailing her the only way of getting a hold of her? Does she provide a phone number? If so give her a call and if you prefer I email give her a call and ask her to check her email for your message.
It must be a frustrating time for you! So I'm wishing you the best of luck!
you've probably built her up in your mind more than she in reality would measure up to (the old "i can't have it so i want it more" syndrome).
she's not worth it. there is no golden p*ssy in this business. there are people that get along with other people well, that's what to look for. and since you haven't even seen her yet, she is obviously not someone that is worth worrying about.
move on. there's nobody that is EXACTLY what you are looking for more than anybody else. you found one lady that seems to fit, trust me, there's plenty of others out there. just keep looking.
she is either (a) busy (b) not getting your emails or (c) rude and a flake. none of it is worth getting bent out of shape over.
This kinda says it all to me. She probably has a booker and is overwhelmed by the demands. They're also probably looking at multi hours dates and skipping the 1 hour gigs. Me? I'd move along and if she gets back to you, and you're still feeling it, then go hit it.
get the hint my friend. I'm pretty sure there's another provider out there for you. How many times could you possibly keep writing. I would just let her be, if she's not answering she's either too busy (which us providers never are to answer an email) or for some reason she's not interested, the fact that you keep on writing to her probably leaves a bad taste in her mouth. In my humble opinion maybe you should move on.
Unless you are saying,"! Want to see you on X date for X hours you're probably considered a "tire kicker". Girls get 100s of emails when they tour. Not all of them are date requests. Be SPECIFIC. She's not a mind reader. I also use 411 to contact providers. It seems better for getting a response for date requests. Keep in mind the saying,
I will pay for pussy,
I will beg for pussy
But I will NOT beg to pay for pussy.
Sounds like you're starting to beg.
Normally I know better than to repeatedly try to communicate like this. I admit to being overeager in this case because the lady in question is EXACTLY what I have been looking for in a provider and wonder of wonders has moved to my area.
I would like to add that is she had written me rejecting me as a client for whatever reason I would politely thank her for her time, wish her well and let the matter drop. Without a response however i am acting on the assumption that it is a communication problem, which is why i am being so persistent.
This lady is Highly well reviewed and is still posting fresh ads so i know she is still active.
Does anybody have any advice on how i should best proceed? or has anybody ever had a similar experience? how did that turn out?
If any Lady's are reading this, isn't it considered polite to respond to those your reject as well as those you accept?
You crossed a line somehow in your first message such as suggesting sex for pay, or similar wording.
You may be listed in some black list, or she checked your references and found them wanting.
She might have also read your reviews and decided that you and she are not a good fit.
Most gals don't bother to communicate with guys they already have decided are a no-go. It's not worth their time or emotional energy.
So, time to move on
if you have seen her ads etc. Move on. The more you persist now, the worse you will make it.
Knew what the majorities answer was going to be before I asked. Just one of those situations where I wanted to hear the answer back before I did it. I will listen to calmer minds and drop trying to contact the lady in question. As much as I would have loved to see this beautiful provider, I would hate to be viewed as some kind of creepy stalker. Oh well as others have said, there are plenty of other fish in the sea.